Ngiphuphe umalume eshona ngezwa izindaba zokushona kukamalume ephusheni

Lamia Tarek
Ukuhunyushwa amaphupho
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Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho umalume ushonile

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho ukuthi umalume wami ushonile kuyisihloko esithakazelisayo abantu abaningi abazuza kuso.
Ikakhulukazi, umalume ubhekwa njengomuntu obalulekile empilweni yomuntu, ngakho-ke ukufa kwakhe ephusheni kuphakamisa ukudabuka nokukhathazeka kumbukeli.
Kodwa ngokusho kwencazelo ka-Imam Ibn Sirin, ukubona ukufa kukamalume ophilayo ephusheni kusho ukuthi umalume uzojabulela impilo nempilo ende.
Kusho ukuthi umuntu obone leli phupho angase abe nenhlanhla futhi aphile impilo enempilo nejabulisayo.

Kuyaphawuleka futhi ukuthi incazelo yephupho ngokufa kukamalume ephusheni iyahlukahluka kuye ngokuthi isimo somuntu.
Isibonelo, uma umbonisi engashadile, khona-ke iphupho lokufa kukamalume lingabonisa isenzakalo esijabulisayo esizayo empilweni yakhe, njengomshado noma umshado.
Kodwa uma umbonisi eshadile, iphupho lingabonisa izinguquko ezinhle ezizokwenzeka ekuphileni kwakhe.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho umalume wafela Ibn Sirin

Izincazelo zamaphupho ziphakathi kwezihloko ezithakazelisayo nezithakazelisa kakhulu kubantu.
Elinye lala maphupho yiphupho lokushona kukamalume, okungadala ukukhathazeka nemibuzo kubantu abaningi.
Izincazelo zika-Ibn Sirin zingenye yemithombo evelele enikeza incazelo yaleli phupho.
Ngokuka-Ibn Sirin, iphupho ngokufa kukamalume lifanekisela ubudlova bomndeni noma izingxabano, futhi kungaba uphawu lwezinguquko ezibalulekile empilweni yakho ezungezile.
Kungase futhi kubonise izinkinga ebuhlotsheni namalungu omndeni noma ukulahlekelwa ukwesekwa nokuvikelwa, kodwa izici eziningi okufanele zicatshangelwe lapho kuchazwa iphupho lokufa kukamalume.
Ngakho-ke kufanele kuhunyushwe ngokusekelwe kumongo womuntu siqu kanye nezimo zamanje zomuntu onaleli phupho.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho umalume wafela abesifazane abangashadile

Ukubona ukufa emaphusheni kuhlale kunomqondo oqinile nowethusayo, njengoba kuphakamisa ukukhathazeka nemibuzo eminingi kwabaningi bethu.
Futhi lapho umuntu oshonile engumalume wakho, abantu abangashadile bangase bazwe umthelela omkhulu waleli phupho elibi.
Ukufa kukamalume wakho ephusheni kungase kufanekisela izimo noma izinguquko empilweni yakho yomuntu siqu.

Iphupho lingase libonise isifiso sakho sokuqeda izibopho zomndeni futhi uzimele empilweni.
Kungase kubonise ukuthi uzizwa ucindezelwa amalungu omndeni noma lokho akulindele kungase kukuvimbele ekufinyeleleni imigomo yakho yomuntu siqu.
Iphupho lingafisa futhi ekuphishekeleni kwakho ukuzimela ngokwezimali noma impumelelo yomsebenzi ezokwenza ukwazi ukuphila ngokukhululeka nokuzimela.

