Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokugwazwa ngommese ngu-Ibn Sirin

Ukuchazwa kwephupho ngokugwazwa ngommese ephusheni Ukubona ukugwazwa ngommese ephusheni kungase kube umbono obangela umuzwa wokwesaba nokukhathazeka okukhulu kumbukeli, okumshukumisela ukuba afune izinkomba nezincazelo ezahlukene. lombono.Lombono uphethe izinkomba eziningi ezibalulekile kanye nemiyalezo eyisixwayiso okufanele umbukeli ayibhekisise, futhi sizokutshela okwengeziwe.Ukuhunyushwa nobufakazi obuhlukene bombono ngokusebenzisa lesi sihloko.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho ngokugwazwa ngommese

• Izazi zezomthetho nabahumushi bakholelwa ukuthi ukugwaza ngommese ephusheni kungelinye lamaphupho anezincazelo eziningi ezimbi, lo mbono ukhomba ukuphucwa kwamalungelo ombonisi kanye nokungakwazi ukuzivikela. 
• Ukugwaza ngommese ephusheni ngomuntu ogulayo futhi ezizwa enovalo olujulile kuyinkomba yokuwohloka okukhulu kwesimo sezempilo, kanti ezinye izazi zezomthetho zithi kuyibika elibi ukuthi ukufa sekusondele. 
• Ukubona owesilisa ukuthi uzakwabo uyamgwaza ngemuva kuyisingathekiso sokuthwala imizwa ejulile yenzondo nenzondo ngombukeli ngenxa yokuphakama kwakhe kunabanye, kufanele akunake. 

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokugwazwa ngommese ngu-Ibn Sirin

• U-Ibn Sirin ukholelwa ukuthi ukubona ephusheni egwazwa ngommese kuyinkomba yokukhashelwa nokukhashelwa ngumuntu osondelene nomboni, kodwa uma ebona ukukhishwa ummese, kusho ukuthi umboni wenze izinqumo ezingalungile. 
• Ukuphupha ugwazwa ngommese ephusheni kuyinkomba yokuthi lowo ophuphayo uzokwenza izono nokungalaleli asuke endleleni engalungile, aphenduke, uma ebona ukugwazwa konkosikazi, kuba uphawu lokungavumelani nezingxabano. 

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokugwaza ngommese kwabesifazane abangashadile 

• U-Imam Al-Sadiq uthi, encazelweni yephupho lokugwaza owesifazane ongashadile ngommese, ukuthi kuwumbono omubi futhi kubonisa ukunqamuka okujwayelekile kwesimo, ikakhulukazi ezindabeni eziphathelene nomshado, ngenxa yokuchayeka emilingweni. nokulinyazwa ngumuntu osondelene naye.
• Ukubona umuntu othandana naye ephusheni ephusheni lentombazane eyodwa ebambe ukuze agwazwe omunye umuntu noma umgwazile kuwumbono omxwayisa ngokuziphatha kwalo muntu nokuthi kuningi okubi akwenzayo futhi uzokhashelwa futhi. ekhashelwa nguye. 
• Ukuphupha ugwazwa ngommese ulinyazwe kanzima abangane noma izihlobo kuwumbono obonisa ukunqamula ubudlelwano phakathi kwabo nokubhekana nezinkinga eziningi.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho egwazwe ngommese owesifazane oshadile

• Ukuphupha owesifazane oshadile egwazwa ngommese omunye wesifazane limxwayisa ngokuthi kukhona owesifazane empilweni yakhe ofuna ukumhlukanisa nomyeni wakhe, kungaba ngokuthakatha noma ukudala izinkinga. 
• Ukubona ukugwazwa ngommese phambi kwezingane kuyisingathekiso somonakalo omkhulu nobuhlungu obuzokwehlela le ndodana, futhi kumelwe ayinakekele kahle impilo yezingane futhi asebenze ukuze azinakekele. 
• Abahumushi bathi iphupho lokufa ngenxa yokugwazwa umyeni ngommese liveza izinkinga nezingqinamba owesifazane abhekana nazo esigabeni esilandelayo, nokuba khona kwezingqinamba eziningi phakathi kwazo.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokugwaza owesifazane okhulelwe ngommese

