Ezikhathini eziningi, amaphupho abe yingxenye ebalulekile yokuphila kwethu kwansuku zonke.
Umuntu angase avuke ekuseni futhi azizwe enelukuluku lokuqonda ukuthi lisho ukuthini iphupho lakhe eliyinqaba abenalo izolo ebusuku.
Ngezinye izikhathi leli phupho lihilela isilwane, futhi ikati elimnyama lingase libe ngomunye wabo.
Ikati elimnyama livamise ukuba yindaba yokubuzwa nokuphikisana ngabantu ngenxa yedumela lalo elingaqondakali.
Ngakho-ke, lesi sihloko sinikeza incazelo kanye nesixazululo sephupho elivamile okwamanje, okuyiphupho mayelana nekati elimnyama elingihlaselayo.
Ukuchazwa kwephupho ngekati elimnyama lingihlasela
Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nekati elimnyama elingihlaselayo kuyisihloko sokufuna ukwazi kanye nesithakazelo kubantu abaningi.
Uma uphuphe ikati elimnyama likuhlasela ephusheni lakho, leli phupho lingase libe nezincazelo ezihlukene nezihlukene ngokwamasiko nezincazelo zendawo.
Enye yezincazelo ezivamile zaleli phupho ukuthi lingabonisa ukukhashelwa nokukhohlisa kubantu abasondelene nawe, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi bangabangane noma amalungu omndeni.
Lo mbono ungase ube yisixwayiso kuwe sokuthi udinga ukuqaphela kakhulu futhi unake labo abaseduze nawe.
Kubalulekile futhi ukuqaphela ukuthi amasiko athile angase ahlobanise ikati elimnyama nenhlanhla, futhi abanye bangakholelwa ukuthi iphupho mayelana nekati elimnyama elibahlaselayo libonisa umona noma isifiso sokuziphindiselela.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi iyiphi incazelo eqondile, kufanele uhlale uthatha lawa maphupho njengesixwayiso futhi wenze ngokuhlakanipha.
Kungase kudingeke uhlole ubudlelwano bakho bamanje futhi ubheke noma yiziphi izimpawu zokukhaphela noma ukudideka empilweni yakho.
Uma unezinye izincazelo noma izincazelo zephupho mayelana nekati elimnyama elikuhlaselayo, kunconywa ukuthi uthembele emithonjeni ethembekile nevunyelwe ukuze uqonde izimpawu zephupho.
I-Dhikr, injabulo nokugxila ezicini ezinhle kungase kukusize ugcine inhlalakahle yakho engokwengqondo nengokwengqondo.
Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nekati elimnyama lingihlasela ngokusho kuka-Ibn Sirin
Ekuchazeni amaphupho ngu-Ibn Sirin, ukubona ikati elimnyama lihlasela umuntu kuthatha izincazelo ezingezinhle.
Ikati elimnyama elihlaselayo libonisa ukuba khona kowesifazane omubi nononya ozama ukulimaza umuntu obonayo, futhi lo wesifazane angase abe omunye wezihlobo zakhe.
Ngakho-ke, umuntu uyelulekwa ukuba ahlale kude nalobu buntu obungalungile ngangokunokwenzeka.
Lo mbono ungase ube yisixwayiso kumuntu ngokumelene nokubambisana nalo wesifazane nokugwema ukuthintana naye.
Leli phupho lingase futhi libonise ukuba khona komuntu ozonda umboni futhi ambambele amagqubu namagqubu, futhi angase enze ukuhlaselwa okubi okulimaza umboni.
Ngakho-ke, umuntu kufanele athathe isinyathelo sokufuna usizo lweKur’an eNgcwele kanye ne-dhikr futhi anxuse kuNkulunkulu ukuba amvikele ebubini nasekulimaleni.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, umuntu uyelulekwa ukuba aqaphele ekusebenzelaneni kwakhe nabanye futhi agweme ukukhashelwa nokukhashelwa.
Kufanele futhi abekezele futhi aqine lapho ebhekene nezimo ezinzima angase abhekane nazo.
