Izincazelo zika-Ibn Sirin ngephupho lokubopha umuntu ephusheni

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho ngomuntu oboshiweIjele yindawo lapho umuntu ajeziswa khona ngokwenza ubugebengu, pho-ke kuthiwani ngokuchazwa kwephupho ngomuntu oboshiwe? Impela, lo mbono uvusa imizwa engemihle njengokwethuka nokwesaba phakathi komnikazi wayo, ikakhulukazi uma isiboshwa singumuntu othandekayo kuye, njengoyise noma umfowabo, noma ukubona umuntu ofile eboshiwe ephusheni kwenza lowo ophuphayo azizwe esolisa futhi ekhathazekile. isiphetho sakhe, futhi ukuthola zonke izincazelo zokubona umuntu eboshiwe ephusheni, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi indoda noma owesifazane, ungakwazi Bheka lesi sihloko.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho ngomuntu oboshiwe

Izazi zazihlukene ekuchazeni iphupho lomuntu eboshiwe, ngakho sithola:

• U-Al-Nabulsi uthi ukubona umuntu eboshiwe ephusheni kubonisa ukunqoba kwakhe izitha zakhe.
• U-Ibn Sirin uhumusha iphupho lokuboshwa komuntu njengesixwayiso kumboni ukuthi ayeke ukwenza izono nezono futhi aphenduke ngaphambi kokuba azisole.
• Kuthiwa ukubona isiguli ejele akuyona into efiselekayo futhi kukhomba ukuthi usondela emhlanganweni wakhe nabathandekayo bakhe kwabafileyo, njengoba ijele ephusheni lesiguli lifanekisela ithuna.
• Ukuze intombazane ibone umngane wayo ejele kuwuphawu lokuthi ingumngane othembekile ogcina izimfihlo futhi ogcina ukuphepha.
• Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nomuntu ocebile oboshiwe kungase kubonise ubumpofu nokulahlekelwa yimali.
• Ezinye izazi zachaza ukuthi ukubona umuntu eboshiwe endaweni ephakeme kungase kubonise umphuphi ukuthola isikhundla esibalulekile kanye nesikhundla esihloniphekile.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nomuntu oboshwe ngu-Ibn Sirin

Iyini incazelo ka-Ibn Sirin ngephupho lokubopha umuntu ephusheni?

• U-Ibn Sirin ubhekisela ekuboneni umuntu eboshiwe ephusheni ngenxa yokwehluleka komphuphi ukunamathela enkolweni yakhe nokulahla kwakhe izibopho ezithile.
• Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nomuntu oboshiwe kungase kube isixwayiso sokuthi umbukeli uzovezwa inkinga yezempilo.
• Ijele, ngokusho kuka-Ibn Sirin, lifanekisela ububi, futhi ukubona umuntu eboshwe ephusheni ngumphuphi kungase kusho ukuthi uzolinyazwa noma uzondwa, futhi kufanele aqaphele.
• Noma ubani obona umuntu eboshiwe ejele eliminyene futhi elingcolile ephusheni, lokhu kuyinkomba yezenzo zakhe ezimbi kanye nokwenza kwakhe izono nokungalungile empilweni yakhe.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokuboshwa kowesifazane ongashadile

Izincazelo zephupho lomuntu obopha owesifazane ongashadile zahluka phakathi kokuncomekayo nokusolwayo, njengokuthi:

• U-Al-Nabulsi uthi owesifazane ongashadile obona umuntu eboshiwe ephusheni uzohlanganiswa nomuntu ozinikele enkolweni onesimilo esihle.
• Iphupho mayelana nomuntu oboshiwe intombazane lingase libonise imizwa yakhe yesizungu nokudabuka empilweni yakhe.
• Ukuphupha ebona umuntu ofile ejele lakhe elele kumtshela impilo ende.
• Uma umbonisi ebona ukuthi usiza umuntu ukuthi aphume ejele, usuke eyintombazane elungile ethanda ukwenza okuhle nokusiza abaswele.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nomuntu obopha owesifazane oshadile