• Iphupho eliphathelene nokugwaza owesifazane okhulelwe ngommese futhi libona igazi liphuma liwumbono omubi futhi libonisa izinkinga phakathi nenkathi ezayo ehlobene nempilo yakhe kanye nempilo yomntwana, futhi kungase kufike ekulahlekelweni kombungu. 
• Iphupho lapho umyeni egwaza owesifazane okhulelwe ngommese, u-Ibn Shaheen athe liwumbono ongokwengqondo futhi libonisa ukukhathazeka okukhulu nokwesaba ngezimo zesikhathi esizayo, ezithinta kabi umsebenzi wakhe. 
• Ukugwaza ngommese ephusheni lowesifazane okhulelwe kuveza inzondo nomona owesifazane angase avulelwe umngane wakhe oseduze. 

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho eligwazwe ngommese kowesifazane odivosile

• U-Imam Ibn Kathir uthi ukubona ukugwazwa ngommese ephusheni kowesifazane ohlukanisile kuwuphawu lokungalandeli izibopho zenkolo, futhi kufanele aphenduke ngaphambi kokuba kwephuze kakhulu futhi azisole ngokujulile ngezono azenzile. 
• Ukuphupha ugwazwa ngommese ngowayengumyeni kuhunyushwa ngokuthi ukuvuselela izinkinga phakathi kwabo futhi.Mayelana nokugwazwa umndeni womyeni, kuwumbono okhombisa ukuhlupheka okukhulu kanye nokuthathwa kwezingane zakhe kuye. 
• Abahumushi bathi ukugwazwa ngommese ephusheni lowesifazane ohlukanisile kuchazwa njengezinkinga eziningana lapho owesifazane ezowa khona, nokuhlupheka okukhulu okuvela kubantu abakhuluma kabi ngaye ngezinto okungezona yena. 
• Ukugwazwa ngommese esiswini kuyiphupho elihle, kodwa uma kwenzeka owesifazane ehlushwa ukugula, kuwuphawu lokululama, kuyilapho kuveza ukuchayeka kobuqili nokukhohlisa uma enempilo enhle.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho ngokugwaza indoda ngommese

• U-Ibn Sirin uthi ukubona indoda igwazwa ngommese umngane wayo oseduze kuwumbono oyisixwayiso kuye ngokuthi izokhashelwa yilo muntu futhi isebenzela ukudalula izimfihlo. 
• Ukubona umuntu ezigwaza ngommese ephusheni kuwuphawu lokuthi ulungisa amaphutha awenza ezikhathini ezedlule, futhi libonisa ukuphenduka nokufulathela izono. 
• Ukuphupha ugwazwa ngomese ngumuntu ongaziwa kuwuphawu lokwehluleka nokungakwazi ukuhlola kahle izinto, liphinde lixwayise obonayo ngesidingo sokunaka abaseduze kwakhe. 

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho egwazwe ngommese ngaphandle kwegazi

• Otolika bathi ekuchazeni umbono wokugwaza ngommese kungawi igazi, indoda ithwala kanzima ingcindezi nezinkinga ezingokwengqondo, kodwa ingakwazi ukuzidalula noma ukukhuluma ngazo, okwandisa ukucwasa komuntu siqu. 
• Inkulumo yombono wokugwazwa ngommese engaboni igazi liphuma ikhombisa umzamo wombonisi ukulungisa izinkinga abhekene nazo, ukuze kugcinwe impilo nomndeni ngendlela ezinzile. 

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho egwazwe ngommese eceleni

• Ukubona ugwazwe ngommese ohlangothini kuwumfanekiso wokuchayeka kombukeli enkingeni enkulu ezoba nomthelela omubi empilweni yakhe, futhi lo mbono ukhombisa ububi obukhulu empilweni yomuntu. 
• Otolika bathi ukubona ummese ugwazwe ohlangothini kuwumfanekiso wezinkinga eziningi owesilisa abhekana nazo agcine engakwazi ukuziqeda, ngaphezu kwalokho kuveza ukungakwazi ukufeza amaphupho. 
• Ukubona egwazwe ngommese amahlandla ambalwa eceleni kuveza inqwaba yabantu abacashe ephusheni abahlela ukumelula. 