Ngokucophelela nangesiqondiso esihlakaniphile, umuntu angakwazi ukunqoba izinselele zalo mbono ongemuhle futhi azivikele kunoma yikuphi ukulimala angase abhekane nakho.
Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho ngekati elimnyama lingihlasela ngabesifazane abangashadile
Ukuchazwa kwephupho mayelana nekati elimnyama elingihlasela kwabesifazane abangashadile kungase kube nezincazelo ezahlukene kanye nezincazelo eziningi.
Ngezinye izikhathi, abesifazane abangashadile bangabona ikati elikhulu elimnyama libahlasela futhi lihamba ngemva kwabo.
Phakathi kwezinkomba zalelo phupho, kungase kubhekiselwe ekuhlebeni kwakhe kanye nenhlebo eyenziwa ngabantu abasondelene naye.
Iphupho lingase libe yisixwayiso sokukhashelwa ngabangane, noma uphawu lomhawu nokuphikiswa.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi iyiphi incazelo eqondile, ukuphupha uhlaselwa ikati elimnyama kusho ukuthi kufanele uqaphele abantu abaseduze kwakho futhi uqaphele ekusebenzelaneni kwakho nabo.
Uma ungashadile, khona-ke iphupho lingase lisho ukuthi kukhona abantu abazama ukukuhlukumeza nokukulimaza.
Ngakho-ke, kungase kudingeke ukuba uzivikele futhi uhlale kude nanoma ubani okulimazayo.
Kungase futhi kube usizo ukusebenzisa i-dhikr kanye nokunxusa ukuze uzigcine uphephile futhi uphilile engqondweni.
Ekugcineni, kufanele ukhumbule ukuthi amaphupho anezincazelo ezahlukene kumuntu ngamunye kuye ngokuthi umongo wempilo yakhe kanye nokuhlangenwe nakho kwakhe siqu.
Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho lekati elimnyama elifile
Ukubona ikati elimnyama elifile ephusheni kuphazamisa abesifazane abangashadile.
Leli phupho lingase libonise ukuthi kunezinkinga eziningi intombazane ebhekene nazo noma ukuthi inezinselele eziningi empilweni yayo.
Umbala wekati elimnyama ungaba uphawu lokudabuka nokungajabuli abantu abangashadile abazizwayo.
Leli phupho lingase futhi lihlobane nowesifazane ongashadile ezizwa enesizungu futhi eyedwa, kanye nesifiso sakhe sokuthola umlingani ofanelekayo wokuphila.
Kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi ukuchazwa kwamaphupho akuyona isayensi eqondile futhi kungase kuhluke kumuntu nomuntu.
ngeke kube Ikati iphupho incazelo Umnyama ofanayo ofile wonke umuntu.
Kungase kuncike ezimweni zomuntu siqu kanye nokuhlangenwe nakho ekuphileni komuntu ngamunye.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, intombazane kufanele ibheke izimo zokuphila kwayo futhi izame ukuqonda ngokugcwele imizwa yakhe nokushintsha kwemizwelo.
Uma ube nephupho eliphazamisayo mayelana nekati elimnyama elifile, kunconywa ukuba ufune ukusekelwa ngokomzwelo kubangani nomndeni.
Abahumushi bamaphupho noma ochwepheshe nabo bangaboniswa ukuze bathole izincazelo ezengeziwe noma izeluleko.
Kubalulekile ukuthi abesifazane abangashadile bakhumbule ukuthi ukuphila kuthwala izinselele eziningi kanye nokuhlolwa, nokuthi bayakwazi ukunqoba futhi baphumelele, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi incazelo yephupho lekati elimnyama elifile.
Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nekati elimnyama elihlasela owesifazane oshadile
Iphupho ngekati elimnyama libonisa ingozi engaba khona futhi yisixwayiso kwabesifazane abashadile.
Leli phupho lingase libe uphawu lokuphikiswa okungenzeka okuvela kubantu ongase ubabheke njengabangane.
Lokhu kungase kube inkomba yokukhohlisa nokukhaphela, futhi ungase ube nomuzwa wokuthi othile osondelene nawe wenza itulo lokubangela izinkinga.
