Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho ngomshado kowesifazane oshadile Umshado ungenye yezindaba ezingokomthetho eziye zahlanganiswa empilweni, futhi kwenzeka ngesivumelwano sabantu ababili, owesilisa nowesifazane, futhi lokhu kwenziwa ngezivumelwano zomthetho kanye nange-Sunnah kaNkulunkulu kanye nesiThunywa saKhe esihloniphekile, futhi USomandla wakuchaza encwadini yaKhe ethandekayo: (Futhi Wenza uthando nesihe phakathi kwenu), futhi lapho owesifazane oshadile ebona umshado wakhe kanye.” Yebo, abanye bayomangala futhi bayoba nelukuluku lokwazi incazelo yalokho, ngakho-ke kulesi sihloko sibuyekeza izinto ezibaluleke kakhulu ezishiwo abahlaziyi, ngakho-ke silandele…!
Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho ngomshado kowesifazane oshadile
- Abahumushi bathi ukubona owesifazane oshadile ephusheni eshada nomyeni kuholela ebudlelwaneni obuncikene phakathi kwabo nothando olujulile phakathi kwabo.
- Umboni, uma ebona umyeni wakhe, umkhwenyana, futhi washada naye, khona-ke lifanekisela injabulo, ukuphila komshado ozinzile, futhi induduzo ngokwengqondo ukuthi ujabulela.
- Ukubuka umboni ephusheni lakhe liphinde lishade kukhombisa ukuvuselela impilo yakhe nomsebenzi wakhe ukuze aqale phansi.
- Ukubona umphuphi embonweni wakhe wokushada nomyeni kubonisa ukuthi umyeni maduze uzothola inzuzo eningi nemali eningi.
- Uma umboni enezingane ezineminyaka yobudala yokushada, futhi efakaza umshado, khona-ke lokhu kuzomnika izindaba ezinhle zomshado wakhe oseduze, futhi uzojabula kakhulu ngalokho.
- Umshado wowesifazane oshade nomuntu ongeyena umyeni ufanekisela ukuchichima kokuziphilisa okuhle nokuchichimayo azokuthola maduze, kanye nezinzuzo eziningi.
- Ukubuka umbono eshada nomuntu ongaziwa kubonisa izinguquko ezinhle ezizokwenzeka empilweni yakhe.
Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho ngomshado wowesifazane oshadile ngu-Ibn Sirin
- Isazi esihlonishwayo u-Ibn Sirin sithi umbono womshado wowesifazane oshade nenye indoda ubonisa izinzuzo nezinzuzo eziningi azozithola.
- Futhi uma kwenzeka owesifazane okhulelwe ebona ephusheni lakhe umshado, khona-ke lokhu kubonisa ukudla okuza kuye, futhi uzoba nomntwana wesifazane osanda kuzalwa.
- Ukubuka umboni ephusheni lakhe lomshado nomunye umuntu kubonisa ukuthi uzojabulela inzalo enhle evela ezinganeni.
- Umboni, uma enensizwa futhi ebona umshado wakhe, wayezomtshela izindaba ezinhle zosuku lomshado wakhe oluseduze, futhi wayezokujabulela lokho.
- Ukushada kowesifazane nomunye umuntu ngaphandle komyeni wakhe kubonisa izinzuzo eziningi azozithola esikhathini esizayo.
- Ukubona owesifazane oshadile eshada nomuntu ofile futhi engena endlini yakhe kufanekisela ubumpofu nokulahlekelwa kwezimali okuzovela kukho.
Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho ngomshado kowesifazane okhulelwe
- Uma owesifazane okhulelwe ebona ukushada kabusha ekukhulelweni kwakhe, khona-ke lokhu kumbonisa kahle okuningi nokuziphilisa okuchichimayo azokuthola maduze.
- Futhi uma kwenzeka umbonisi ebona umshado wakhe futhi nomyeni, khona-ke kuholela ekunqobeni izinkinga nokungavumelani abhekana nakho ngaleso sikhathi.
- Ukubuka umboni ephusheni lakhe eshada nenye indoda, okubonisa ukuthi usuku lokuzalwa luseduze futhi kuzoba lula futhi kungabi nankathazo.
- Ukubona owesifazane eshada nomuntu oshonile kusho ukuchayeka ekuguleni okukhulu namabhadi ngaleso sikhathi.
- Uma umboni wayegula futhi ebona ephusheni lakhe umshado wendoda endala, khona-ke lokhu kubonisa kahle ukuthi aqede izinkinga futhi ajabulele impilo enhle.
- Ukubona umshado ephusheni lowesifazane okhulelwe kubonisa ukuthi usuku lokuzalwa luseduze futhi uzoba nomntwana wesilisa.
- Kodwa uma kunomculo omningi emcimbini wombono, kubonisa ububi nezingxabano eziningi.
Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho ngomshado wowesifazane oshadile kumuntu ongaziwa
- Izazi zokuhumusha zithi umbono wokushada kowesifazane oshadile kumuntu ongaziwa uholela ekuhleni okuningi nokuphila okubanzi azokuthola maduze.