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokugwazwa ngommese esandleni

• U-Imam Ibn Sirin uthi ukubona ummese ugwazwe esandleni sentombazane eyodwa kukhombisa ubunzima bezimali kanye nokungakwazi ukufeza izinhloso zayo noma ukwehluleka ezifundweni zayo.
• Ukugwaza indoda ngommese esandleni kuyisimo esibucayi esizobhekana nayo, futhi ngenxa yalokho izolahlekelwa indlela yokusebenza ethola ngayo ukudla kosuku lwayo.Lo mbono uveza namabhadi kanye nokungakwazi ukwenza. inzuzo empilweni yangempela. 

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho ngokugwazwa ngommese entanyeni

• Iphupho lokugwazwa entanyeni ephusheni lentombazane engashadile liwumbono omubi futhi libonisa ukwehluleka nokungakwazi ukufinyelela imigomo.U-Ibn Sirin walihumusha njengokungena ebuhlotsheni obungokomzwelo obuzombangela ubuhlungu obukhulu nokudabuka. 
• Ukubona owesifazane oshadile egwazwa ummese entanyeni kuwumfanekiso wokuchayeka ekungabini nabulungisa okunzima empilweni yakhe, kodwa uma ebona ukuthi umyeni wakhe umgwaza ngommese wasekhishini, lapha umbono ubonisa ukugcwaliseka kwamaphupho nezifiso. 
• U-Imam Al-Nabulsi uthi iphupho lokugwazwa ngommese ephusheni lomuntu lifanekisela inani lezinkinga nezithiyo abhekana nazo empilweni.

Ukuchazwa kwephupho ngokugwazwa ngommese ethangeni

• U-Ibn Sirin ukholelwa ukuthi iphupho lokugwazwa ngommese ethangeni liwuphawu lwezinkinga nokukhathazeka umbonisi abhekana nakho, kodwa kuyizinto ezincane ezikhathazayo futhi uzozinqoba maduze. 
• Ukugwaza ngommese ethangeni, abahlaziyi bathe, kuyisingathekiso sesifo nenkinga, noma omunye wabantu osondelene nabo athinteke ngezinto ezincane. 
• U-Imam al-Nabulsi ukholelwa ukuthi ukugwaza ngommese ephusheni kuyinkomba yokuthola isikhundla namandla kwenceku yakhe, kodwa uma ebona ukuthi yiyona ezigwazayo, lokhu kuwuphawu lokuthi indoda idla imali yendodana yayo. . 

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokugwazwa ngommese nokufa

• Ukuphupha ugwazwa ngommese nokufa ephusheni kukhomba inhlupheko aphila kuyo umphuphi, kanti leliphupho lingaveza ukufa komunye wabantu abasondelene nomphuphi, ikakhulukazi uma ebona ebuthongweni ukubonakala kwegazi. . 
• Ukubona ukugwazwa ngommese nokufa ephusheni ngowesifazane oshadile, u-Imam Ibn Sirin akhuluma ngakho, kuyinkomba yokwenzeka kokuhlukana phakathi kwakhe nomyeni. 
• Ukubona ummese ugwazwe entanyeni nokufa kubonisa ukuthi umbonisi uzobhekana nezinkinga ezinkulu kanye nokuphulwa kwamalungelo akhe, kodwa uyakwazi ukubuyisela amalungelo akhe futhi. 

