Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho ngomyeni wami elala nami ephusheni ngu-Ibn Sirin

Ngiphuphe umyeni wami enza ucansi nami Ukulalana empilweni kungenye yezinto ezivumelekile ezenziwa abashadile, futhi ukubona owesifazane oshadile umyeni wakhe elala naye ephusheni kumenza azizwe ekhathazekile futhi kuphakamisa imibuzo eminingi mayelana nokuthi ingabe iveza kahle noma yizindaba ezimbi? Esayensini yokuhumusha amaphupho, lo mbono uphethe izincazelo eziningi ezihluka esimweni ngasinye kuye kwesinye, kuye ngokuthi isimo sombonisi.Esihlokweni esilandelayo, sizokwethula wonke amacala kanye nezincazelo zawo ngokuningiliziwe:

Ngiphuphe umyeni wami enza ucansi nami

• Indoda ilala nomkayo ephusheni ikhomba ukuthi iyamkhumbula futhi iyamkhumbula ngenxa yokuqhelelana kwakhe naye ngenxa yokuhamba kwakhe njalo nokuxakeka kwakhe ngomsebenzi.
• Uma umyeni wayengumthengisi futhi ebona ukulala nomkakhe ephusheni, khona-ke lokhu kufanekisela ukuthi uzozuza izinzuzo eziningi kanye nenzuzo ngokuhweba kwakhe.
• Umbono womphuphi wokuthi umyeni wakhe ulala naye ngesikhathi esenqatshelwe lapho leso senzo siyinkomba yezimfanelo ezimbi umyeni wakhe anazo nokuthi wenze ezinye izono nezono uNkulunkulu angathokozi ngazo, futhi kufanele athathe iseluleko futhi abambe isandla sakhe ukuze afulathele lezozinto futhi aphendukele kuNkulunkulu, Udumo malube Kuye.

Ngiphuphe umyeni wami enza ucansi no-Ibn Sirin

• Isazi esihlonishwayo u-Ibn Sirin sachaza ukubukela kowesifazane umyeni wakhe elala naye ephusheni njengophawu lokuzinza kobuhlobo babo, ukusabalala kokuthula phakathi kwabo, nekhono labo lokubhekana nokunqoba zonke izithiyo ezithiya indlela yabo.
• Ukuhlangana komyeni nomkayo endlini yokugezela kuwuphawu lokushiyeka kwakhe naye esikhathini esidlule nokuntula kwakhe isithakazelo kuye, kodwa wakuqaphela lokhu futhi wazizwa ezisola futhi wafuna ukubanxephezela ngenxa yokunganakwa kwakhe.

Ngiphuphe umyeni wami enza ucansi nowesifazane oshadile

• U-Ibn Shaheen uthe intokazi ibona umlingani womyeni wayo elala naye ephusheni kuyinkomba yokuthi ijabulela ukuziphatha okuhle, ilandela imithetho yenkolo yamaSulumane, nokuvikela umyeni wayo lapho ekhona futhi engekho.
• Iphupho lowesifazane oshadile nomlingani wakhe belala naye ephusheni kungaba ubufakazi bokuthi uzizwa enelisekile ngokuphila kwakhe nalokho uNkulunkulu amhlukanisele khona nokuthi umyeni wakhe wenza umzamo omkhulu ukuze ajabule futhi amnikeze izidingo zakhe futhi izidingo.
• Uma umphuphi ebona ukuhlalisana nomyeni wakhe ephusheni, kodwa ubonisa izimpawu zokudabuka, khona-ke lokhu kusho ukuthi bazobhekana nezingxabano ngenxa yemibono yabo ehlukene ezindabeni ezithile ekuphileni kwabo.
• Ukulala nomyeni ephusheni lombonisi kuwuphawu lokuzwa izindaba eziningi ezijabulisayo kunkosikazi, okungenzeka kube wukuthola kwakhe ithuba lomsebenzi osekunesikhathi eside elifisa futhi efuna ukulithola.
• Ukulala komyeni nomkakhe ephusheni, futhi wayengajabule ngalokho, kubonisa ukuthi bazobhekana nobunzima obukhulu bezezimali, futhi bazobe beswele kakhulu imali.
• Indoda enobudlelwane obungekho emthethweni nomkakhe ephusheni kuwuphawu lwemizwa yakhe ejulile yokuzisola nokuzisola ngezinye zezinto ezimbi ezenzeka empilweni yakhe.

