Ukubona ukweqa emaphoyiseni ngephupho kungenye yemibono evamile abantu abayibonayo, futhi lo mbono uphethe izincazelo ezahlukene kuye ngokuthi isimo somzimba nengqondo yomuntu obonayo. Ukuphupha ukweqa emaphoyiseni ephusheni ngokuvamile kuhunyushwa njengokubonisa umuzwa womuntu wokwesaba, ukungazethembi nokukhathazeka ngezenzakalo ezizayo. Leli phupho liphinde likhombise isifiso somuntu sokuhlala kude nezinkinga nezinselelo abhekana nazo ezimbangela isiyaluyalu nengcindezi.

Umhumushi odumile u-Ibn Sirin uthathwa njengomunye wabahumushi bamaphupho abadume kakhulu emlandweni wamaSulumane, njengoba wayenolwazi olukhulu ekuchazeni imibono nezimpawu. Ngobuhlakani bakhe nokuqonda okujulile kwencazelo yamaphupho, uhumusha iphupho lokweqa emaphoyiseni njengelisho ukuthi umuntu olibonayo unokukhathazeka nokushuba okudalwa ukwenzeka kwento abengayilindele. Kodwa lokhu kukhathazeka akulungile, ngakho kumelwe athembele kuNkulunkulu futhi abe nethemba ngekusasa lakhe.

Kowesifazane ongashadile, ukubona ukuphunyuka emaphoyiseni ephusheni kuyinkomba yokuba khona kwezinkinga ezingokwengqondo nokucindezeleka ekuphileni kwakhe kwansuku zonke, futhi angase abhekane nobunzima ekufinyeleleni imigomo nezifiso zakhe. Owesifazane ongashadile angase azizwe ecasukile futhi engokomzwelo futhi afune indlela yokuphuma esimweni sakhe samanje, ngakho uzibona ephusheni ebalekela amaphoyisa futhi ecasha endaweni ephephile. Kodwa lo mbono ubonisa nokuthi owesifazane ongashadile uzonqoba izinkinga zakhe ezingokwengqondo futhi afinyelele imigomo yakhe siqu, futhi kufanele asebenzise lo mbono njengesikhuthazo sokushintsha nokuguqula kube ngcono, futhi anqobe izimo ezinzima abhekene nazo. Kumelwe athembele kuyena nakuNkulunkulu ukuze afinyelele imigomo yakhe futhi alwe nayo yonke imizwa engemihle emhluphayo.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokuphunyuka emaphoyiseni kowesifazane oshadile kubonisa ukuba khona kwezinkinga ezithile zomshado nokuphila ezidinga izixazululo futhi zihlobene nobuhlobo bombhangqwana. Umbono ungase ubonise ukuthi inkosikazi ibhekene nezingcindezi ekuphileni kwayo komshado, futhi ngenxa yalokho izizwa icindezelekile futhi yesaba imiphumela yezinto ebuhlotsheni bayo bomshado. Inkosikazi ingase yesabe ukuthi noma iliphi iphutha elenziwa umyeni noma noma yikuphi ukuziphatha okungafanele kuyoyithinta, futhi lokhu kubonisa ukuntula ukumethemba okwanele umngane womshado nesifiso sokulawula izindaba. Ngakho-ke, kubalulekile ukuba owesifazane oshadile asebenzele ekuthuthukiseni ukwethembana phakathi kwakhe nomyeni wakhe futhi axoxe kahle naye ukuze anqobe lezi zinkinga futhi athuthukise ukuphila kwabo komshado, ngokuthola izixazululo ezivumelana nezinhlangothi zombili.

Iphupho lowesifazane okhulelwe lokweqa emaphoyiseni lithathwa njengelinye lamaphupho avusa ukwesaba nokukhathazeka, ikakhulukazi uma kubhekwa isimo sokukhulelwa esitholwa owesifazane ocasulwe yizinto zangaphandle.Kodwa-ke, umuntu kufanele abe nethemba mayelana nokuba semthethweni kwe leliphupho. Ekuchazeni iphupho, leli phupho libonisa isidingo sokuvikelwa nokuphepha kowesifazane okhulelwe, futhi libonisa nokuba khona kokwesaba noma ukungezwani kwangaphakathi. Ngaphezu kwalokho, lo mbono ubuye usho ukungathembeki emaqenjini anomthwalo wemfanelo kanye nesifiso sokuhlala kude nezinxushunxushu.

