Lisho ukuthini iphupho owesifazane engitshela ukuthi ukhulelwe indodana kaSirin?

Ngiphuphe owesifazane engitshela ukuthi ukhulelwe umfana. Ukukhulelwa nokuba nabantwana empilweni yethu ngezinye zezinto ezifiswa kakhulu umuntu esanda kushada ikakhulukazi owesifazane ngoba uwumthombo wothando nothando.Baningi abantu besifazane abaphupha ngokuba ngumama kusukela ebuncaneni babo, futhi iningi labantu liyafisa ukuthi uNkulunkulu ababusise ngendodana ezoba yisixhaso kubo uma sebekhulile bathwale imithwalo nezinkathazo zomhlaba bajabule, usekhulile ezelwe, kukhona nabesifazane ababona umfazi iphupho limtshela ukuthi ukhulelwe umfana, futhi lokhu kunezincazelo eziningi nezinkomba ezihlukile kwelinye icala, futhi sizozichaza ndawonye ngokuningiliziwe ezihlokweni ezilandelayo:

Ngiphuphe owesifazane engitshela ukuthi ukhulelwe umfana

• Uma kwenzeka owesifazane ecabanga njalo ngokukhulelwa futhi ebona ephusheni lakhe owesifazane emtshela ukuthi ukhulelwe umfana, kungenzeka ukuthi leli phupho libangelwa ukukhathazeka kwakhe ngombono wokuba nezingane, nokuthi usuka emqondweni wakhe ophansi.
• Ukubuka owesifazane ephusheni lakhe udadewabo emtshela ukuthi ukhulelwe owesilisa kuwubufakazi bokuthola ukuphila okuchichimayo, injabulo nenjabulo.

Ngiphuphe owesifazane engitshela ukuthi ukhulelwe indodana kaSirin

• U-Ibn Sirin wachaza iphupho lowesifazane mayelana nowesifazane omtshela ukuthi ukhulelwe umfana, njengesibonakaliso sokuthi uzobhekana nobunzima nezinkinga empilweni yakhe.
• Uma owesifazane ebona ephusheni ukuthi owesifazane umtshela ukuthi ukhulelwe umfana futhi wayejabule ngalokho, khona-ke lokhu kubonisa ukuthi uzoba nomntwana maduzane nokuthi injabulo nenjabulo kuzongena empilweni yakhe.
• Ukubona intombazane engashadile ephusheni layo owesifazane emtshela ukuthi ukhulelwe umfana kuyisibonakaliso sokuthi ubhekene nezingcindezi nosizi abhekene nalo ngalesi sikhathi.

Ngiphuphe owesifazane ethi ukhulelwe umfana

• Ukubona intombazane engashadile ephusheni lapho owesifazane emtshela ukuthi ukhulelwe umfana kubonisa ukuthi intombazane izobhekana nezinhlekelele ezithile ekuphileni kwayo ezilimaza isimo sayo esingokwengqondo.
• Ukubuka owesifazane ongashadile ephusheni lakhe emtshela ukuthi ukhulelwe kuwubufakazi bobunzima bakhe bezezimali kanye nesidingo sakhe samathemba.

Ngiphuphe owesifazane engitshela ukuthi ukhulelwe owesifazane oshadile

• U-Ibn Sirin wachaza iphupho lowesifazane oshade nowesifazane omtshela izindaba ezinhle ukuthi ukhulelwe umfana, okufanekisela isinxephezelo sikaNkulunkulu ngaye kanye nokuhlinzekwa kwakhe kwezinzuzo eziningi.
• U-Ibn Shaheen wathi ukubona owesifazane ephusheni lakhe owesifazane emtshela ukuthi ukhulelwe indodana kuwubufakazi bokuthi uNkulunkulu uzomdumisa ngabantwana abalungile abanokuziphatha okuhle nokuthi bayoba abalungile naye.
• Ukubuka umbono ephusheni lakhe kumtshela ukuthi ukhulelwe ingane yomuntu ongeyena umyeni wakhe kubonisa ukusabalala kokuthula nokuqiniseka phakathi kwakhe nomyeni wakhe nokuthola kwabo imali eningi.
• U-Al-Nabulsi uthe ukubona owesifazane oshadile ephusheni lakhe emtshela ukuthi ukhulelwe umfana kuwubufakazi bokuthi akakwazi ukufeza okuthile abefisa ukukufinyelela.
• Uma owesifazane ebona ephusheni ukuthi isalukazi simtshela ukuthi ukhulelwe umfana, khona-ke lokhu kufanekisela ukuwohloka kwesimo sakhe sezezimali nokuwela kwakhe kwamanye amaqhinga namaqhinga.

Ngiphuphe owesifazane engitshela ukuthi ukhulelwe

• Ukubuka owesifazane okhulelwe ephusheni lakhe ukuthi owesifazane umtshela ukuthi ukhulelwe ngokukhulunywa kuwubufakazi bokuthi ubelethe ngempela owesilisa.
• Lapho le ntokazi ibona ukuthi owesifazane onobuso obumamathekayo uyitshela ukuthi ukhulelwe umfana, lokhu kubonisa ukuthi ukuzalwa kwayo kulula nokuba khona kwemikhosi ejabulisayo ekuphileni kwayo.
• U-Ibn Shaheen uhumushe iphupho lombonisi lowesifazane obukeka emuhle emtshela ukuthi uzozala owesilisa, njengenkomba yokushabalala kwezinkinga abhekene nazo, futhi uzwakalisa injabulo yakhe nomyeni wakhe.
• Njengo-Imam al-Sadiq, uma umphuphi ekhulelwe ezinyangeni zokuqala zokukhulelwa futhi ethola owesifazane ephusheni lakhe emtshela ukuthi ubelethe umfana, khona-ke lokhu kufanekisela ukuzalwa kwakhe kowesifazane.