Ngiphuphe umyeni wami okhulelwe elala nami

• Ukubuka owesifazane okhulelwe elala nomyeni wakhe ephusheni kufanekisela ukukhululeka kokuzalwa kwakhe, ukwenza lula kukaNkulunkulu ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa, ukujabulela kwakhe impilo enhle nombungu wakhe, futhi kubonisa ukuthi uzoba nomntwana wesilisa.
• Ukubona le ntokazi umyeni wayo eya ocansini nayo ephusheni kuwuphawu lokuthuthuka kwesimo sayo somqondo, esithinteke kabi kwezinye zezingcindezi ayebhekana nazo kubantu abaseduze kwayo.
• Ukulala komyeni nomkakhe ngemuva ephusheni kubonisa ukuthi kunezinkinga nezinkinga eziningi ekuphileni kwakhe angakwazi ukuzinqoba nokuzinqoba.
• Uma kwenzeka ukuthi umboni wenqaba ukulala nomyeni wakhe ephusheni, lokhu kusho ubuhlobo obubi phakathi kwabo kanye nokuvela kwezinye iziphazamiso ezibathintayo.
• Uma umphuphi ebona umyeni wakhe elala naye ephusheni futhi akazange azizwe lutho kuye, khona-ke lokhu kubonisa ukuthi unemithwalo yemfanelo eminingi nemithwalo angakwazi ukuyithwala futhi idlula amandla akhe.

Ngiphuphe umyeni wami enza ucansi nami ngase ngiya esikhathini

• Iphupho lowesifazane oshadile lomyeni wakhe elala naye ephusheni, futhi isikhathi sehla phakathi nalokhu kuyinkomba yokuqeda zonke izinkinga nezinkinga ayebhekene nazo nokuqeda izinkathazo nosizi.
• Isikhathi sowesifazane ephusheni, ukugeza kwakhe, kanye nomyeni wakhe elala naye ngemva kwalokho, kuyinkomba yokuthi kunezinguquko eziningi ezinhle ezenzekile ezimpilweni zabo ezibenza babe ngcono nokuthi uNkulunkulu uzobabusisa ngenala yokudla futhi ababusise yona.

Ngiphuphe umyeni wami enza ucansi nowesifazane odivosile

• Ukubuka owesifazane ohlukanisile eya ocansini nomyeni wakhe wangaphambili ephusheni kufanekisela ukuphela kokuhlukana phakathi kwabo nokubuya kwakhe, emcela ukuba athethelele futhi baphinde babuyelane futhi, futhi lapho esamukela lesi sikhathi, uzomnxephezela. esikhathini esedlule futhi ilethe injabulo empilweni yakhe.
• Ukuphupha umuntu wesifazane elala nendoda yakhe yakudala phambi kwabantu ephusheni futhi enamahloni, kuwuphawu lokuthi kukhona abakufihlela wonke umuntu kodwa kuzokwaziwa maduze nje bazophoxeka. Mayelana nakho.

Umyeni wami ulala nami ngemuva ephusheni

• Ngiphuphe umyeni wami enza ucansi nami endunu Ireferensi yokonakala kobudlelwano phakathi kwabashadile, ukungabibikho kothando, nokoma kobudlelwano phakathi kwabo, okwenza ngamunye afune ukuziqhelelanisa nomunye futhi abahlukanise.
• Ukulala nomyeni ngemuva ephusheni lowesifazane kubonisa ukuthi uzobhekana nobunzima obukhulu bezinto ezibonakalayo obuzomthinta ngendlela engalungile, futhi angase athole isifo esibi esizoholela ekuwohlokeni kwempilo yakhe.
• Uma umphuphi ebona umyeni wakhe enza ubulili bendunu naye ephusheni futhi ezizwa edabukile futhi ekhala, khona-ke lokhu kufanekisela ukuziphatha okubi okumbonakalisayo, ukumphatha ngendlela embi, nokwenza zonke izinto uNkulunkulu azenqabele futhi. wasivimbela.