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho ngokuzigwaza ngommese

• Ukubona ukuzigwaza ngommese ephusheni kusho ukusindiswa osizini, ukucindezeleka okukhulu, kanye nezinkinga umphuphi abhekana nazo maduze. 
• Ukubonakaliswa kombono wokuzigwaza kubonisa isifiso soshintsho oluhle, ukulahla izici ezimbi zokuziphatha, nokuqala impilo entsha. 
• Ososayensi nabahumushi bathi ummese ephusheni ngokuvamile ubonisa ukwesaba nokukhathazeka okukhulu ngekusasa, kodwa uma ubona ukugwaza ngemuva, kuwuphawu lwezinhlekelele eziningi nezinhlekelele.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokugwazwa ngommese kumuntu ongaziwa

Ukugwazwa ngommese ephusheni ngumuntu ongaziwa kuwumbono ophethe izincazelo eziningi ezibalulekile, okuhlanganisa: 

• Ukugwazwa ngomese ngumuntu ongaziwa kuwuphawu lokuphucwa amandla kulowo obona umbono nokungakwazi ukuzithathela izinqumo.Kuphinde kukhombise ukuphoqwa ukwenza izinto eziningi ngaphandle kwentando yombonisi. 
• Ukugwazwa ngomese ngumuntu ongaziwa ephusheni lomuntu ogulayo kuwumbono oveza ukuwohloka okukhulu kwesimo sakhe sempilo, kanti ezinye izazi zezomthetho zithi kuwuphawu lwegama elisondelayo. 
• U-Ibn Sirin ukholelwa ukuthi ukubona ukugwazwa ngommese ngaphandle kokubona umgwazi, noma uma kwakungumuntu ongaziwa ngomphuphi, kuchazwa njengezinkinga ezilandelanayo nezinkinga lapho umphuphi ngokwakhe ewela khona ngenxa yokwenza izinqumo ezingalungile. 

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho eligwazwe ngommese enhliziyweni

• Ukubona ummese ogwazwe enhliziyweni ngokujwayelekile kuwumbono obonisa ukuphela kobudlelwane, ikakhulukazi ephusheni lentombazane eyodwa, njengoba libonisa ukuphela kobudlelwane obungokomzwelo obumbangela ubuhlungu obukhulu. 
• Ukugwaza ummese enhliziyweni kuwukubonakaliswa kokukhathazeka okukhulu nokwesaba ikusasa, kodwa kungokwesikhashana futhi kuzophela maduze. 
• Ukubona ukugwazwa ngommese enhliziyweni ephusheni lowesifazane oshadile kuyisixwayiso kuye ukuthi kunabantu abamhlelelayo nabamhlelela izinkinga, okubangela usizi lwakhe, ngaphezu kokuba uphawu lokuvezwa kobuhlungu bokulahlekelwa. 
• U-Imam Ibn Shaheen ukholelwa ukuthi iphupho lokugwazwa ngommese enhliziyweni endodeni liyisingathekiso sokukhashelwa umuntu osondelene naye futhi kufanele aqaphele futhi aqaphe. 
• Ngokuqondene no-Ibn Sirin, wachaza lo mbono njengokudlula ebunzimeni obukhulu bezezimali kanye nokwehluleka ukufeza izinhloso nezifiso. 

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokugwaza ingane ngommese

• Umbono wowesifazane okhulelwe wokuthi kukhona ogwaza ingane yakhe ngommese, u-Ibn Shaheen akhuluma ngawo, umbono obaluleke kakhulu ngokwengqondo kwasekuqaleni, ngenxa yokwesaba kwakhe okukhulu ingane nokukhulelwa kwayo.
• Ukubona ingane igwazwa ngommese ephusheni lowesifazane oshadile kuyisexwayiso kuye ngesidingo sokunakekela izimo zezingane zakhe, ikakhulukazi ngokombono wezempilo, ikakhulukazi lapho ebona igazi liphuma kuzo noma libhekene nokufa. . 
• Ukuphupha ugwazwa ngommese ngamabomu kusho ukuthi baningi abantu abazonda impilo yomboni futhi abafisa ukuthi izibusiso zisuke kuye, nombono uveza isimo esibi somqondo indoda ebhekene naso.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokugwaza ummese enhliziyweni yendoda

1. Inkomba yokuba khona kobunzima nezinkinga: Uma owesilisa ezibona egwazwa ngommese enhliziyweni ephusheni futhi igazi likhomba ukuthi liyaphuma, lokhu kungase kusho ukuthi kukhona umuntu ohlela ukudala ubunzima nezinkinga ukuphila kwakhe, okuzokwenza inhliziyo yakhe idabuke futhi ikhathazeke.