Ngokuvamile, ukuhunyushwa kwamaphupho mayelana nokungashadile kuncike ezimweni zomuntu siqu kanye nokuhlangenwe nakho komuntu ngamunye ekuphileni.
Ngakho-ke, kufanele ucabangele izici zempilo yakho ngayinye lapho uhumusha leli phupho.
Kungase futhi kube ngcono ukukhuluma nabantu abathembekile njengamalungu omndeni noma abangani abaseduze ukuze bakusize uhlaziye leli phupho futhi uqonde izincazelo zalo ezingase zibe khona.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho umalume wafela owesifazane oshadile

Ukubona ukushona kukamalume ephusheni kungenye yamaphupho abangela ukukhathazeka nokudabuka kwabesifazane abashadile.
Leli phupho lingase lidideke futhi lesabe, njengoba libonisa ukulahlekelwa omunye wabathandekayo empilweni yowesifazane oshadile.
Owesifazane oshadile angase azibuze ukuthi ubaluleke kangakanani lo mbono nokuthi umlethela okuhle noma okubi yini.
Ngakho-ke, kubalulekile ukucinga incazelo yephupho mayelana nokufa kukamalume ephusheni lowesifazane oshadile.

Abanye abahlaziyi bathi ukubona ukushona kukamalume eshadile kungaba wuphawu lwezinkinga zomshado noma izinkinga emshadweni.
Iphupho lingase libe yisixwayiso kumfazi wesidingo sokucabanga ngobuhlobo bakhe nomyeni wakhe nokubhekana nanoma yiziphi izinkinga ezikhona phakathi kwabo.

Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukubona ukushona kukamalume kowesifazane oshadile kungase kube inkomba yokuthi kungenzeka kushone osondelene naye noma ukwenzeka kwenhlekelele engase iphazamise ukuphila kwakhe kwekusasa.
Ezimweni ezinjalo, kuyelulekwa ukuba owesifazane oshadile anamathele ekunxuseni nasekufuneni isiphephelo kuNkulunkulu, futhi asebenzele ukuthuthukisa ubuhlobo bakhe nomkhaya wakhe nezihlobo.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho ngokushona kukamalume ephusheni nokukhala ngaye ngowesifazane oshadile

Ukushona kukamalume ephusheni nokukhala ngaye kuyiphupho elidala usizi nobuhlungu obujulile kowesifazane oshadile.
Ukushonelwa umalume kusho ukulahlekelwa umuntu othandekayo nothandekayo empilweni yomuntu.
Leli phupho lifanekisela isibopho esiqinile nesivikelo umalume asinikeza abashana bakhe.
Ngakho-ke, ukufa kukamalume ephusheni kubonisa ukulahlekelwa ingxenye yokuphepha nokuvikelwa umalume ayekunikeza.

 

Ngiphuphe umalume eshona. Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokufa kukamalume ephusheni ngu-Ibn Sirin - Al-Muhet

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho umalume washonela okhulelwe

Ukubona iphupho mayelana nokufa kukamalume kuwesifazane okhulelwe kungenye yemibono ephakamisa ukukhathazeka nokuphazamiseka, njengoba umalume engumuntu obalulekile empilweni yowesifazane okhulelwe, njengoba emele ukusekelwa nosizo ezindabeni ezihlukahlukene.
Kodwa-ke, ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokufa kukamalume kunezincazelo ezinhle nezimbi.

Ngenothi elihle, ukufa kukamalume ephusheni kungafanekisela ukukhula nokuthuthukiswa, njengoba ukufa kubonisa isiqalo esisha sowesifazane okhulelwe.
Kungase kusho ukuthi uzosusa izithiyo noma izinkinga ezindala futhi athuthuke ekuphileni kwakhe.
Kungase futhi kubonise ukuthi uzoba umama omangalisayo nonempilo phakathi nalesi sikhathi.

Ngakolunye uhlangothi, iphupho mayelana nokufa komalume kowesifazane okhulelwe lingase libonise ukukhathazeka nokucindezeleka kwengqondo angase abhekane naso kulesi sigaba esibucayi empilweni yakhe.
Lokhu kungase kuhlobane nomuzwa wokuthi akakwazi ukubhekana nomthwalo wemfanelo omusha azoba nawo wokuba umama.