Ukuchazwa kwephupho umyeni wami enza ucansi nami ngisesikhathini

• Ukubona owesifazane ephusheni umyeni wakhe elala naye ngesikhathi esesikhathini kuyinkomba yokuthi kukhona ukungqubuzana okwenzeka phakathi kwabo, okwaholela esifungweni sakhe sokuthi akavunyelwe kuye, ukuthi akasondeli kuye noma afunge ukuhlukanisa. .
• Ubuhlobo bobulili bomyeni nowesifazane phakathi nomjikelezo wokuya esikhathini bufanekisela ukwenzeka kwezinkinga eziningi ezibacindezela ngokwengqondo futhi zibenze bacabange ngokungathí sina ngesehlukaniso, futhi lokhu kungase kwenzeke phakathi nenkathi ezayo.
• Ukuhlangana kwendoda nomkayo phakathi nenkathi yokuya esikhathini kubonisa ukuba khona kwezinkinga eziningi nobunzima phakathi kwabo, futhi kumelwe ilungise lezi zindaba futhi icabange ngamakhambi elanelisayo kuze kuphele leyo nkathi.

Ngiphuphe umyeni wami enza ucansi nami ngiphatheke kabi

• Uma owesifazane ephupha umlingani wakhe elala naye, kodwa ecasukile futhi enengekile naye, khona-ke lokhu kufanekisela ukuvela kwezinkinga eziningi nokungezwani phakathi kwabo, futhi akekho kubo ozama ukwamukela omunye, okuholela ekuhlukaneni kwabo kanye nokungezwani phakathi kwabo. ukungaqhubeki kobudlelwane babo, njengoba kushiwo isazi u-Ibn Sirin.

Ngiphuphe umyeni wami enza ucansi nami phambi kwabantu

• Ukubona intokazi nomyeni wayo belala nayo phambi kwabantu ephusheni kuwubufakazi bobudlelwano obuhle obukhona phakathi kwabo, futhi abantu bakhuluma kahle ngabo, ukuphathana kwabo okuhle, ukuphana kwabo nokuphana kwabo, nothando lwabo. ngokusiza abasweleyo kanye lokuma ngakubo.
• Uma kwenzeka umyeni elala nomlingani wakhe endunu phambi kwabantu, lokhu kukhomba ukuthi abamesabi uNkulunkulu futhi abanaso isizotha ekuziphatheni kwabo, futhi benza futhi benza izono nezenzo ezimbi obala.

Ngiphuphe omunye umuntu ongesiye umyeni wami enza ucansi nami

• Ukubuka owesifazane elala nomuntu ngaphandle komyeni wakhe ephusheni kuyizindaba ezinhle, ngoba kubonisa ukuthi uzofinyelela zonke izifiso zakhe futhi afeze zonke izifiso zakhe.
• Ukulala nomphuphi ngomunye umuntu ongeyena umyeni wakhe ephusheni kuwuphawu lokuthi kukhona into ethile ayifunayo futhi uNkulunkulu uzombusisa ngokuyithola esikhathini esizayo.
• Uma owesifazane ebona ukuthi ulala nendoda engeyena umyeni wakhe, futhi ucebile, khona-ke lokhu kubonisa ukuthi uhlinzekwa ngemali eningi engapheli, futhi ujabulela ukuchuma nokunethezeka.
• Esinye sezihlobo zombonisi ocansini naye ephusheni kuyinkomba yokuthi uzohlala egcina ubuhlobo bobudlelwane, futhi uzovuna izithelo zalokho futhi amemezele izinto eziningi ezijabulisayo ezisendleleni eya kuye.
• Ukubona owesifazane ohlukanisile ehlala nomuntu ongeyena umyeni wakhe wangaphambili ephusheni kufanekisela ukujwayelana kwakhe nomunye umuntu nomshado wakhe kuye maduze, futhi uzoshintsha impilo yakhe ibe ngcono futhi amlondoloze, futhi uzojabulela ukuthula nokuzinza naye. yena.

Ngiphuphe umyeni wami enza ucansi nami phambi komndeni wami

• Iphupho lowesifazane oshadile lomyeni wakhe elala naye phambi komndeni wakhe likhomba ukuthi uzokhulelwa maduze.
• Indoda ilala nomkayo phambi komkhaya wayo ephusheni kuwuphawu lwamandla obuhlobo babo nomndeni wabo, ukuqina kokuthembela kwabo komunye nomunye, kanye nemizwa enamandla abanayo ngaphakathi kubo.