2. Isexwayiso sokukhaphela: Ngokwencazelo ka-Imam Ibn Shaheen, iphupho elimayelana nendoda egwazwe ngommese enhliziyweni lingase libe uphawu lokukhashelwa othile osondelene naye.
   Kumele aqiniseke futhi aqikelele ebudlelwaneni bakhe.

3. Ukukhashelwa: Uma insizwa engashadile izibona igwazwa ngommese emhlane, lokhu kungase kusho ukuthi izokhashelwa umngane wayo wesikhathi esizayo.

4. Izinkathazo nosizi: Uma umuntu ezibona egwazwa ngommese enhliziyweni, leli phupho lingase libonise ukuthi uhlushwa izinkathazo, usizi nokucindezeleka, kodwa uzokwazi ukunqoba kamuva.

5. Ukuphela kobudlelwane: Kwezinye izimo, iphupho mayelana nokugwazwa ngommese enhliziyweni lingaba uphawu lokuphela kobudlelwane.
   Ikakhulukazi lapho umuntu othile ebonakala ephusheni egwaza ummese enhliziyweni yakhe, lokhu kungase kubonise ukuthi kukhona intombazane eyangena empilweni yakhe futhi yabangela ukuphela kobudlelwane bakhe bothando.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho ngigwaza umuntu ngommese wabesifazane abangashadile

1. Ukunqoba ubunzima: Iphupho lowesifazane ongashadile lokugwaza othile ngommese lingase libonise isifiso sakhe sokunqoba ubunzima nezinselele ekuphileni kwakhe.
   Lobu bunzima bungase buhlanganise ubudlelwano obudlule noma izinkinga zomuntu siqu.
   Uma intombazane engashadile izibona igwaza othile ngommese ephusheni layo, lokhu kungase kube isikhumbuzo kuyo ukuthi iyakwazi ukunqoba ubunzima nokuzuza ukuphila okungcono.

2. Ubuhlobo obuhlulekile: Owesifazane ongashadile ezibona egwaza othile ngommese ephusheni lakhe kungase kubonise ukuntula ukuzethemba ebuhlotsheni bakhe bothando bangaphambili noma bamanje.
   Lo mbono ungase ubonise ukudumala, ukudideka ebudlelwaneni, imizwa yokukhashelwa, noma ukuhlukumezeka kwengqondo.
   Kuleli phupho, owesifazane ongashadile angase akhumbule ubuhlungu obubangelwa ubuhlobo obudlule, futhi azame ukugwema ukuphinda esikhathini esizayo.

3. Isexwayiso sokukhaphela: Iphupho lowesifazane ongashadile lokugwazwa ngommese lingase libe yisixwayiso sokukhashelwa othile osondelene naye.
   Lo mbono ungase ubonise ukukhashelwa noma ukukhashelwa umuntu ophuphayo ambheka njengosondelene naye.
   Leli phupho lingase libangele ukukhathazeka nokucindezeleka kowesifazane ongashadile ngenxa yokukhashelwa, futhi angase aqaphe ebuhlotsheni bakhe bomuntu siqu.

4. Ukugcizelela imingcele yomuntu siqu: Iphupho lowesifazane ongashadile lokugwaza othile ngommese lingabonisa ukugcizelela kwakhe ukulondoloza imingcele yakhe yomuntu siqu futhi angavumeli abanye ukuba bayilawule.
   Leli phupho lingase libe isikhumbuzo kowesifazane oyedwa ngokubaluleka kokuzivikela nokuma ngokumelene nanoma yikuphi ukwephulwa kwamalungelo akhe.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokugwaza umuntu ongaziwa ngommese wabesifazane abangashadile

1. Intukuthelo nokuziphindiselela:
   Iphupho ngomuntu ongaziwa egwaza owesifazane ongashadile ngommese libonisa ukuba khona kwentukuthelo ejulile noma ukukhathazeka okungenzeka lowo muntu abe nakho.
   Kungenzeka ukuthi empilweni yakhe kunabantu abamcasukelayo noma angaba nenqwaba yenzondo emsebenzini.