Ngowesifazane ohlukanisile, ukubona ukuphunyuka emaphoyiseni ephusheni kubonisa izinkinga nezithiyo angase abhekane nazo ekuphileni kwakhe kwansuku zonke. Iphupho lingase libonise ukuthi uzama ukubalekela izimo ezinzima ezimlindele esikhathini esizayo, noma ukuthi uhlangabezana nobunzima ekuvezeni yena nemizwa yakhe. Ngakho-ke, kunconywa ukugxila ekuthuthukiseni ukuxhumana kwangaphakathi nokuthuthukisa ukuzethemba. Iphupho lingase futhi libonise isidingo sokulahla ubudlelwano obuthile obungalungile noma imikhuba emibi evimbela intuthuko yakhe futhi ithinte umbono wakhe wokuphila. Ngakho-ke, kufanele asebenze ukuze azibekele imigomo emisha, ayisebenzele ngokuzimisela nangamandla, futhi aqhelelane nezimo ezimbangela ukukhungatheka nokucindezeleka. Ekugcineni, kufanele azethembe futhi akhe kabusha ukuzethemba kwakhe emandleni akhe okunqoba ubunzima nezinkinga.

Indoda izibona ibalekela amaphoyisa ngephupho iphupho elijwayelekile kodwa incazelo yalo ithini? Izazi zokuhumusha amaphupho zibheka lo mbono ukuze ubonise insindiso ezitheni nasezinkingeni, futhi ubonisa inkululeko nokunqoba ezimweni ezinzima. Kodwa leli phupho lingabhekwa njengesibonakaliso sokuthi umuntu uphendukela ekubalekeleni izinkinga esikhundleni sokubhekana nazo, ngakho-ke kubalulekile ukuthi umuntu afune izizathu ezimcindezela ekuziphatheni okunjalo.

Abantu abaningi abashadile bazizwa bekhathazekile futhi besaba ukubona ukweqa emaphoyiseni emaphusheni abo, futhi bafuna incazelo yalo mbono ongavamile. Izazi zokuchaza amaphupho zithi kuwubufakazi bokusindiswa ezitheni, kodwa kunezinye izincazelo ezibonisa izingcindezi ezingokwengqondo indoda eshadile ebhekana nayo, futhi ingase isebenzise ukuphunyuka njengesixazululo sezinkinga zayo. Kumelwe abhekane nezinkinga zakhe ngendlela efanele futhi angaphendukeli ekubalekeni isikhashana. Kumelwe ibekezele futhi iphikelele futhi isebenze ukuze ixazulule izinkinga zayo ngokuhlakanipha nangosizo lomkayo. Akufanele wesabe amaphoyisa futhi ucele intethelelo futhi ubuyele kuNkulunkulu, ngoba uNkulunkulu ungumsindisi kuzo zonke izinkinga nokucindezeleka, futhi Uyosiza indoda eshadile ukuba inqobe izinkinga zayo futhi inqobe ukwesaba nokukhathazeka kwayo.

Ukuzibona ubaleka futhi ucashe ephusheni kuyiphupho elisabekayo elibangela ukukhathazeka nokucindezeleka kulabo abakubonayo, futhi abantu bavame ukucinga incazelo yalo mbono ongavamile. Ezweni lokuchazwa kwamaphupho, umbono wokuphunyuka nokucasha unezincazelo nezincazelo eziningi nezihlukahlukene, futhi kungase kube umyalezo kaNkulunkulu kulowo owubonayo ukuthi kufanele alondoloze amandla akhe ezimweni ezinzima zesikhathi esizayo futhi aphephele emonakalweni. okungase kubangelwe izimo ezinzima.Kungase futhi kusho ukubalekela kanye nokucasha endleleni yobushiqela yokuphila komuntu futhi ngenxa yalokho.Ukukhululwa kuyo yonke imingcele evimbela inkululeko yakhe nokukhulumisana kweqiniso nezwe elimzungezile.

Uma umuntu ephupha ukuphunyuka emaphoyiseni nasekukhuphukeni kwezakhiwo, lo mbono ubonisa ukuthi kunezinkinga ezinkulu empilweni yomphuphi nokuthi unesidingo esikhulu sokubalekela lobu bunzima empilweni. Umphuphi angase abhekane nobunzima empilweni yomndeni noma emsebenzini futhi azizwe ecindezelekile nokukhathazeka, kodwa lo mbono ubonisa ukuthi angakwazi ukuqeda lezi zinkinga uma esebenzisa amandla akhe engqondo nangokwenyama ngendlela efanele. Umphuphi kufanele acabange ngezixazululo futhi azisebenzise ngokuhlakanipha ukuze azuze impumelelo ekuphileni. Uma umphuphi ekhuphuka izakhiwo embonweni, kusho ukuthi uzokwazi ukunqoba zonke izinkinga nezinselele futhi ekugcineni uzophumelela.

