ngiphuphe ngiloyiwe, Umlingo uyashiwo kwiKur'an eNgcwele, futhi ungenye yezinto eziyingozi kakhulu ezingaguqula impilo yomuntu ovezwe yiwo ibe yimbi, futhi uhlushwa usizi nezinkinga eziningi empilweni yakhe, kwesinye isikhathi. umuntu akazi ukuthi uloyiwe, nokubona umuntu ukuthi uloyiwe ephusheni kungenye yemibono edala uvalo Nokutatazela kumnikazi wayo, futhi kunezincazelo eziningi ezihlukene ngokwesimo ngasinye kuye ngokuthi isimo somnikazi wombono, futhi esihlokweni esilandelayo sizochaza wonke amacala kanye nemithelela yawo:
Ngiphuphe ngithakathiwe
- Uma umboni ekhathalela ezinye izinto abanye abahluke kuye, futhi ebona ukuthi uloyiwe ephusheni lakhe, lokhu kubonisa ukuthi uyakwenza ngaphandle kokukhathalela noma ukubheka imibono yabantu abaseduze naye, futhi uzokujabulela okuningi futhi uthole ukuthi wenze isinqumo esifanele.
- Kungenzeka ukuthi umbono walowo ophuphayo uloywa nguSathane ephusheni ukuze amdukise endleleni kaNkulunkulu futhi enze imisebenzi yakhe ngesikhathi.
- Ukubuka umboni ephusheni lakhe, othile emtshela ukuthi uloyiwe, kubonisa ukuthi uye wabhekana nezilingo nezinsizi ezithile ekuphileni kwakhe, kodwa kufanele abekezele ukuze adlule leso sikhathi.
- Uma kwenzeka umphuphi ebona othile ephusheni lakhe emtshela ukuthi uloyiwe, lokhu kubonisa ukuthi uzobhekana nenkathi enzima nobunzima obuthile.
- Iphupho lombonisi ephusheni ehlushwa umlingo ephusheni liyinkomba yokuphambuka kwakhe endleleni elungile kanye nokugxila kwakhe empilweni yasemhlabeni nokuphishekela ubumnandi, ngakho kumele asuke ezenzweni ezingalungile azenzayo. enza futhi aphendukele endleleni kaNkulunkulu uSomandla.
- Uma umphuphi ebona ephusheni lakhe ukuthi omunye wezinceku wenza imilingo kuye, khona-ke usezonqoba inkinga enkulu ewele kuyo maduzane, futhi akazange acabange ukuthi uzoyinqoba kalula.
Ngiphuphe ngiloywa ngu-Ibn Sirin
- U-Ibn Sirin uhumushe ukubona umboni ephusheni lakhe ngokuthi uyathakathwa ukuze azizwe engazimisele ukwenza lutho futhi akakwazi ukulawula izenzo zakhe.Lokhu kubhekisela ebuthakathakeni bobuntu bakhe nokulawula komuntu phezu kwakhe futhi kumenza enze lokho. akufunayo, hhayi lokho akufunayo ngenxa yokuphelelwa ulwazi ekuphileni.
- Uma kwenzeka ukuthi umphuphi ebone ephusheni lakhe omunye wezihlobo zakhe eletha umlingo kuye futhi ambangele ukuba adlule ezinkingeni nasezinkingeni empilweni yakhe, kusho ukuthi uzobhekana nezinkinga ezithile zomndeni ezingase ziholele ekubangweni.
Ngiphuphe ngiloywa yi-celibate
- Ukubona intombazane engashadile ephusheni ukuthi ithakathiwe kuwuphawu lokukhathazeka okukhulu osekunesikhathi ibhekene nakho futhi akasazi isizathu salokho.
- Uma umphuphi engumfundi futhi ebona ephusheni lakhe ukuthi uhlushwa umlingo, khona-ke lokhu kuwubufakazi bokuthi asikho isisusa sokuthi aphumelele futhi aphumelele.
- Ukubuka umphuphi ephusheni lakhe ukuthi uye wahlushwa umlingo kuyisibonakaliso sokuthi uhlala ecabanga ngomuntu othize owabelana naye ngemizwa efanayo futhi uzophakamisa isandla sakhe futhi ahlanganyele maduze.
Ngiphuphe ngiloywa ngowesifazane oshadile
- Ukuphupha owesifazane oshadile ethakathwa ephusheni kuyinkomba yokuthi kukhona abasondelene naye abafuna ukumlimaza nokumlimaza.
- Owesimame ebona ephusheni ukuthi kukhona umuntu emzini wakhe omtshela ukuthi uloyiwe kukhomba ukuthi umyeni wakhe usethole imali engekho emthethweni, kumele amsize ame ngakuye aze akuyeke lokho afune umthombo osemthethweni wokumsiza. uthole ukuziphilisa kuye.
- Ukubuka umphuphi ephusheni lakhe futhi othile emtshela ukuthi uloyiwe kuwumyalezo wokuthi ahlele imikhuleko yakhe nomyeni wakhe futhi asondele kuNkulunkulu.
Ngiphuphe ngiloywa owesifazane okhulelwe
- Ukubona owesifazane okhulelwe ephusheni lakhe ethakathiwe kuwuphawu lokucindezeleka nokukhathazeka ngokweqile ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa, kodwa kufanele ehlise umoya futhi athembele kuNkulunkulu ukuthi uzomvikela kanye nombungu wakhe futhi uzobekwa esimweni esihle. .