2. Ingcindezi nengcindezi:
Iphupho lowesifazane ongashadile lokugwazwa ngommese lingase libonise ukucindezeleka nengcindezi ekuphileni kwakhe.
Kungenzeka ukuthi uhlushwa izinkinga eziningi nokungavumelani empilweni yakhe yomuntu siqu noma yomsebenzi, futhi leli phupho libonisa ubunzima bokwenza lula isimo sakhe.

3. Umona nomlingo:
   Iphupho lowesifazane ongashadile lokugwaza umuntu ongaziwa ngommese lingase libonise ukuthi angase abe sengozini yomona noma imilingo enamandla ekuphileni kwakhe.
   Umeluleka ngokuthi azivikele futhi athathe izinyathelo zokuzivikela ekulimaleni nasebubini.

4. Uthando oluhlulekile:
   Uma owesifazane ongashadile ezibona egwazwa ngommese ephusheni lakhe, lokhu kungase kubonise ukuthi ungena ebuhlotsheni bothando obuhlulekile ekuphileni kwakhe.
   Kufanele acabangele ithuba lokumisa lobu buhlobo futhi abheke injabulo kwenye indawo.

5. Ukunqoba nokukhululeka:
   Kowesifazane ongashadile, iphupho lokugwazwa ngommese lingase libonise ukuphela kwezinkinga nobunzima bakhe.
   Kubonisa ukuthi izozinqoba zonke izitha zayo futhi izojabulela isikhathi sokuphumula ekuphileni kwayo okulandelayo.

Ukuchazwa kwephupho umama engigwaza ngommese

Izincazelo zokubona umama wakho ekugwaza ngommese:

1. Ukungabi nokucabanga kusengaphambili nokucabanga okuhle: Ukugwaza omunye umuntu ephusheni kubonisa ukuntula ukucabanga nokucabanga okuhle ngezindaba eziholela ezinkingeni eziningi nobunzima ekuphileni kwakho.
   Iphupho lingase libe isikhumbuzo kuwe ngesidingo sokucabanga ujule ngaphambi kokwenza izinqumo ezibalulekile.

2. Ubunzima nezinselele ezikhona: Uma ungashadile futhi uphupha umama wakho ekugwaza ngommese, lokhu kungase kubonise ubunzima nezinselelo obhekana nazo ekuphileni kwakho siqu.
   Kungenzeka ukuthi udlula enkathini enzima edinga ukuzimisela okuqinile ukuze unqobe lobo bunzima.

3. Inkomba yokuphenduka nokushelela endleleni efanele: Uma ubona umama wakho ongasekho ekugwaza ephusheni, lokhu kungase kubonise ukuthi wenza izono neziphambeko futhi uphambuka endleleni efanele.
   Iphupho lingase libe isikhumbuzo kuwe ngesidingo sokuphenduka futhi ubuyele ekuziphatheni okulungile.

4. Isifiso sokufinyelela imigomo: Uma ubona owesifazane ezama ukukugwaza ngommese ephusheni, lokhu kungase kubonise isifiso sakho esinamandla sokufeza izinhloso zakho nezifiso zakho ekuphileni kwakho.
   Nokho, kumelwe uqiniseke ukuthi awuphishekeli leyo migomo ngokucindezela abanye.

5. Isexwayiso sokukhaphela nozungu: Iphupho lingase libe yisixwayiso kuwe sokuthi kukhona abantu empilweni yakho abazama ukukulimaza noma ukulimaza isithunzi sakho.
   Kufanele uqaphele futhi uqaphe indawo okuzungezile ukuze ugweme lezi tulo.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho ngokugwaza ubaba ngommese

1. Ukushintsha kwezimo:

• Ngokuka-Ibn Sirin, iphupho lokugwaza uyise ngommese lihlobene nokushintsha kwezimo zomphuphi esikhathini esizayo, okungenzeka kube ngcono noma okubi kakhulu.
• Umphuphi kulindeleke ukuthi alahlekelwe yilungu lomndeni elithandekayo, okuzombangela ukudabuka nokucasuka okukhulu.