Ngiphuphe umyeni wami enza ucansi nami ngisazilile

Ukubona umyeni wami ehlanganyela nami ngesikhathi ngizila ukudla ephusheni kunezincazelo eziningi ezincomekayo nezingathandeki, ezihluka ngokwesimo kuye kwesinye kuye ngesimo somuntu onombono.Sizochaza wonke amacala nezincazelo zawo ngokuningiliziwe encwadini ethi okulandelayo:

• Iphupho lowesifazane oshadile lomyeni wakhe elala naye ephusheni libonisa ukuthi kukhona izinto ezishintshile empilweni yakhe, uzokhipha izinkathazo nezinkinga abhekene nazo, futhi uzophila impilo egcwele. yokuthula nokuzinza.
• Uma owesifazane esebenza futhi ebona umyeni wakhe elala naye ephusheni, khona-ke lokhu kufanekisela ukuthi uthatha isikhundla esivelele emphakathini, lapho ethola khona imali eningi ethuthukisa isimo sakhe sezezimali.
• Ukubuka umbonisi ukuthi uzilile ngenyanga kaRamadan kuwuphawu lokuthi wenze isifungo wangasifeza, ngakho umbono uyisikhumbuzo kuye aze asifeze.
• Uma kwenzeka umphuphi engakazali, futhi ebona ukuthi uzilile ephusheni lakhe, khona-ke lezi yizindaba ezinhle kuye ukuthi uNkulunkulu uwuphendule umthandazo wakhe futhi wambusisa ngokukhulelwa kungekudala, futhi uhlobo lwesibeletho luzoba. owesilisa.
• Ukuzila ukudla ephusheni lowesifazane kubonisa ikhono lakhe lokuthatha umthwalo wemfanelo futhi enze yonke imisebenzi aphathiswe yona.

Ngiphuphe umyeni wami enza ucansi nami phambi kwezingane zami

• Ukubona owesifazane onomyeni ocansini naye phambi kwezingane zakhe ephusheni kuyinkomba yobuhlobo obuhle phakathi kwabo nokusabalalisa ukuqonda nokuzinza ebuhlotsheni babo nezingane zabo kanye nokusondelana kwabo komunye nomunye.
• Indoda elala nomkakhe ephusheni phambi kwezingane zabo kuwuphawu lokuthi baphila impilo engenazo izinkinga nezingxabano futhi bathatha kalula njengendlela yokuxazulula zonke izingxabano phakathi kwabo ngaphandle kwezinkinga.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho umyeni wami enza ucansi nami

Ukubuka umyeni wami elala nami ngamandla ephusheni kunezincazelo eziningi kwisayensi yokuchaza amaphupho, futhi kuyashintsha ngokwesimo somphuphi.Sizokwethula wonke amacala kanye nemiphumela yawo ngokuningiliziwe kanje:

• Iphupho lowesifazane lomyeni wakhe elala naye likhomba ukuthi kuningi okuhle okuzokwenzeka empilweni yakhe okungaba yingane esanda kuzalwa noma imali eningi bese ejabulela impilo ejabulisayo nomyeni wakhe.
• Uma umyeni ehamba kude nomkakhe futhi ebona ebuthongweni bakhe ukuthi wayelele naye, khona-ke lokhu kufanekisela ukucabanga kwakhe njalo ngaye, elinde umzuzu ebuya ku-zero, nokulangazelela kwakhe kuye.

Ngiphuphe umyeni wami enza ucansi nami ngijabule

Iphupho lomyeni wami ehlanganyela nami, futhi ngijabule, linezinkomba eziningi zezazi ezinkulu zokuhumusha amaphupho, ezihluka ngecala elilodwa kuye kwelinye kuye ngecala lomboni. kokulandelayo:

• Ukubuka umboni, umlingani wakhe wokuphila, ukulala naye ephusheni kuwuphawu lokuthi uzothola ukukhushulwa emsebenzini wakhe futhi athole isikhundla esiphakeme.
• Uma intombazane engashadile iphupha ukuthi ushadile futhi umyeni wakhe elala naye ephusheni ngenkathi ejabule ngalokho, khona-ke lifanekisela injabulo ehlala njalo lapho ezohlala khona kanye nempumelelo yakhe ekufinyeleleni yonke imigomo nezifiso azifisayo. ufuna ukufinyelela.

