Wazalelwa ephusheni ngu-Ibn Sirin

Ukubona usana ephusheni kungomunye wemibono ejabulisa kakhulu ongayiphupha. Ukubona usana ngokuvamile kuvusa imizwa yenjabulo nenjabulo futhi kukwenza uzizwe ukhululekile, unethemba, nomdlandla wokuphila. Kodwa yini ehlukile izinkomba nezincazelo ezivezwa lo mbono, futhi ingabe uthwele okuhle noma okubi?Sizokutshela kabanzi ngalesi sihloko. 

Wazalelwa ephusheni

Ukubona umntwana osanda kuzalwa ephusheni kubhekisela ekuchazeni okuningi okubalulekile nezinkomba, kuhlanganise: 

• Umbono ufanekisela ukuvela kwezinguquko ezibalulekile ezibalulekile empilweni yomboni ibe ngcono, ikakhulukazi endabeni yokubona usana wesifazane olunezici ezinhle, njengoba lubonisa ukuphela kosizi kanye nokuqala kwempilo entsha ngokuningi ubuhle. 
• U-Imam Al-Nabulsi uthi umntwana osanda kuzalwa ephusheni uwukubonakaliswa kwesibusiso empilweni, uma enesimo esihle nokubukeka, kodwa uma enobuso obubi, khona-ke isifaniso sezinkinga nobunzima empilweni. 
• Ukubona izingane eziningi ephusheni kumuntu wesifazane kuwukubonakaliswa kokucabanga ngokuzala kanye nophawu lokunakekela nokubheka izindaba zomndeni. 

Wazalelwa ephusheni ngu-Ibn Sirin

• U-Ibn Sirin ukholelwa ukuthi umntwana osanda kuzalwa ephusheni, uma kungowesifazane, khona-ke kungukudla okuningi, ukugcwaliseka kwezifiso nemigomo, nokugcwaliseka kwezifiso.Umbono ubonisa futhi ukwenzeka kwezinto eziningi ezibalulekile ezishintsha ukuphila okungcono. 
• Ukubona ukuthengwa komntwana osanda kuzalwa ephusheni kubonisa ubuntu obuqinile obukwazi ukuxazulula zonke izinkinga nezinkinga ezibhekene nazo.
• Ephupha ebona umntwana wesilisa ephusheni, u-Imam Ibn Sirin uthi ngakho akufiseleki futhi kubonisa ukukhathazeka nezingcindezi eziningi ezingokwengqondo lowo ophuphayo abhekana nazo, ngaphezu kokuvela kokuntuleka kokuziphilisa. 

Wazalelwa ephusheni labesifazane abangashadile 

• Ingane ezalwa ephusheni kwabesifazane abangashadile ngokuvamile iwukubonakaliswa kokukhathazeka ngezimo zesikhathi esizayo, nokucabanga okuningi ngezindaba zomshado, ukuzinza, nesifiso sokuqala umndeni. 
• Ukubona ukuzalwa komntwana wesifazane kuwukubonakaliswa kokuzwa izindaba ezijabulisayo maduzane, njengoba umbono umemezela ukushada kwakhe nesihlobo somuntu onesimilo esihle, azozizwa naye injabulo nokuzinza. 
• Ukubona ukuthengiswa kwengane wesilisa ephusheni kuwumbono omubi kakhulu futhi kubonisa ukuthunywa kwezono kanye nokubi ngendlela enkulu, ethinta impilo yakhe kabi.
  Ukuphupha uthengisa ingane yentombazane ephusheni kuwumbono omubi kakhulu futhi kubonisa ukwenzeka kwezinhlekelele eziningi ezilandelanayo nosizi.