Ukuchazwa kwephupho likamalume washona esaphila kowesifazane okhulelwe

Ukuchazwa kwephupho ngokufa kukamalume ephusheni kungenye yamaphupho aphazamisayo futhi asabekayo, kodwa singase sibe nephupho elingavamile ngokufa kukamalume esaphila.
Uma owesifazane okhulelwe ephupha ngokufa kukamalume wakhe esaphila, khona-ke lokhu kungase kube uphawu lwemizwa yakhe eqinile ngamalungu omndeni kanye nesifiso sakhe sokuvikela nokubanakekela.
Owesifazane okhulelwe angase azizwe ekhathazekile futhi esaba ukulahlekelwa ukwesekwa nokuma yedwa ohambweni lokuba ngumama.
Kufanele usebenzise lo mbono ukuze ucabange ngokubaluleka komndeni kanye nendima yawo ebalulekile ekunikezeni ukwesekwa nokwesekwa.
Kungenzeka futhi ukuthi iphupho lokushona komalume ophilayo liyinkomba yokwesaba kowesifazane okhulelwe ukuguquka noshintsho empilweni yakhe ngenxa yokufika kwengane, futhi kungase kubonise umuzwa wokulungela ngokwengqondo nangokomzwelo kulaba abasha. izinguquko.
Owesifazane okhulelwe kufanele amukele imizwa yakhe futhi athole ukusekelwa okudingekayo kumalungu omndeni ukuze abhekane nalezi zinselele. [13][14]

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho umalume wafela owesifazane odivosile

Ukuphupha ngokushona kukamalume ngesinye sezihloko ezidala ukukhathazeka nokucasula kwabaningi.
Kodwa liyini incazelo yaleli phupho kwabesifazane abahlukanisile? Umalume ungumuntu obalulekile empilweni yomuntu futhi kuvame ukuba nobudlelwane obuseduze phakathi kwabo.
Uma owesifazane ohlukanisile ephupha ngokufa kukamalume wakhe, lokhu kungase kube uphawu lwezinguquko ezintsha ezingase zenzeke empilweni yakhe ngemva kwesehlukaniso.
Iphupho mayelana nokufa kukamalume kungase kufanekisele ukuphela kwesahluko esisha empilweni yakhe kanye nokuqala kwesinye.
Owesifazane ohlukanisile angase azwe ukudabuka nobuhlungu okuthile ekuqaleni, kodwa angakwazi ukunqoba ubunzima futhi azuze ekuhlangenwe nakho kwesehlukaniso ukuze akhe impilo entsha nengcono.
Ohlukanisile kufanele abe nombono oqondile futhi aqine ekubhekaneni nezinselele zempilo yesikhathi esizayo futhi atshale imali ekukhuleni komuntu siqu nangokomsebenzi.
Ukuphupha ngokufa kukamalume akulona ngempela uphawu lobubi, kodwa kunalokho kungase kube iphuzu elishintshayo elibheke ekuphileni okuzinzile.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho umalume wafela indoda

Ukuchazwa kwephupho mayelana nokufa kukamalume womuntu kungase kudideke kwabanye, ngakho-ke sizozama ukucacisa ezinye izincazelo nezincazelo ezingenzeka.
U-Imam Ibn Sirin uthi ukubona ukufa kukamalume ophilayo ephusheni kubonisa ukuthi lowo malume uzojabulela impilo nempilo ende.
Lo mbono ungase ube inkomba yenala yendlela yokuziphilisa ezayo kanye nokuvela kwezinguquko ezinhle ekuphileni komboni.
Kodwa uma indoda ibona ephusheni ukufa kukamalume wayo esaphila, lokhu kungase kuhlotshaniswe nomuzwa wosizi nokulahlekelwa indoda.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, leli phupho lingabonisa incazelo engokomfanekiso ebonisa ukuphela kwesigaba esithile sokuphila nokuqala okusha.
Yiqiniso, kufanele ucabangele izimo zomuntu siqu ngenkathi uchaza iphupho.
Uma ukhathazekile, ungaphendukela kumuntu onolwazi emkhakheni ukuze uthole incazelo enemininingwane nephelele.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho umalume washona ngimkhalela