Ukuchazwa kwephupho mayelana nomuntu obopha owesifazane oshadile akuyona into efiselekayo:

• Ukubona owesifazane oshadile eboshiwe ephusheni lakhe kubonisa ukuthi uhlushwa izinkathazo nemithwalo esindayo empilweni yakhe, kangangokuthi uzizwa sengathi umuzi wakhe ufana nejele kuye.
• Uma inkosikazi ibona umyeni wakhe emi ngemuva kweziboshwa ephusheni lakhe, isimo sakhe sezezimali singase sibe sibi kakhulu futhi angase ahlupheke ngenxa yobunzima nobumpofu empilweni yakhe.
• Ukubuka owesifazane elele ngomuntu wezihlobo zakhe ongena ejele edangele kukhomba ukuthi usenkingeni futhi udinga usizo.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nomuntu obopha owesifazane okhulelwe

• Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nomuntu oboshiwe okhulelwe kungase kubonise izinkinga zokukhulelwa kanye nomuzwa wokwesaba nokukhathazeka kokubeletha, ngakho-ke umbono uyiphupho nje lepayipi mayelana nokukhathazeka kwakhe kwengqondo.
• Uma owesifazane okhulelwe ebona umuntu ephusheni ebonisa ukuboshwa, lokhu kungase kufanekisela ukuthi uthatha umthwalo wemfanelo omusha, ikakhulukazi uma lo mntwana engumntwana wakhe wokuqala.
• Ukukhala kwesiboshwa ephusheni lowesifazane okhulelwe kuyancomeka futhi kumemezela ukukhululeka, ukukhululeka, nokuphumula ngemva kokukhathala.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokuboshwa kukababa

Akungabazeki ukuthi abaningi bethu bangaphatheka kabi uma sibona ubaba eboshiwe emaphusheni ethu, pho kuyini? Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokuboshwa kukababa؟

• Noma ubani obona uyise eboshwe ngokungafanele ebuthongweni bakhe uzwa ukwesaba okukhulu ngento ayifihlayo.
• Uma umphuphi ebona uyise eboshiwe ephusheni, kodwa egqoke izingubo ezimhlophe ezihlanzekile, khona-ke lokhu kuyinkomba yokuyeka ukukhathazeka kwakhe nokuphela kwezinkinga.
• Ukuchazwa kwephupho lokuboshwa kukababa kungase kubhekisele ebuningini bezikweletu zakhe kanye nokuthwala kwakhe imithwalo esindayo empilweni yakhe ukuze anikele ukuze anikeze impilo ehloniphekile emndenini wakhe.

Ngiphuphe ubaba wami ongasekho esejele 

Izincazelo zombono engiphuphe ubaba wami ongasekho ejele ziyehluka ngokwesimo sakhe ephusheni, njengokuthi:

• Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nobaba oshonile oboshwe endaweni ekhanyayo futhi esesimweni esihle kubonisa injabulo yakhe ethuneni lakhe kanye nenduduzo endaweni yakhe yokugcina yokuphumula.
• Uma umphuphi ebona uyise oshonile ejele elimnyama neliminyene, futhi ekhala, khona-ke lokhu kungase kubonise izenzo zakhe ezimbi kuleli zwe, ukuzisola kwakhe, ukuntula kwakhe induduzo ekuphileni kwangemva kokufa, nesidingo sakhe sokucela intethelelo.
• Ukubona ubaba oshonile ejele ethukuthele ephusheni kungase kube isixwayiso kuye ukuba angazitisi ngezinjabulo zezwe futhi anake isijeziso sikaNkulunkulu.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho ngejele lomfowethu

Ezimweni eziningi, izincazelo zephupho lokubopha umzalwane ephusheni azifiseleki, njengokuthi:

• Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nomzalwane oboshiwe ngenkathi eshadile kungase kubonise ukungazinzi kwempilo yakhe kanye nokwenzeka kokuhlukana kwakhe nomkakhe.
• Ukubona umzalwane eboshiwe ephusheni kungase kubonise ukuthi uzoba nenkinga yempilo.
• Uma umphuphi ebona umfowabo njengesiboshwa ebuthongweni bakhe, khona-ke angase adinge iseluleko, isiqondiso, noma ukusekelwa ngokwezimali.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho ngejele likamama