- Uma kwenzeka ukuthi umbonisi abone ukushada kwakhe nendoda angamazi, kufanekisela inala yemali azoyithola.
- Ukubuka owesifazane ephusheni lakhe eshada nendoda engaziwa, kusho ifa elikhulu azolithola, noma umsebenzi ohloniphekile azowuthatha.
- Ukubona owesifazane oshadile eshada nendoda angamazi kukhomba isimo esihle nekusasa eliqhakazile ezinganeni zakhe.
- Ukubona owesifazane ephusheni lakhe eshada nomuntu ongaziwa kusho injabulo nokuzwa izindaba ezinhle maduze.
Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho ngomshado kowesifazane oshade nendoda eyaziwayo
- Uma owesifazane oshadile ebona ephusheni ukuthi ushada nendoda eyaziwayo, khona-ke lokhu kusho ukuthi uzofeza imigomo eminingi nezifiso azifisayo.
- Futhi uma kwenzeka ukuthi umphuphi wabona embonweni wakhe eshada nomuntu omaziyo, khona-ke lifanekisela izindaba ezinhle azozithola maduze.
- Ukubuka umboni ekukhulelweni kwakhe ukushada nomuntu odumile kusho ukuzwa izindaba ezinhle nokuhambela imicimbi ejabulisayo.
- Ukubona umphuphi ephusheni lakhe eshada nomuntu omaziyo kufanekisela usuku oluseduze lokukhulelwa kwakhe futhi uzoba nomntwana omusha.
- Ukushada nomfowabo womyeni ephusheni lomphuphi kubonisa injabulo kanye nezinguquko ezinhle ezizokwenzeka kuye maduzane.
- Ukuzimisela kombonisi ukushada nomuntu owaziwayo kusho ukululama ngokushesha ezifweni nempilo enhle azoyijabulela.
Kusho ukuthini ukushada nomyeni wami ephusheni?
- Isazi esihlonishwayo u-Ibn Sirin, kwangathi uNkulunkulu angaba nomusa kuye, sithi ukushada nomyeni ephusheni kubonisa okuningi okuhle nokuziphilisa okubanzi ozokuthola maduze.
- Uma kwenzeka umbonisi ebona ephusheni lakhe umshado wakhe nomyeni, lokhu kubonisa uthando olujulile phakathi kwabo futhi basebenzisane ukuze banqobe izinkinga.
- Ukubona umphuphi embonweni wakhe womshado kumyeni kubonisa ukuqonda nokuphila komshado ozinzile oyoba nakho.
- Ukubuka umshado womyeni ephusheni lomboni kubonisa ukuphila komshado ozinzile nokuqeda izinkinga.
- Ukushada nomyeni ephusheni lowesifazane oshadile kufanekisela ukudla okuchichimayo kanye nemali azoyithola.
- Umboni, uma ebona ephusheni lakhe umshado womyeni, ukhanga ngenjabulo futhi uthola izindaba eziningi ezinhle.
Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokushada nowesifazane odumile ngowesifazane oshadile
- Uma owesifazane oshadile ephupha ngokushada nomuntu odumile, khona-ke lokhu kusho ukuziphilisa okuningi okuhle nokuchichimayo azokuthola.
- Futhi uma kwenzeka umphuphi ebona ephusheni lakhe eshada nomuntu owaziwayo, khona-ke lokhu kufanekisela ukuphila okuzinzile azokujabulela maduzane.
- Ukubona umshado womuntu odumile kowesifazane oshadile kusho izizumbulu zemali azozithola kanye nokungena kumaphrojekthi anenzuzo.
- Ukubuka umboni eshada nendoda edumile ephusheni lakhe kubonisa ukunqoba izinkinga nokukhathazeka abhekana nakho phakathi naleso sikhathi.
- Ukushada nomuntu odumile ephusheni lomboni kubonisa injabulo ezofika kuye kanye nenduduzo engokwengqondo azoyijabulela.
Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho ngowesifazane oshadile ekhala
- Ukubona umphuphi ephusheni mayelana nomshado ngenkathi ekhala kubonisa okuhle okuningi azokuthola maduze.
- Ukubuka owesifazane ephusheni lakhe eshada nenye indoda futhi ekhala kakhulu kufanekisela ukuphila komshado ozinzile azokujabulela.
- Ukubuka umboni ephusheni lakhe eshada nendoda futhi ukukhala kubonisa ukukhululeka okuseduze nokunqoba izinkathazo nobunzima empilweni yakhe.
- Ukubona umphuphi ephusheni lakhe eshada nomunye umuntu futhi edabukile kakhulu kusho ukuthi izindaba ezinhle zizofika kuye maduze.
- Uma umboni ephusheni lakhe ebona umshado womuntu futhi wakhala kakhulu, lifanekisela ukuthola amathuba amahle.
Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho ngomshado kowesifazane oshadile ongenamkhwenyana
- Uma owesifazane oshadile ebona umshado ngaphandle komkhwenyana ephusheni futhi egqoke ingubo emhlophe, kusho ukuthi uzohlala ethembele kuye ukuze afinyelele umgomo wakhe.