2. Izinkinga nokukhathazeka:

• Ukuphupha ugwaza ubaba ngommese liyinkomba yezinkinga lowo ophuphayo abhekene nazo.
• Uma ephusheni umphuphi ekwazi ukuqeda ummese nganoma iyiphi indlela, lokhu kungase kubonise amandla akhe okunqoba nokuqeda lezo zinkinga.

3. Ukunqoba nokunqoba:

• Ezinye izincazelo zikholelwa ukuthi iphupho lokugwaza ubaba ngommese lingabonisa ubuhle, ukunqoba, nokufeza imigomo yomphuphi.
• Ukubona ummese ephusheni kungabonisa amandla nokunqoba lowo ophuphayo ayoba nakho lapho ebhekene nezinselele nobunzima.

4. Ububi nokungabi nabulungisa:

• Ukuphupha ngokugwaza ubaba ngommese kungase kubonise ukuthi kukhona abantu empilweni yomphuphi abafuna ukumlimaza.
• Mhlawumbe iphupho libonisa ukukhashelwa nokungabi nabulungisa kumuntu oseduze nomphuphi.

5. Phenduka futhi ufulathele indlela engalungile:

• Iphupho eliphathelene nokugwaza ubaba ngommese liyinkomba yokuthi lowo ophuphayo wenze izono neziphambeko futhi waphambuka endleleni efanele, futhi lowo ophuphayo kufanele aphenduke futhi alwele ukushintsha nokwenza ngcono.

6. Imizwa yokukhashelwa nengozi:

• Iphupho eliphathelene nokugwaza ubaba ngommese lingase libonise imizwa yokukhashelwa noma ingozi umphuphi angase azizwe ngayo ekuphileni kwakhe okuvukayo.

Lichaza ukuthini ukuphupha ugwazwa ngommese ngaphandle kwegazi?

• Endodeni, ukubona igwazwa ngommese ngaphandle kokuphuma kwegazi kubonisa ukubhekana nezinkinga eziningi, ukucindezeleka okukhulu okungokwengqondo, nokungakwazi ukulungisa ukuphila.
• Ngokuqondene nokubona umuntu egwaza omunye umuntu esiswini ngaphandle kwegazi, kufanekisela ukubhekana nezinkinga ezithile nezithiyo nabangane nezihlobo, noma ukuba khona komuntu omubi ozama ukuhlanekezela isithombe salowo ombonayo futhi akhulume kabi. nezinto ezingalungile ngaye.

Ithini incazelo yephupho lomuntu ogwaze umyeni wami ngommese?

• Ukubona umuntu egwaza umyeni wakhe ngommese kuyisixwayiso kuye ngokuthi kunesitha esimcathamele esimhlelela itulo, kufanele aqikelele ukuze abaleke kulezo zenzo.
• Uma ebona ukuthi ugwaza umyeni wakhe esiswini, kuyisingathekiso sokungena ezinkingeni nokungaboni ngaso linye naye okungaholela ekwehlukaniseni, ngakho-ke kumele abhekane nobuhlakani nobuhlakani ekusebenzelaneni kwakhe.

Lichaza ukuthini iphupho likasisi wami engigwaza ngommese?

• Ukubona udade egwaza umfowabo ngommese ephusheni kwahunyushwa yizazi zezomthetho njengophawu lwamandla obudlelwane phakathi kwentombazane nomfowabo empilweni yangempela futhi kubonisa ukuthola ukusekelwa okuqhubekayo nokusekelwa kuye.
• Lo mbono ukhomba nokuba khona kobudlelwano obuqinile nokungena ebudlelwaneni phakathi kwabo okuzokwenza ukuthi bathole inzuzo eningi, ikakhulukazi uma ungaboni kuphuma igazi.