Ngakho-ke, kufanele uqaphele futhi uqaphele indawo ezungezile kanye nabantu abaseduze nawe.
Kwezinye izinganekwane zomdabu, ikati elimnyama liwuphawu lwenhlanhla nenhlanhla, kanti kwezinye lingase limelele umona.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi incazelo, ukuphupha ikati elimnyama likuhlasela kufanele likushukumisele ukuba uqaphele futhi uqaphele abantu nezenzakalo ezikuzungezile.
Uma ube nephupho mayelana nekati elimnyama elikuhlaselayo, khona-ke lokhu kungase kube isibonakaliso sokuthi ubhekene nezinselele nezinsongo.
Ngakho-ke, kufanele ubhekane nalezi zinselelo ngokuqinile futhi uxazulule izinkinga obhekene nazo ngokuzethemba nangokuqaphela.
Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nekati elimnyama elihlasela owesifazane okhulelwe
Ukubona ikati elimnyama lihlasela owesifazane okhulelwe kuphakamisa ukwesaba okuqondile nokukhathazeka.
Lokhu kungase kusho ukuthi owesifazane okhulelwe uzizwa esongelwa noma esaba ukulahlekelwa ukuphepha noma ukuzivikela yena kanye nengane yakhe ayilindele.
Ikati elimnyama lingase futhi libonise amandla amabi noma izenzakalo ezimbi ezingase zenzeke empilweni yowesifazane okhulelwe noma labo abaseduze naye.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ikati elihlaselayo lingase lifanekisela isidingo sokuvikelwa nokunakekelwa okwengeziwe ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa.
Kubalulekile ngowesifazane okhulelwe ukuba athathe izinyathelo ezidingekayo ukuze alondoloze impilo yakhe engokwengqondo nengokomzimba ngalesi sikhathi esibucayi.
Ukugxila ekuphumuleni, ukudla okunomsoco, nokuxhumana nabantu ababalulekile empilweni yakhe kungasiza ukudambisa ukukhathazeka futhi kumnike ithemba namandla okubhekana nanoma yiziphi izinselele.
Ukucabanga okuhle, ithemba, kanye nentshisekelo emisebenzini eyakhayo kungase kube nomthelela omkhulu esimweni nempilo ejwayelekile yowesifazane okhulelwe.
Ngakho-ke, kuyalulekwa ukuthi uqhubeke nokufuna usizo olungokwengqondo, olungokomzwelo, nolwezokwelapha oludingekayo ukuze kuqinisekiswe isipiliyoni sokukhulelwa esinempilo nesijabulisayo.
Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nekati elimnyama elihlasela owesifazane ohlukanisile
Ikati elimnyama elihlasela owesifazane ohlukanisile ephusheni liwuphawu lwezinselele nobunzima angase abhekane nazo empilweni yakhe yobungcweti noma yomuntu siqu.
Kungase kube nowesifazane ogangile noma ongalungile ozama ukuvusa uthuthuva futhi abe nomthelela omubi empilweni yakhe.
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi owesifazane ohlukanisile asuke kulokhu kungaboni kahle futhi agxile ekufinyeleleni imigomo yakhe nokuzuza impumelelo yakhe ngendlela enhle.
Uyalulekwa nokuthi aphinde ahlole ubudlelwano bakhe futhi azame ukuqeda abantu abanobuthi abaphazamisa impilo yakhe.
Kungase kube nesidingo sokuqinisa ukuvikeleka ngokwengqondo nangokomoya ngokujwayelekile ngosizo lwe-Holy Quran, i-dhikr nokunxusa.
Ngokufinyelela ukulinganisela kwangaphakathi nokucabanga okuhle, owesifazane ohlukanisile angakwazi ukunqoba lezi zinselele futhi azuze impumelelo nenjabulo ekuphileni kwakhe.
Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nekati elimnyama elihlasela indoda
Ukubona ikati elimnyama lihlasela indoda ephusheni kunezincazelo eziningi ezingenzeka.