- Uma kwenzeka ukuthi umbonisi wabona ephusheni lakhe umshado ongenamkhwenyana, khona-ke ufanekisela ukufika kwesibusiso nezindaba ezinhle kuye maduzane.
- Umbonisi, uma ebona ephusheni lakhe umshado ngaphandle komkhwenyana, kusho ukukhululeka okuseduze nokuqeda izinkathazo eziphonswa emahlombe akhe.
- Ukubona umphuphi ephusheni lakhe ngomshado wakhe ngaphandle kokuba khona komuntu eduze kwakhe, futhi kunezingoma eziningi ezikhuluma ngokukhathazeka nezinkinga ezingokwengqondo ezenzeka kuye.
- Ukubuka umbonisi wesifazane emshadweni wakhe, futhi kukhona izihlobo ephusheni, kubonisa ubutha nokuxabana phakathi kwabo.
Ukuchazwa kwephupho ngendoda ingijaha ifuna ukungishada kwabashadile
- Uma owesifazane oshadile ebona ephusheni lakhe othile emxosha futhi efuna ukumshada, khona-ke lokhu kusho ukuthi uzobhekana nezingxabano ezinkulu.
- Uma kwenzeka ukuthi umbonisi wabona ephusheni lakhe umshado womuntu ojoyina naye, ufanekisela ukuphila komshado ozinzile nokunqoba izinkinga ezingokwengqondo.
- Ukubona umphuphi ephusheni lakhe lendoda emjaha ukuba ashade kubonisa ukuthi maduze uzonikezwa inzalo enhle.
- Ukubuka umbono ephusheni lakhe lendoda emlandela ngenjongo yomshado kusho izibusiso eziningi azozithola kanye nenala yokuziphilisa azoyithola.
- Owesifazane okhulelwe, uma ebona ephusheni othile emxosha ukuba ashade, khona-ke umnika izindaba ezijabulisayo zokuhlinzekwa okuseduze kwakhe nomntwana wesilisa.
Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho ngomuntu engingamazi ofuna ukungishada kwabashadile
- Uma owesifazane oshadile ebona umshado nomuntu angamazi ekukhulelweni kwakhe, khona-ke lokhu kuholela ekubeni nomuzwa wesizungu nokungabi nalutho phakathi naleyo nkathi.
- Futhi uma kwenzeka umphuphi ebona embonweni wakhe indoda angamazi ukuthi ubani ofuna ukumshada, khona-ke lokhu kubonisa ukwaneliseka okuphelele ngokuphila kwakhe komshado kanye nenjabulo yenjabulo nokuphila okubanzi.
- Ukubuka umbono ephusheni lakhe lomuntu ongaziwa osondela kuye ufanekisela ukuzwa izindaba ezinhle maduze.
- Indoda engaziwa, uma umbonisi embona futhi efuna ukumshada, isho izinhlekelele ezizokwehlela impilo yakhe.
- Ngokuqondene nokufakaza owesifazane ekukhulelweni kwakhe eshada nesilwane esingaziwa, kufanekisela izono azenzayo.
Iyini incazelo yephupho mayelana nesehlukaniso sowesifazane oshadile futhi ashade nomunye?
- Uma owesifazane oshadile ebona ephusheni lakhe ukuthi uhlukanisa nomyeni wakhe futhi ushada nomunye, kusho ubuhlobo obunzima naye futhi uhlala endaweni engazinzile.
- Uma umphuphi ebona ephusheni lakhe isehlukaniso nomshado komunye umuntu amaziyo, kufanekisela ukuxhashazwa kwakhe ukuze afeze lokho akufunayo.
- Isehlukaniso esivela kumyeni nomshado komunye umuntu ephusheni lomphuphi simemezela izinguquko ezinhle azobhekana nazo esikhathini esizayo.
Lisho ukuthini iphupho ngomshado kowesifazane oshade nomuntu ofile?
- Uma owesifazane oshadile ebona ephusheni lakhe eshada nomuntu oshonile futhi wayemuhle ngokubukeka, lokhu kubonisa ukuphila komshado ozinzile azokujabulela.
- Uma umphuphi ebona ephusheni lakhe eshada nomuntu ofile ngokubukeka okubi, kubonisa ukuwela ezinkingeni nokukhathazeka.
- Ngokuqondene nomphuphi ebona ephusheni lakhe eshada nomuntu ofile owaziyo, lifanekisela injabulo nokuthi uzozwa izindaba ezinhle maduze.
Ithini incazelo yephupho ngomshado kowesifazane oshade nendoda eshadile?
- Uma owesifazane oshadile ebona ephusheni ukuthi ushadile ngenjabulo nendoda eshadile, lokhu kubonisa izinkinga eziningi azobhekana nazo.
- Uma owesifazane ebona ephusheni lakhe eshada nomuntu oshadile, lifanekisela ukukhashelwa azokwenza empilweni yakhe.
- Umshado womphuphi kumuntu oshadile ephusheni lakhe ubonisa izinguquko ezinhle ezizokwenzeka kuye