Ngiphuphe owesifazane engitshela ukuthi ukhulelwe owesifazane odivosile

• Iphupho ngowesifazane ohlukanisile emtshela ukuthi ukhulelwe umfana libonisa ukuthi ubhekene nenkathi yobunzima azokwazi ukuyinqoba futhi impilo yakhe izoshintsha ibe ngcono.
• Ukubuka umboni ephusheni lakhe etshela owesifazane ukuthi ukhulelwe umfana kuyinkomba yokufinyelela izixazululo ezingxabanweni ezenzeka phakathi kwakhe nomyeni wakhe wangaphambili, futhi kungenzeka ukuthi isiphetho sizobahlanganisa futhi.

Ngiphuphe owesifazane engitshela ukuthi ukhulelwe umfana mina ngikhulelwe intombazane

Ngiphuphe umuntu wesifazane engitshela ukuthi ukhulelwe umfana, ngikhulelwe intombazane, elinye lamaphupho linezincazelo eziningi ezihambisana kahle nalo linamacala amaningi ahlukene izincazelo zawo, sizowachaza ndawonye Okulandelayo:

• Uma kwenzeka owesifazane ekhulelwe owesifazane, futhi waphupha ephusheni lakhe ekhulelwe owesilisa, lokhu kukhomba ukuthi umbonisi uzama ukwenza umzamo omkhulu ukuze asuse izinkinga abhekene nazo.
• Ukubona umphuphi ephusheni lakhe ukuthi ukhulelwe owesilisa ngenkathi ekhulelwe owesifazane kuwubufakazi bokuthi impilo yakhe isishintshile yaba ngcono ngemva kokubeletha. 

Ngiphuphe usisi engitshela ukuthi ukhulelwe umfana

• Ukubona owesifazane ephusheni udadewabo emtshela ukuthi ukhulelwe umfana kufanekisela ukuthi umboni uzothola ubuhle, ukuziphilisa nokuchichima.
• Uma kwenzeka owesifazane ephupha udadewabo emtshela ukuthi ukhulelwe owesilisa kanti yena usevele wamzala lokho kukhomba ukuthi bukhona ubunzima obuzokwenzeka empilweni yakhe.
• U-Ibn Sirin wachaza ukubukela intombazane engashadile noma ehlukanisile ephusheni lakhe, iphupho likadadewabo emtshela ukuthi ukhulelwe umfana, njengesibonakaliso sokulahlekelwa noma ukulahlekelwa umbonisi obhekene nakho ekuphileni kwakhe.

Ukuchazwa kwephupho umama engitshela ukuthi ukhulelwe umfana

Umama ungitshela ukuthi ukhulelwe umfana Inezincazelo eziningi, esizozichaza ngokulandelayo:

• Uma umama etshela indodakazi yakhe ukuthi ukhulelwe ephusheni kubonisa amandla obudlelwane phakathi kwabo kanye nokuqina kokunamathela kwabo komunye nomunye, futhi kubonisa ukuthi umama umi eduze kwendodakazi yakhe futhi uyisize kuzo zonke izindaba zayo. ukuphila.
• Ukubona intombazane ephusheni, unina emtshela ukuthi ukhulelwe, kuwuphawu lwempumelelo yakhe ezifundweni zakhe kanye nokugcwaliseka kwazo zonke izifiso namaphupho ayo, futhi kufanekisela ukuthi umboni wemibono uzozwa izinto ezijabulisayo esikhathini esizayo. .

Ngiphuphe owesifazane engitshela ukuthi ukhulelwe intombazane

• Owesifazane obona ephusheni lakhe ukuthi owesifazane umtshela ukuthi uzozala intombazane kuwuphawu lokuthi maduze uzoba nomntwana omusha, futhi uNkulunkulu uzombusisa ngempumelelo emsebenzini wakhe nezibusiso empilweni yakhe.
• Lapho owesifazane okhulelwe ebona udokotela emtshela ukuthi ukhulelwe intombazane ephusheni, kufanekisela ukuthi umphuphi uzokwazi owesifazane omuhle ozomsiza, ame eduze kwakhe, futhi amqondise endleleni efanele ukuze anqobe. isikhathi esinzima empilweni yakhe.
• Uma intombazane engashadile iphupha owesifazane emaziyo emtshela ukuthi ukhulelwe owesifazane, lokhu kubonisa ukuthi kungenzeka ukuthi uzobangela inhlekelele enkulu ezokwenzeka kumbono futhi kuyoba nzima ukumkhipha, ngakho-ke kufanele amnakekele lowo wesifazane futhi angamethembi.

Ngiphuphe umyeni wami engitshela ukuthi ngikhulelwe

Ngiphuphe umyeni wami engitshela ukuthi ngikhulelwe, ziningi izincazelo ezishiwo ngabahumushi abakhulu, sizozichaza kanje:

• Iphupho lomyeni lokuthi umkakhe ukhulelwe liwubufakazi besifiso sakhe sokuba nomntwana, futhi uNkulunkulu uzofeza izifiso zakhe futhi aphendule imithandazo yakhe ngokushesha.
• Indoda ebona ephusheni ukuthi umkakhe ukhulelwe kuwuphawu lokuthi bazohola imali eningi futhi bavule iminyango eminingi yokuziphilisa.