Lo mbono ungase ube inkomba yokuba khona kowesifazane oyingozi empilweni yakhe, okungenzeka ukuthi uyisihlobo noma umngane, futhi ufuna ukumlimaza.
Indoda kufanele iqaphele futhi izihlukanise nalobu buntu obungalungile ngangokunokwenzeka.
Uma ikati elimhlaselayo likhulu noma limnyama, kungase kube nomonakalo wangempela empilweni yakhe.
Lokhu kungaba yisixwayiso sokunensa nokucophelela ekusebenzelaneni nabanye.
Ukubona ikati elimnyama lihlasela indoda ephusheni kungase kubonise ukuthi kukhona umuntu omzondayo futhi ombambele amagqubu, futhi wenza izenzo ezimbi kuye.
Kulokhu, kunconywa ukuthi ufunde i-dhikr yansuku zonke, uphendukele kwiKur’an eNgcwele futhi uthandaze kuNkulunkulu ukuthi amvikele ebubini.
Ngokuvamile, indoda yelulekwa ukuba ihlale iqaphile futhi iqaphele indawo eyizungezile nakubantu abaseduze kwayo.
Kungase kube khona abantu abangase bazame ukumlimaza noma ukumlimaza, ngakho kumelwe agweme lezo zinkinga nabantu ababi.
Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho ngekati elimnyama lingiluma
Amakati amnyama awuphawu oluyimpikiswano emhlabeni wokuchazwa kwamaphupho.
Kuyacaca ukuthi ukubuka ikati elimnyama lihlasela futhi likulume ephusheni akuyona into efiselekayo nhlobo.
Ngokuka-Ibn Sirin, leli phupho lingaba nezincazelo eziningi ezahlukene.
Uma kwenzeka ubona ikati elimnyama likuhlasela futhi likuluma esandleni sami, lokhu kungase kufanekise ukuba khona kwentombazane enegama elibi empilweni yakho.
Leli phupho lingase libhekisele kumabhadi obhekene nawo ezindaweni ezahlukene zempilo yakho.
Kodwa-ke, kufanele siqaphele ukuthi ukuhunyushwa kwamaphupho kumane kuwukuchazwa kwezimpawu hhayi umthetho oqinile.
Uma uphuphe ikati elimnyama likuhlasela futhi likuluma esandleni, kunconywa ukuthi uzinike isikhathi sokuhlola izici empilweni yakho ezingase zidale ukuphazamiseka noma ukucindezeleka.
Kungase kube nenkinga edinga ukulungiswa noma ushintsho ekuziphatheni kwakho.
Kubalulekile ukuqaphela nokuqaphela abantu abaseduze kwakho, futhi uthathe izinyathelo ezidingekayo ukuze uzivikele wena kanye nezithakazelo zakho.
Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho ngokubona ikati elinonya ephusheni
Ukubona ikati elinolaka ephusheni kuyinto esabekayo kwabaningi, uma umuntu ebona leli phupho, uzwa ukwesaba nokukhathazeka.
Izincazelo zokubona ikati elinonya ephusheni kuveza ukuthi kukhona isixwayiso noma ingozi esongela umphuphi empilweni yangempela.
Ukuba khona kwekati elinolaka kungase kusho ukuziphindiselela kumuntu noma ukufundwa okungalungile kobuntu bomphuphi.
Umuntu kufanele afune usizo lweKur’an eNgcwele kanye nokunxusa, futhi azihlomise ngamandla angaphakathi okubhekana nezinselele nezinkinga angase abhekane nazo ekuphileni.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, ikati elinolaka lingase libe uphawu lokukhaphela noma ukukhohlisa kubantu abaseduze, ngakho-ke umphuphi kufanele aqaphele futhi alondoloze ithemba lakhe kubantu abamzungezile.
Umphuphi kufanele afunde indlela yokubhekana nezinkinga ngokuhlakanipha futhi ahlale ezolile futhi enesineke lapho ebhekene nanoma yiziphi izinselele ababhekana nazo.
Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokuxabana nekati
Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokuxabana nekati ephusheni kungaba nezincazelo eziningana nezincazelo ngokusho kwendabuko yokuchazwa kwephupho.
Lapho umuntu ezibona engqubuzana noma elwa nekati ephusheni, lokhu kungase kube ukubonakaliswa kokuhlukana nezingxabano angase abhekane nazo ekuphileni kwakhe kwangempela.
Kodwa-ke, kufanele siqonde ukuthi ukuhunyushwa kwamaphupho kuncike kakhulu kumongo womuntu siqu kanye nezimo ezizungezile umuntu onaleli phupho.
Entombazaneni engashadile, ukuxabana nekati ephusheni kungaba uphawu lobunzima nezingxabano empilweni yakhe yothando.
Lokhu kungase kubonise izinselele ebudlelwaneni nobunzima bokuthola uthando lweqiniso.
Ngokuqondene nowesifazane oshadile, ukuxabana nekati ephusheni kungase kusho ukungezwani noma ukungezwani ebuhlotsheni bomshado.
Ikati kulo mongo lingase libonise umuntu ohlulekile noma inkinga ebudlelwaneni okufanele ixazululwe.
Nakuba ukuchazwa kwamaphupho kungase kube impikiswano futhi kuncike kulokho umuntu ngamunye abhekana nakho nezinkolelo, kungasinika ukuqonda okujulile kwemizwa yethu nokwesaba kwethu okujulile.
Ngakho-ke, kufanele sibekezele futhi siqonde izimpawu nemiyalezo iphupho elisiphathele lona.
Ukuchazwa kwephupho ikati elimhlophe lingihlasela ephusheni
Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nekati elimhlophe Ukungihlasela ephusheni kubonisa ukuba khona komuntu okhohlisayo, kodwa lo muntu akahlobene naye futhi akanandaba nezindaba zakhe siqu.
Lo muntu angase abangele izinkinga kanye nezinkinga lowo obonayo angase angazazi empeleni.
Lapho ukuphila kwakhe kwakungase kuvezwe umonakalo ongase ube khona ngaphandle kokuqaphela.
Ngakho-ke, kudingekile ukuba umbonisi aqaphele futhi enze ngokuhlakanipha ekusebenzelaneni kwakhe nabanye.
Uma ikati elihlasela umboni limhlophe, khona-ke lokhu kungase kube ubufakazi bokuba khona komuntu ozwa inzondo kuye futhi efuna ukumlimaza ngezenzo nezenzo zakhe.
Elinye lamathiphu abalulekile kuleli cala ukusho i-dhikr, ukufuna usizo kwiKur’an eNgcwele, futhi uthandaze kuNkulunkulu uMninimandla onke ukuthi avikele lowo oyibonayo ebubini.
Futhi endabeni yokubona ikati elimpunga lihlasela umboni, lokhu kungase kube ubufakazi bokukhashelwa kwabanye abantu abasondelene naye, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi bangamalungu omndeni noma abangane, ngakho-ke angase azizwe eshaqekile ngokujulile kubo.
Ekugcineni, umboni kufanele axhumane nabantu abanolwazi futhi afune iseluleko esidingekayo nokusekelwa ukuze abhekane nezindaba ezimbi angase abhekane nazo ekuphileni.
Ukuchazwa kwephupho ngekati elimnyama lingihlasela lingiluma isandla
Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nekati elimnyama elingihlasela futhi lingiluma esandleni sami kungase kube phakathi kwamaphupho angavamile futhi asabekayo umuntu angawabona ephusheni.
Uma ubona ikati elimnyama likuhlasela futhi likuluma isandla, ungase uzwe uvalo nokwesaba.
Lo mbono uwuphawu oluyisixwayiso lokukhashelwa ongase uhlangane nakho ekuphileni kwakho kwansuku zonke.
Ungase ube nabantu empilweni yakho ababonakala bengabangane, kodwa abahlose ukukulimaza ngempela.
Leli phupho lingase lisho nokuthi uzobhekana nokuphikiswa ngabantu obabona besondelene nawe.