Ingane esanda kuzalwa ephusheni yowesifazane oshadile

• Ingane esanda kuzalwa ephusheni yowesifazane oshadile iveza izinguquko ezijabulisayo nezibalulekile empilweni yakhe, ngaphezu kokukhulelwa maduzane, ikakhulukazi lapho ebonakala ekhuluma. 
• Ukubona usana olusanda kuzalwa luhlushwa izifo noma lungenampilo enhle luwukubonakaliswa kwempilo yakhe kanye nomuzwa wakhe wokukhathala ngokweqile noma ubunzima bezimali angeke akwazi ukubuqeda ngokushesha. 
• Usana wesilisa ephusheni lowesifazane oshadile, u-Ibn Shaheen athi ngaye, luwubufakazi benhlanhla ekuphileni, futhi lufanekisela ukuthola imali eningi nokuphila impilo ejabulisayo nezinzile. 

Ingane esanda kuzalwa ephusheni yowesifazane okhulelwe

• U-Ibn Sirin uthi usana olusanda kuzalwa ephusheni lowesifazane okhulelwe alufiseleki futhi lufanekisela ukulandelana kwezinkinga nokukhathazeka kowesifazane, futhi kufanele enze umzamo wokuziqeda futhi anqobe lesi sigaba. 
• Ukuncelisa umntwana osanda kuzalwa ephusheni owesifazane okhulelwe kungenye yezibonakaliso ezibonisa inala yokondla, ukuzalwa okuzayo, nokujabulela impilo nokuphila kahle.
• Uma umntwana osanda kuzalwa esesimweni esihle futhi enezici ezinhle, khona-ke lo mbono ungomunye wemibono emihle, ebonisa ukuthi umbungu wakhe uzoba nesimo esivelele nesiphezulu phakathi kwabantu, ngaphezu kokujabulela impilo nempilo enhle.

Wazalelwa ephusheni kowesifazane ohlukanisile

• Ukuphupha ingane encela ibele ephusheni lowesifazane ohlukanisile kuwumyalezo okhombisa ubuhle kanye nokwanda kokuziphilisa le ntokazi ezoyithola maduze futhi iveza ubuhle obuningi nesinxephezelo sikaNkulunkulu ngezinsuku ezikhathazayo maduze.
• Ukubona ingane emamathekayo futhi ehlekayo ithwele owesifazane ohlukanisile kuyinkomba yokuxazulula izinkinga nokungaboni ngaso linye le ntokazi ebhekene nayo maduze, uma livela ithuba lokubuyela kumyeni wayo, izobuyela kuye maduze. 
• Ukuphupha usana olusanda kuzalwa lukhala kakhulu kungenye yemibono engathandeki futhi kukhomba ukunqwabelana kwezinkinga nokungaboni ngaso linye emahlombe entokazi.Kuphinde kufanekise ukuzwa izindaba ezimbi, uNkulunkulu makube kude.

Uzalelwe indoda ngephupho

• Ukuphupha umntwana osanda kuzalwa ephusheni kuyinkomba yokuthi umboni uzofinyelela isikhundla esiphakeme phakathi kwabantu esikhathini esizayo esiseduze, futhi uma indoda ibhekene nobunzima noma izinkinga endleleni yokufeza amaphupho akhe, zizoxazululwa maduzane. 
• Umntwana omuhle osanda kuzalwa ephusheni ukukhululwa kokucindezeleka nokukhathazeka, ngaphezu kokwanda kokuziphilisa kanye nokwanda kokuhle maduzane, kuyilapho usana olusanda kuzalwa olunobuso obubi lubi futhi lubonisa izithiyo ezingapheli kanye nezinkinga.
• U-Ibn Sirin ukholelwa ukuthi uma umntwana osanda kuzalwa engakhali futhi enobuso nomzimba omuhle, khona-ke kuwuphawu lwezinsuku ezijabulisayo ezizayo kanye nezinguquko ezibalulekile nezinhle ezizokwenzeka kumboni maduzane.