Ukuboshwa kukamama ephusheni kuwumbono onecala, futhi izincazelo zawo zihlanganisa:

• Uma umphuphi ebona unina eboshiwe futhi edabukile ephusheni lakhe, lokhu kubonisa ukuthi uzobhekana nezinkinga nezithiyo ekuphileni kwakhe.
• Ukuboshwa komama ngaphakathi kwendlu elahliwe ephusheni kungase kubonise ukungakwazi komboni ukufeza imigomo yakhe nokufinyelela amaphupho akhe.
• Ukubona owesifazane ongashadile unina eboshiwe ephusheni ufanekisela isimo sakhe esibi esingokwengqondo nokulahlekelwa kwakhe isithakazelo, ukunakekelwa nomusa empilweni yakhe.
• Ukubuka owesifazane oshadile ukuthi unina uboshiwe ejele elimnyama ephusheni kusho ukungabi namandla nokunganaki kwakhe lapho ebhekene nomthwalo wemfanelo wezingane zakhe kanye nomuzwa wakhe wokuphoqeleka.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokuboshwa komyeni

Ngenkathi sifuna incazelo yephupho lokuboshwa komyeni, sithola ukuthi kunezincazelo ezitusekayo nezinecala, ngokwesimo somyeni ephusheni, njengokuthi:

• Ngowesifazane oshadile, ebona umyeni wakhe eboshiwe ephusheni, futhi ekhathazekile, kungase kubonise ukubandakanyeka kwakhe enkingeni enzima noma inkinga, futhi kufanele ame ngakuye futhi amsekele.
• Kuthiwa ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokuboshwa komyeni ngenkathi emomotheka ephusheni kubonisa injabulo yakhe nomkakhe nezingane.
• Ezinye izazi zazihumusha owesifazane okhulelwe ebona umyeni wakhe eboshiwe njengenkomba yokukhathazeka kwakhe ngezindaba zakhe, ukumeseka kwakhe ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa, nokuhlinzekwa kokunakekelwa okuphelele kwakhe.
• U-Ibn Sirin uhumusha iphupho lokuboshwa komyeni njengenkomba yokuqhelelana kwakhe nomndeni wakhe nokuhlukana nabo, noma njengenkomba yezenzo ezithile ezinqatshelwe futhi ezisolisayo eziqeda isibusiso ekuphileni kwabo.
• Uma indoda isivele iboshiwe, futhi inkosikazi ibona ephusheni lakhe ukuthi uboshiwe futhi ekhala, khona-ke lokhu kuyizindaba ezinhle zokukhululwa kwakhe.

Ukubona umuntu omthandayo eboshiwe ephusheni

Ososayensi banikeze izincazelo ezihlukahlukene zokubona umuntu omthandayo eboshiwe ephusheni, ngenxa yamazinga ahlukene okuzala kwakhe.Kungaba isihlobo, umngane, isithandwa, noma omunye wezingane zomphuphi, njengokuthi:

• Kuthiwa ukubona umuntu omthandayo eboshiwe ephusheni lowesifazane ongashadile kubonisa umshado ku-knight wamaphupho akhe, futhi ukuboshwa ephusheni kuwuphawu lwehhashi lomshado.
• Noma ubani obona ephusheni umuntu amthandayo futhi othandekayo kuye ejele, kungase kuphakame ingxabano phakathi kwabo, okuholela ekuhlukanisweni kobudlelwane.
• Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho ngomuntu omthandayo oboshiwe kungase kubonise ukuhlukana nokufa komuntu othandekayo.
• Uma owesifazane oshadile ebona omunye wezingane zakhe ejele ephusheni, kungenzeka ukuthi unenkinga yengqondo futhi akamnaki, ngakho kufanele anakekele futhi anikeze iseluleko.
• Indoda ebona umngane wayo njengesiboshwa ephusheni bese imnika ukhiye, ngakho udinga usizo lwakhe futhi ime eduze kwakhe.