Ukubhekana kwakho nalokhu kuphikiswa kungase kwembule iqiniso lokuthi ungazinaki ezinye zezinto ezingezinhle empilweni yakho.
Kungcono ukuqaphela futhi uqinise ubudlelwano bakho nabantu abakwesekayo futhi bakuthathe ngokungathi sína.
Ukuze unqobe umbono onjalo owesabekayo, ungagxila ezintweni ezinhle empilweni yakho futhi ugweme ukukhononda nokungabi nandaba.
Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi amaphupho awazona izibikezelo eziyiqiniso ngaso sonke isikhathi, kodwa kunalokho ukubonakaliswa kwemicabango nemizwa yakho yangaphakathi.
Ikati elimnyama elikuhlaselayo ephusheni lingase libe ukubonakaliswa kokucindezeleka nokucindezeleka ozizwayo empilweni yakho.
Kufanele uhlale uzolile futhi usebenzele ngokuhlakanipha lapho ubhekene nanoma yibuphi ubunzima ongase uhlangane nabo.
Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho ngekati elimnyama likhuluma nami
Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nekati elimnyama elikhuluma nami kungenye yezihloko ezithakazelisayo emhlabeni wokuhumusha.
Ngokusho kuka-Ibn Sirin kanye nezazi ezihamba phambili zokuhumusha, ukubona ikati elimnyama likhuluma nowesifazane oshadile ephusheni lakhe kubonisa umyeni ongenasithakazelo futhi akaqapheli ukubaluleka kwesikhathi noma ubuhlobo bomshado.
Lokhu kungaba isexwayiso sokuthuthukisa ukuxhumana nokuxhumana nomuntu oshade naye futhi kusebenzele ukuqinisa ubudlelwano nokuqondana phakathi kwabo.
Ngowesifazane osemusha ongashadile, ukuchazwa kwephupho mayelana nekati elimnyama elimhlaselayo kungasho ukulahlekelwa amathuba athile ekuphileni, noma izingcindezi nezinkinga obhekana nazo emsebenzini noma ebuhlotsheni bomuntu siqu.
Kulokhu, isisombululo singase sibe ukufuna izixazululo zobunzima obukhona, ukusebenzela ukuqinisa ukuzethemba, nokufuna ukwesekwa nezeluleko kubantu abaseduze.
Ukuchazwa kwephupho lokubona ikati elimnyama elifile kwabesifazane abangashadile kungase kube uphawu lokuphela kwezinye izingxabano nezinkinga obhekene nazo, kanye nendlela yezixazululo ezinhle kubo.
Kulokhu, kubalulekile ukuba owesifazane osemusha ongashadile athathe imicabango eyakhayo futhi afunde kokuhlangenwe nakho kwakhe kwangaphambili ukuze athuthukise izinga lakhe lempilo futhi azuze injabulo.
Endabeni yowesifazane okhulelwe, ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nekati elimnyama elimhlaselayo kungase kube uphawu lokuqapha nokucabangela ekwenzeni izinqumo kule nkathi ebucayi.
Lokhu kungase kube isikhumbuzo sokugcina impilo yengane futhi uqinisekise inhlalakahle nokuphepha kwayo.
Ngowesifazane ohlukanisile, ukuchazwa kwephupho mayelana nekati elimnyama elimhlaselayo kungase kubonise ukuthi kunezingcindezi nokungezwani ekuphileni kwansuku zonke kanye nezinselele abhekana nazo ngempela.
Kulokhu, kubalulekile ngowesifazane ohlukanisile ukuba aqine futhi abekezele futhi athembele kusibindi sakhe sangaphakathi ukuze anqobe izinselele nezinkinga ezingase zibe khona.
Ngamafuphi, ukubona ikati elimnyama lihlasela umuntu ephusheni lingathwala izincazelo nezincazelo eziningana ngokusho kuka-Ibn Sirin kanye nezazi zokuhumusha.
Kubalulekile ukuthi lo mbono uphathwe ngobuhlakani futhi uqondiswe ekuthuthukiseni isimo somuntu kanye nokuphila impilo engcono.