- Iphupho lowesifazane ehlushwa ukuthakathwa libonisa ukuthi uzungezwe abantu abathile abangamthandi futhi abafisa ukumkhipha isisu Ngakho-ke, umuntu akufanele athembele wonke umuntu oseduze kwakhe futhi aqaphele futhi anake.
- Umbono wangenwa umlingo ephusheni, kodwa wachithwa wabuyela esimweni esivamile, okubonisa ukuphela kwenkathi enzima lapho ehlushwa khona, futhi wayenengane ephile kahle enempilo.
Ngiphuphe ngiloywa ngowesifazane odivosile
- Ukubuka owesifazane oshadile ethola umlingo ephusheni lakhe kuyisibonakaliso sokuthi uzophinde acabange ngezizathu eziholele ekuhlukaneni kwakhe nomyeni wakhe wangaphambili, futhi uzothola indlela yokuba babuyele futhi.
Ngiphuphe ngiloyiwe kanti ikhala lakho liwumlingo
- Iphupho lomuntu wesifazane oshadile ethakathiwe kodwa ephulwe lisho ukuthi usesukile ekwenzeni izono nezenzo ezingalungile abezenza, aphenduke kuNkulunkulu uSomandla, likhombisa nokunqoba konke. ubunzima nezingqinamba abhekene nazo.
- Ukubuka intombazane engashadile iphuphe iloyiwe futhi ikhutshiwe kukhomba ukuthi sekunesikhathi eside ilinde ukuthi ishade.
- Uma intombazane yayithembisene umshado futhi ibona ephusheni layo ukuthi ifakwe umlingo wabe usuyidiliza, khona-ke lokhu kufanekisela ukuntuleka kokuqhubeka kobudlelwane bayo nesoka lakhe kanye nokuhlukana kwabo ngemva kokuba enesiqiniseko sokuthi imizwa yakhe kuye yayingelona iqiniso. .
Ngiphuphe ngithakathwa umlingo
- Ukubona umlingo omnyama ephusheni lentombazane engashadile kuyinkomba yokushesha nokunganaki kwakhe ezenzweni azenzayo empilweni yakhe nokuwela kwakhe esilingweni.
Ngiphuphe ngiloyiwe ngikhala
- Ukuphupha umlingo nokukhala kufanekisela isifiso somphuphi sokuphenduka ngenxa yezenzo ezimbi azenzayo futhi abuyele endleleni eqondile, kodwa uma umphuphi engazi ngenxa yethonya lomlingo kuye, khona-ke lokhu kubonisa ukuthi kukhona imithwalo eminingi nezingcindezi ezingokwengqondo ezimenza angaphumeleli ekuthatheleni izinqumo ezifanele.
Ngiphuphe owesifazane engisebenzela umlingo
- Ukubona umphuphi ephusheni ukuthi owesifazane umthakathile futhi bebengaboni ngaso linye empeleni kuwumlayezo kuye ukuthi uyakugwema ukuxhumana naye okwesikhashana ukuze angalimazi.
- Esimweni lapho umphuphi engashadile futhi ebona owesifazane oseduze nenhliziyo yakhe emsebenzela umlingo, lokhu kubonisa ukuthi maduzane bazonamathela, uma kubhekwa ukuhambisana phakathi kwabo.
- Owesifazane owenza umlingo ephusheni lentombazane engashadile ubonisa ukuthi ubhekene nenkathi yokukhathazeka nosizi phakathi nenkathi ezayo, kodwa uyokwazi ukuzinqoba ngokusondela kuNkulunkulu uMninimandla onke.
Ngiphuphe ngithole imilingo
- Uma intombazane engashadile ithola ephusheni layo ukuthi umlingo ungcwatshwe endaweni ethile futhi wakwazi ukuwuthola futhi wawushisa, khona-ke lifanekisela ukuzimisela nokuphikelela anakho futhi kumenze afinyelele imigomo yakhe futhi azohlala. isikhundla esivelele esikhathini esizayo.
- Umboni ethola imilingo efihlwe egcekeni lendlu yakhe ngaphansi komhlaba ngephupho kuyinkomba yokuthi wazi izinto eziningi abengazi ngezingane zakhe nokuthi kuzothatha isikhathi esiningi ukuthola indlela efanelekile yokubhekana nazo. .
- Uma umphuphi ethola umlingo komunye umuntu futhi ahlanganyele ekumqedeni nasekumsindiseni kulokho abhekene nakho, khona-ke lokhu kubonisa ukuthi umphuphi ungumuntu ongakwazi ukuthatha umthwalo wemfanelo futhi athembele kuye ezindabeni ezinzima.
Ngiphuphe usisi wami ethakathiwe
- Ukubona umbono ephusheni lakhe ukuthi udadewabo uloyiwe kufanekisela ukuthi uzobhekana nezinkinga ezithile nobunzima empilweni yakhe futhi udinga umphuphi ukuthi ame eduze kwakhe futhi amsekele aze adlule leso sikhathi.
- Kungenzeka ukuthi umbono womphuphi wodadewabo othintekayo ngokuthakatha ubonisa ukuba khona kwabantu abathile abazenzisayo empilweni yakhe abazama ukuhlela uzungu ngemuva kwakhe.