Ukuchazwa kwephupho umyeni wami enza ucansi nami phambi komuntu engingamazi

Ukubona umyeni wami ehlanganyela nami phambi komuntu engingamazi ephusheni kunezincazelo eziningi ezinhle nezimbi, ezihluke esimweni ngasinye ngenxa yokuhlukahluka kwezimo zomphuphi, futhi sizobonisa ukuthi kulokhu okulandelayo:

• Ukulala kowesifazane oshadile nomuntu angamazi ephusheni kubonisa ukushiyeka kwakhe nomyeni wakhe kanye nokuqhelelana kakhulu komunye nomunye, futhi kufanele asondele kuye ngaphezu kwalokho ukuze abuyisele ukuphila ebuhlotsheni babo.
• Iphupho lowesifazane womuntu angamazi ngokuphoqelela ukulala naye ephusheni, kodwa ubalekela naye kuwuphawu lokuthi unesifo esibi esibi kakhulu impilo yakhe futhi sithinte kabi ukuziphatha kwakhe.
• Umboni wemibono elala nomuntu angamazi ephusheni, futhi wayezizwa ejabule, futhi wageza ngemva kwalokho, kufanekisela ukuthi uzama kanzima ukuphenduka kuzo zonke izono ayenzile, nokuziqhelelanisa nezenzo ezimbi kanye nezenzo zakhe ezimbi. isiqondiso endleleni kaNkulunkulu.

Ngiphuphe umyeni wami elala nami, akaqedanga

Ukubuka indoda yami ilala nami ingakaqedi ngephupho ingenye yemibono izincazelo zayo ziningi ngokushintsha isimo somphuphi isuke kwelinye icala iye kwelinye, kokulandelayo sizoxoxa ngawo wonke amacala nezincazelo zawo ngokuningiliziwe:

• Ukwenqaba komyeni ukuya ocansini nomkakhe ephusheni ngenyanga ka-Ramadan kukhomba ukuthi uzothola imali eningi ezomenza akwazi ukukhokha izikweletu azikweletayo.
• Ukubuka owesifazane ephusheni umyeni wakhe engakwamukeli ukulala naye ngemuva kuyisixwayiso kuye aze ayeke izenzo ezingalungile azenzayo abuyele kuNkulunkulu amcele intethelelo nentethelelo ukuze amthethelele. izono.

Ngiphuphe umyeni wami efuna ukulala nami

• Ukubona owesifazane oshadile ephusheni lakhe ukuthi umyeni wakhe ufuna ukulala naye, kodwa uyenqaba, ebhekisela ekuqheleni kwabo komunye nomunye, ukoma kobudlelwane phakathi kwabo, nokuntuleka kwesithakazelo enjabulweni yomunye nomunye.

Ngiphuphe umyeni wami ongasekho elala nami ephusheni

• Owesifazane oshadile ebona umyeni wakhe oshonile elala naye ephusheni kuyinkomba yokuthuthuka kwesimo sakhe sezimali nokwenyuka kwezinga lakhe lezezimali.
• Iphupho lowesifazane lokulala nomyeni wakhe oshonile libonisa ukuthi uzokwazi ukudabuka futhi angene esigabeni sokucindezeleka ngenxa yokucindezeleka akuzwayo ngenxa yokuhlukana komyeni wakhe.
• Kungenzeka ukuthi umphuphi ebona umyeni wakhe oshonile elala naye ephusheni kuwuphawu lokumlangazelela okukhulu, ukucabanga kwakhe njalo ngaye, nesifiso sakhe sokuba abuye aphile futhi ahlale eduze kwakhe.
• Ukubona owesifazane omyeni wakhe oshonile elala naye ephusheni kuwuphawu lokuthi uzothola kalula okuningi okuhle ngaphandle kokwenza noma yimuphi umzamo.
• Uma umboni ebona umyeni wakhe ofile elele naye ephusheni, kodwa wenqaba ukwenza kanjalo, kusho ukuthi uzowela ezinkingeni eziningi ezizombangela ukuhlupheka okukhulu phakathi naleso sikhathi.
• Uma kwenzeka owesifazane okhulelwe ephuphe umyeni wakhe oshonile ecela ukulala naye ethuneni futhi uzizwa esaba lokho, khona-ke lokhu kukhomba ukuthi wenze ububi obuningi nezinto uNkulunkulu uSomandla angazamukeli, futhi kufanele acabange kabusha. zonke izenzo zakhe futhi abuyele endleleni efanele.
• Owesifazane odivosile ebona owayengumyeni wakhe eshonile ephusheni futhi elala naye, futhi kumjabulisa lokho, kuyisibonakaliso sokuthi ukuhlukana phakathi kwabo kuzophela futhi bazozitholela izixazululo kuzo zonke izinkinga abadlule kuzo nokuthi bayobuya futhi futhi ukuphila kwabo kuyoba ngcono kunakuqala.