Ukubona owesilisa osanda kuzalwa ephusheni

• Ukubona owesilisa osanda kuzalwa ephusheni kuwumbono omuhle futhi kubonisa umshado osheshayo wentombazane engashadile evela ensizweni ayithandayo kakhulu futhi enemizwa engokomzwelo kuye.
• Ngokuqondene nowesifazane oshadile, ukubona umntwana osanda kuzalwa enezici ezinhle kuwuphawu oluqinile lwenjabulo nokuzinza ekuphileni kwakhe komshado.Uma ecabanga ngokukhulelwa, lo mbono umezisa ukufeza lokho akufunayo. 
• Nakuba ukubona usana olusanda kuzalwa lukhala kabi kuwumbono omubi, futhi kuyinkomba yezifo, izinkinga nezinkathazo eziningi.Kuwumbono oyisixwayiso kumbukeli ngokumelene nokudlula ebunzimeni nobuhlungu obukhulu. 

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nowesifazane osanda kuzalwa

• Ukubona owesifazane osanda kuzalwa ephusheni kungenye yemibono ethembisayo ebonisa ukuvela kwezinguquko eziningi ezisheshayo nezihle phakathi nenkathi ezayo. 
• Ukubona owesifazane osanda kuzalwa ephusheni kungomunye wemibono ejabulisayo efanekisela ukuzwa izindaba ezinhle maduze.Ngokuqondene nentombazane engashadile, lo mbono umemezela umshado wayo nokuzinza maduzane. 
• U-Ibn Shaheen uthi usana oluhle olusanda kuzalwa ephusheni luyisingathekiso senjabulo nokuzinza umuntu akubonayo ekuphileni kwakhe.Uma engumfundi, kusho ukuthi kuwuphawu lwempumelelo nobuhle, futhi uma efuna ukufeza. isifiso asithola ngokushesha. 

Ukuqamba ingane esanda kuzalwa ephusheni

• Ukubona intombazane engashadile iqamba usana kuyizindaba ezinhle zokuthi ashade ngokushesha nensizwa elungile enokuziphatha nenkolo, futhi umbono umemezela ukukhulelwa kwakhe ngokushesha ngemva kokushada enganeni ayiphuphayo. 
• Ukuqamba umntwana osanda kuzalwa ephusheni lowesifazane oshadile ongakhulelwe kuwukuphela kwazo zonke izinkinga nezinkinga abhekana nazo, futhi uma ecabanga ngokukhulelwa, kuyisibonakaliso nezindaba ezinhle kuye ezivela kuNkulunkulu uMninimandla onke. ukukhulelwa maduze. 
• Ukuqamba umuntu osanda kuzalwa ephusheni kuyinkomba yokufeza izinhloso azihlosile kanye nokuphela kwazo zonke izithiyo nezithiyo abhekene nazo.Ngokuqondene nensizwa engashadile, kuyinkomba yomshado oseduze.

Ukuncelisa umntwana osanda kuzalwa ephusheni

• Ukuncelisa umntwana osanda kuzalwa ephusheni nokubona ubisi oluningi kuyinhle kakhulu futhi kuyisibonakaliso sekusasa eliqhakazile kanye nokwanda kwenhlanhla ehambisana nenkosikazi ephuphayo. 
• U-Ibn Shaheen uthi umbono wokuncelisa owesilisa osanda kuzalwa ephusheni lowesifazane oshadile ufanekisela ukuchayeka kokungabi nabulungisa okunzima, ngokusho kwencazelo ka-Ibn Sirin. 
• Ukuncelisa umntwana omuhle osanda kuzalwa ephusheni kuwuphawu lokududuza kwengqondo kanye nokuphela kwazo zonke izinkathazo nezinkinga lowo ophuphayo abhekana nazo.

Ukubona umntwana osanda kuzalwa ehamba ephusheni

• U-Ibn Sirin ukholelwa ukuthi ukubona usana olusanda kuzalwa luhamba ephusheni kuwuphawu lokuhle okuningi empilweni yomboni esikhathini esizayo, futhi umbono umemezela ukuzalwa komntwana wesilisa ozoba nesikhundla esiphakeme phakathi kwabantu. 
• U-Imam Al-Nabulsi ukholelwa ukuthi ukubona usana luhamba ephusheni kuyinkomba yokufeza imigomo maduzane, njengoba kubonisa ukuphela kosizi nezinkinga indoda ebhekene nayo.
• Uma umphuphi ehlushwa isikweletu noma ebhekene nobunzima bezezimali, khona-ke lo mbono uyinkomba yokukhokha isikweletu futhi ulethe ukuthuthukiswa okuningi kwezimo ezibonakalayo, futhi kumuntu ongashadile, umshado oseduze.