Ngiphuphe ngisejele

Ngiphuphe ngisejele, umbono onezincazelo ezihlukahlukene futhi ohlukile kulokho engakubona komunye, njengokuthi:

• U-Ibn Sirin uthi noma ubani owayezizwa ekhathazekile futhi edangele empilweni yakhe futhi wabona ukuthi ungaphakathi ejele futhi walunguza ngefasitela futhi wabona ukukhanya, uNkulunkulu uzokhulula ngokushesha ukucindezeleka kwakhe.
• Ngiphuphe ngisejele ngesikhathi ngidivosile, umbono ukhombisa umshado futhi, noma ngokubuyela kumyeni wakhe wakudala uma edabukile ephusheni lakhe, noma ngokuxhumanisa nomuntu ofanele futhi aqale impilo entsha uma ezwa. ujabule ngesikhathi eboshiwe.
• Uma i-bachelor ibona ephusheni ukuthi iboshiwe, ingase ishade ngokushesha nentombazane ehlala nayo impilo enokuthula nezinzile.

Ijele labangasekho ephusheni

Iyini incazelo yejele elifile ephusheni?

• U-Ibn Sirin uthi noma ubani obona umuntu ofile wayeyindoda elungile kulo mhlaba eboshiwe ephusheni entokozweni ethuneni lakhe, futhi umbono uyizindaba ezinhle zesiphetho sakhe esihle.
• Kuthiwa ukubona umphuphi ebulala umuntu ofile ngaphakathi ejele kuyinkomba yokuqeda inkinga enkulu ebingalungiseki futhi ephazamisa impilo yakhe.
• Uma umphuphi ebona omunye wezihlobo zakhe ezifile ejele ephusheni futhi ekhala kabi, khona-ke udinga ukuthandaza futhi amnike izipho.
• Ukubona ijele labafileyo ephusheni lifanekisela ukuthi umboni ungumuntu ongafezi isivumelwano.
• Ukubona isiboshwa esifile ephusheni kungase kube inkomba yezikweletu zakhe angazange azikhokhe ngaphambi kokufa kwakhe, futhi umphuphi kufanele akhokhe isikweletu.

Incazelo yokubona umuntu eboshwe ngaphandle kwejele ngephupho

Sizoxoxa ngezincazelo ezibaluleke kakhulu zezazi zokubona umuntu eboshiwe ephusheni ngaphandle kwejele:

• U-Ibn Shaheen uhumusha ukubona umuntu eboshwe ngaphandle kwejele ephusheni njengophawu lokukhululeka ngemva kokucindezeleka.
• Uma umboni eboshiwe futhi ebona ephusheni iminyango yejele ivulelwa kuye, khona-ke ubumsulwa bakhe buzovela futhi uzothola inkululeko yakhe.
• Obona umuntu ofile ephuma ejele ngephupho, lokhu kuyinkomba yokuphenduka kwakhe ekwenzeni izono nokungalungile empilweni yakhe.
• Ukubona isiboshwa esizithwele siphuma ejele ngephupho, kwaxegiswa namaketango, kuyinkomba yokubeletha umntwana wesilisa omuhle.
• Ukubuka owesifazane ohlukanisile ekhulula isiboshwa ephusheni lakhe kummemezela ngokushabalala kwezinkinga empilweni yakhe, ukuphela kwezinkinga nezinkathazo, ukuthola kwakhe amalungelo aphelele, nomuzwa wenduduzo nokuthula ngemva kokukhathala kwengqondo.
• Abanye osomthetho bahumusha ukuphuma ejele ephusheni ngezindlela ezimbili, eyokuqala iwukuphuma kwesiboshwa emini, njengoba abahumushi bemdumisa futhi bakhomba ukuthi kuyisiqalo sempilo entsha ekhanyayo yomphuphi lapho efinyelela khona umgomo wakhe. izifiso kanye nokukhathala.