Ukuchazwa kwephupho umalume washona ngimkhalela kungathwala izincazelo eziningi ezahlukene.
Ngokuvamile, ukubona usizi nokukhala ngokufa kukamalume ephusheni kubonisa izindaba ezinhle ezizayo ezizosusa ukudabuka nomthwalo ongokwengqondo.
Leli phupho lingase libe uphawu lokuthi maduze kuzoba nezinto ezinhle nezithembisayo empilweni yakho.
Leli phupho lingase libe uphawu lokuthola ukunethezeka kwengqondo nokususa imithwalo yamanje nokucindezeleka.
Leli phupho lingase libonise ukuthi kukhona amathuba amasha nakhuthazayo ezayo empilweni yakho, futhi uzozuza impumelelo nenjabulo.
Kuyaphawuleka ukuthi ukuhunyushwa kwamaphupho kuncike kakhulu kumongo wokuphila komuntu siqu kanye nezimo zakhe zamanje, ngakho-ke kufanele sibhekane namaphupho mathupha kanye nesifunda.
Kungase kube ngcono kumuntu oke waphupha ngokufa kukamalume wakhe futhi ekhala ngaye ukuthi axhumane nochwepheshe bokuchaza amaphupho ukuze athole incazelo yomuntu siqu neningiliziwe ehambisana nezimo zakhe ngabanye.

Ukuchazwa kwephupho umalume washona esaphila

Ukuchazwa kwephupho umalume wami eshonile esaphila kuthathwa njengephupho elixakile nelimangazayo.
Iyiphi incazelo esingayinikeza ngalo mbono? Ngokusho kochwepheshe bokuhumusha, ukubona umalume oshonile ephila ngokuvamile kubonisa izinguquko ezinkulu kanye nezinguquko empilweni yomuntu obona iphupho.
Kukholakala ukuthi ukushona kukamalume esaphila kusho ukuphela kwesahluko sempilo kanye nokuqala kwesahluko esisha esinamathuba nezinselelo eziningi.
Iphupho lingase libe yinkomba yokuthi umuntu ubhekene nobunzima nezinkinga empilweni yakhe yamanje futhi ukushona kukamalume kusho ukuphela kwalezo zinkinga kanye nokuqala kwempilo entsha, engcono.
Kuyaphawuleka ukuthi ukubona umalume owashona esaphila kungase kube umbono ongokomfanekiso obonisa ukulangazelela nokulangazelela amalungu omndeni ashonile kanye nesifiso sokubuyisela ubuhlobo nokuqinisa ubuhlobo bomndeni.
Ngokwezinga elithile, ukuchazwa kwaleli phupho kuncike kumongo kanye nezimo zomuntu siqu zomphuphi.

Ukuchazwa kwephupho ngokushona kukamalume umfowabo kababa

Ukubona ukushona kukamalume othathwa njengomfowabo kababa ephusheni ngelinye lamaphupho avusa ukukhathazeka nemibuzo.
Izincazelo zalo mbono ziyahlukahluka kuye ngesimo senhlalo somuntu owubonayo.
Uma umuntu engashadile, khona-ke umbono ungase ufanekisela ukunqoba kwakhe ubunzima nezinselele abhekana nazo ekuphileni kwakhe, futhi kungase kube ukuqala kobuhlobo obusha obuphela ngokushada nomuntu onezimfanelo ezinhle.
Kodwa uma umuntu eshadile, khona-ke ukubona ukufa kukamalume wakhe ephusheni kungase kubonise ukuthi kukhona izinguquko eziyisisekelo ekuphileni kwakhe, ukuthi uzojabulela umntwana omusha, noma ukuthuthukiswa kwesimo senhlalo nengokomzwelo yomndeni.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, uma umuntu ekhulelwe, khona-ke lo mbono ungabonisa isidingo sakhe sokunakekelwa okwengeziwe nokusekelwa ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa kwakhe.
Kufanele anakekele impilo yakhe futhi alandele iziqondiso zezokwelapha ukuze aqinisekise ukuphepha kokukhulelwa nosana oluseza.
Kufanele kuqashelwe ukuthi incazelo yamaphupho incike esimweni somuntu ngamunye kanye nezinkolelo zabo zamasiko nezenkolo.
Kufanele acwaninge futhi acabange ngemithelela engaba khona futhi ayothola ezinye izincazelo ezitholakalayo.