Ukuchazwa kwephupho lokweqa emaphoyiseni nomfowethu kuyinto ethusayo futhi ephazamisayo kumuntu olibona ephusheni lakhe. Abanye ochwepheshe bokuhumusha amaphupho bakholelwa ukuthi ukubona amaphoyisa exosha umuntu nomfowabo kusho ukuthi kunenkinga ebuhlotsheni phakathi kwabo, futhi mhlawumbe lokhu kuphunyuka kufanekisela ukuwela umkhawulo onzima kulobu buhlobo. Leli phupho lingasho futhi ukuba khona kwezinkinga empilweni yezenhlalo noma umzamo womuntu wokubalekela izibopho zakhe zomphakathi maqondana nomndeni noma umphakathi. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi iyiphi incazelo eqondile yaleli phupho, kubalulekile ukungawunaki umuzwa wokwesaba noma ukukhathazeka okubangelwa iphupho futhi uthole indlela yokubhekana nayo.

Ukubona amaphoyisa ephusheni kungase kubangele ukwesaba kwabanye abantu, njengoba kubonisa imizwa yecala noma ukwesaba ukujeziswa. Kodwa ukuchazwa kwephupho mayelana nokwesaba amaphoyisa ephusheni kungase kuhluke kuye ngokuthi hlobo luni lomphuphi kanye nekhono lakhe lokuqonda izincazelo zamaphupho nokuqonda izincazelo kanye. Uma umuntu ezizwa esaba imiphumela yezenzo zakhe zangaphambili, umbono ubonisa isidingo sokuzisola nokuphenduka ezonweni futhi uphile ngenkululeko kanye nemimoya emihle. Ngaphezu kwalokho, amaphoyisa ephusheni angafanekisela igunya, amandla, nesiyalo, ngakho-ke ukwesaba amaphoyisa kungase kufanekisela isifiso sokuqeda imingcele nezingcindezi igunya elingakwazi ukukubeka empilweni yakho.

Ukuzibona uphunyuka emaphoyiseni nomngane wakho ephusheni kungenye yemibono ebalulekile edlula emicabangweni futhi idide umphefumulo. Lokhu kusho ukuthi umuntu uhlushwa yizinkinga ezithile zengqondo njalo. Leli phupho likhomba ukuthi umngane ubandakanyeka kulezi zinkinga, futhi kungenzeka ukuthi unecala kwezinye zezinkinga umuntu abhekana nazo. Umuntu obonayo kudingeka azame ukuthola izixazululo zalezo zinkinga nomngane. Umuntu kufanele asebenze ukuze angafihli izinkinga zakhe kumngane wakhe, ukuze akwazi ukuzixazulula. Umuntu futhi udinga ukuxhumana nomngane kahle nangempumelelo ukuze asuse ukudideka futhi acacise noma yiziphi izindaba ezingase zithiye ubungane phakathi kwabo. Kuyadingeka ukuthi lowo muntu asebenzele ukwakha ubungane obuqinile nomngane, futhi agweme noma yiziphi izinkinga nokuhlukunyezwa.

Umuntu angase abone ephusheni lakhe ukuthi ubalekela amaphoyisa nomuntu amthandayo, azizwe esaba nokukhathazeka, kodwa lichaza ukuthini leli phupho? Osomthetho bathi ekuhumusheni amaphupho ukubona ukweqa nomuntu omthandayo kukhombisa ukuthi umuntu uzwa isiphithiphithi ebudlelwaneni bakhe nalo muntu, futhi bangase babhekane nobunzima ekukhulumisaneni nasekuvumelaneni. Kungasho futhi ukuthi kunezithiyo ebudlelwaneni babo futhi umuntu uzizwa enesidingo sokubalekela kuzo. Kodwa kubalulekile ukuba umuntu aqonde ukuthi iphupho alibonisi ngempela iqiniso, nokuthi kufanele asebenze ukuze athuthukise ubuhlobo bakhe nalo muntu futhi anqobe ubunzima ababhekana nabo.