Ukubona ingane esanda kuzalwa ikhuluma ephusheni

• Ukubona usana olusanda kuzalwa lukhuluma ephusheni lowesifazane oshadile ohlushwa ukukhulelwa okuphuzile kuyizindaba ezinhle kuye ezivela kuNkulunkulu uMninimandla onke ukuthi maduze uzokhulelwa nokuthi imithandazo izophendulwa maduze. 
• Uma umphuphi ehlushwa izinkathazo noma izinkinga, khona-ke lo mbono uyinkomba yesixazululo sazo zonke izinkinga abhekana nazo ekuphileni, futhi lo mbono ubonisa nokuzwa izindaba ezinhle maduze.  

Ukufa komntwana osanda kuzalwa ephusheni

• U-Ibn Sirin ukholelwa ukuthi ukufa komntwana osanda kuzalwa ephusheni nokubona ingane efile kuwumbono omubi futhi ubonisa ukuhlupheka okunzima umbonisi abhekana nakho, ngaphezu kokuthatha izinqumo ezingalungile ezimenza azizwe edabukile. 
• Ukubona ukufa kwengane ngemva kokuzalwa kuhunyushwa njengenkomba yokuchayeka ekukhathazekeni okukhulu nosizi, futhi lo mbono ubonisa ukuthi umboni usendleleni engalungile futhi kufanele aphenduke futhi abuyele endleleni yeqiniso. 
• Iphupho mayelana nokufa kwendodana umboni, okuyinto Ibn Shaheen wathi ngakho, umbono omuhle futhi libonisa insindiso ezinkathazweni nasezinkingeni, ngaphezu insindiso ezitheni. 
• Iphupho lengane efile ebuyela ekuphileni futhi lachazwa yizazi zezomthetho njengezibhekene nezingxabano eziningi nezinkinga eziningi, ngaphezu kokuhlupheka nokucindezeleka ngenxa yezenzakalo ezihlobene nesikhathi esidlule.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nosana olusanda kuzalwa, lisho ukuthini?

Ukubona ingane yomunye umuntu wesilisa ephusheni kuwumbono ongajabulisi, futhi u-Ibn Sirin wakuhumusha ngokuthi isimo sokungazinzi kanye nesiphithiphithi esinamandla azodlula kuso lo muntu, okumenza adinge ukumeseka ukuze akwazi ukubhekana nalezi zinkinga.

Liyini incazelo yephupho lokuqamba ingane esanda kuzalwa enguMuhammad?

• Ukuqamba umntwana osanda kuzalwa uMuhammad kuwumbono ophethe izindaba ezinhle eziningi.Igama elithi Muhammad lingenye yezimpawu ezinhle ezibonisa ubuhle besimo kanye nokuqeda zonke izinkathazo nezinkathazo umuntu abhekana nazo.Lo mbono futhi uwuphawu lokululama ukugula kanye nesimo esihle.
• U-Imam Nabulsi uthi ekuchazeni lo mbono ukuthi kuyinkomba yokuphenduka nokulahla imikhuba nezono ezenziwa umphuphi.
• Ngokuqondene no-Ibn Sirin, wahumusha umbono ngokuthi usho ukuvuna inzuzo eningi kanye nokuzuza izinto eziningi ezinhle maduze.

Kuthiwani uma ngiphuphe umngane wami enomntwana wesilisa?

• Ukubona umngane wakhe ebeletha ingane yomfana ephusheni, u-Imam Ibn Sirin akhuluma ngakho, umbono obonisa ukungena ekukhathazekeni, ekucindezelekeni, nasezinsikeni eziningi.Lombono ungomunye wemibono ekhombisa ukudlula ebunzimeni bezimali kodwa izohamba maduze.