Ukuchazwa kwephupho mayelana nokuzwa izindaba zokushona kukamalume ephusheni

Umbono wokuzwa izindaba zokufa kukamalume ephusheni unikeza izincazelo ezihlukahlukene futhi ezithakazelisayo.
Leli phupho lingabonisa ushintsho olukhulu noma isiphetho esingazelelwe empilweni yomphuphi.
Lezi zindaba zingase zihlobane nezenzakalo zangempela ekuphileni kwansuku zonke, noma kungaba isibikezelo soshintsho oluzumayo futhi kungaba uphawu lokuphela kanye nesiqalo esisha ekuphileni.
Umuntu angase azizwe ekhathazekile noma ethukile ngokubona lezi zindaba, kodwa kungase kube namathuba amasha okuthuthuka nokushintsha.
Kubalulekile ukulalela umlayezo wephupho futhi siqonde lokho elizama ukusifundisa kona.
Kungase kube nesifundo esinamandla noma isexwayiso iphupho elifisa ukusikhomba kuso.
Ngakho-ke, kubalulekile ukuthi sikulungele ukubhekana nezinselele ezintsha namathuba azosithola ngemva kokuzwa izindaba zokushona kukamalume ephusheni.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho umzala wami washona engozini

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho lokushona komzala wami engozini leliphupho lingase livuse ukukhathazeka nokushuba kwesimo kumuntu ophuphayo ukufa engozini kuyisigameko esibuhlungu nesizumayo.
Ngokusho kwencazelo ka-Ibn Sirin, ukubona umzala efa engozini kungase kubonise ukuphela kobuhlobo obuseduze noma ubungane obubalulekile empilweni yomphuphi.
Ukushona komzala engozini kungasho nesidingo sokugxila ekuphepheni nasekuqapheleni ekuphileni kwansuku zonke komphuphi.
Iphupho lingase libe inkomba yemizwa engemihle nezingcindezi lowo ophuphayo abhekene nazo empilweni yakhe yamanje.
Iphupho kufanele futhi ligxile esidingweni sokwenza izinqumo ezihlakaniphile nokuqondisa ukunaka nokuqapha ezimweni ezinzima.
Ekugcineni, umphuphi kufanele akhumbule ukuthi amaphupho awasona isibikezelo sangempela kodwa kunalokho izimpawu nezincazelo ezingahunyushwa ngezindlela ezahlukene futhi zidinga ukucatshangelwa kwezimo zomuntu siqu nempilo yomuntu ngamunye.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho umalume wami ongasekho emhlabeni

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho ukuthi umalume wami oshonile ushonile kubhekwa njengelinye lamaphupho anethonya aphakamisa imizwa nemicabango eminingi ngombono.
Uma uphupha ngokufa kukamalume wakho oshonile, khona-ke lokhu kungase kusho ukuthi ungase uzizwe ungenangqondo futhi ulangazelela isikhathi esidlule nezinkumbulo ezikuhlanganisa nomalume wakho ongasekho.
Ukubona ukushona kukamalume oshonile kungase kufanekisela isidingo sakho sokuxhumana namalungu omndeni alahlekile futhi ulondoloze inkumbulo yawo ayithandayo.
Kungenzeka ukuthi leli phupho libonisa nokuba khona kwezimo ezingezona zasekhaya empilweni yakho yesimanje noma umuzwa wokudabuka nokungaqiniseki okubangelwa ukulahlekelwa ngumuntu othandekayo.

Akufanele sikhohlwe ukuthi ukuchazwa kwamaphupho akuyona isayensi eqondile futhi yezigaba, futhi kuncike emasikweni kanye nesizinda somuntu siqu.
Izincazelo zamaphupho zingahlukahluka kuye ngezinkolelo nezincazelo zomuntu ngamunye.
Uma uphuphe ngomalume wakho oshonile efa, ungase ufune ukulalela imizwa yakho siqu futhi ucabange ngemizwelo nemicabango leli phupho likuphakamisela lona.
Lokhu kuzokusiza ukuthi ube nokuqonda okujulile kwalokho ohlangabezana nakho futhi ongahlangabezana nakho ekuphileni kwakho kwansuku zonke.

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