Ngiphuphe ngifuna umyeni wami ngangamthola, umyeni wanyamalala kumkakhe ngephupho.

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Amaphupho ayingxenye ebalulekile yokuphila kwethu, futhi ngezinye izikhathi ayizixhumanisi eziqondile zokuphila kwethu kwansuku zonke kanye nezinkinga esibhekana nazo. Amaphupho omshado nomlingani ophelele avamile kwabaningi, kodwa ngezinye izikhathi lawo maphupho afika ngendlela ehlukile futhi angase asiphathele imilayezo enamandla. Nakhu okwenzeka kimi ngimphuphe ngiphuphe ngifuna umyeni wami kodwa ngingamtholi. Leli phupho libonakala likha phezulu futhi lilula, kodwa libe nomthelela omkhulu futhi lingishiye nokuningi engingacabanga ngakho nokucabanga ngakho.

Funda incazelo Ngiphuphe ngifuna umyeni wami angimtholanga ephusheni ngu-Ibn Sirin - Incazelo Yamaphupho

Ngiphuphe ngifuna umyeni wami ngingamtholi

Abesifazane abaningi bazizwa bekhathazekile futhi besaba lapho bephupha ukuthi bafuna amadoda abo futhi abawatholi ephusheni. Leli phupho libonisa umuzwa wokunganakwa kanye nokuxakeka umyeni akuzwayo ngomkakhe nomndeni wakhe. Nakuba lo mbono ungase uthathwe njengesixwayiso esivela kuNkulunkulu noma uvivinyo, ungahunyushwa ngezindlela eziningana futhi incazelo ingase ihluke kuye ngezimo nezimo ezishiwo ephusheni. Ukuchazwa kwaleli phupho kubonisa ukuthi unkosikazi uzizwa engenalutho futhi elahlekelwa ithemba kumyeni nokuthi umatasa naye. Ngakho-ke, indoda kufanele inakekele umkhaya nomkhaya futhi ikhuthaze uthando nokuncikana phakathi kwabantu ngabanye.

Ngiphuphe ngifuna umyeni wami, kodwa angimtholanga ku-Ibn Sirin

Umbono wokufuna umyeni futhi ungamtholi ephusheni ungomunye wamaphupho aphakamisa ukukhathazeka kwabesifazane abaningi, futhi u-Ibn Sirin unikeze izincazelo ezithile zaleli phupho, njengoba ekholelwa ukuthi uma umphuphi ezibona efuna umyeni wakhe futhi ecabanga. akamtholi ephusheni, lokhu kusho ukuthi umyeni uzizwa enganakiwe kuye, umkakhe, nokuthi umatasa naye ngezikhathi lapho edinga ukuba khona kwakhe eceleni kwakhe. U-Ibn Sirin ukholelwa nokuthi leli phupho libonisa ukuba khona kwezinkinga nokungavumelani phakathi kwabashadile, futhi leli phupho ngezinye izikhathi lingase liholele ekucabangeni nasekufuneni izixazululo zezinkinga zomshado. Ngakho-ke, kutuswa ukuba kube nokukhulumisana okuhle phakathi kwabashadile futhi kusebenzele ukuthola izixazululo ezifanele ezinkingeni zabo.” Indoda kumelwe inike umkayo isikhathi esanele futhi imnakekele, futhi lokhu ngokuqinisekile kuyoholela ekuthuthukiseni ukuphila komshado nasekufinyeleleni ukuphepha nokuzinza.

Ngiphuphe ngifuna umyeni wami, kodwa angimtholanga kowesifazane okhulelwe

Uma owesifazane okhulelwe ephupha ukuthi ufuna umyeni wakhe kodwa akamtholi, lokhu kungase kusho ukuthi uzizwa ekhathazekile, edidekile futhi ephazamisekile empilweni yakhe yomshado. Iphupho lingase futhi libonise ubuhlobo obuqinile phakathi kwabashadile noma ukunganeliseki ebuhlotsheni. Uma umngane womshado ematasa kakhulu emsebenzini futhi engekho ngokwanele ekhaya, umlingani angase azizwe enesiphithiphithi ebuhlotsheni futhi azizwe enganakiwe. Ngakho-ke, owesifazane okhulelwe kufanele acabange ngezixazululo zokuthuthukisa ubuhlobo nomyeni wakhe futhi abe khona kuye kangcono. Kumele abe nesineke futhi akhulume kahle nomyeni wakhe, futhi angavumeli ukukhathazeka nokwesaba.

Ukulahlekelwa umyeni ephusheni kowesifazane oshadile

Iphupho lowesifazane oshadile lokulahlekelwa umyeni wakhe libhekwa njengenye yemibono engaqondakali ephakamisa ukukhathazeka nokudideka kumphuphi. Iphupho ngokuvamile libonisa umuzwa wokubandlululwa, ukunganakwa, nokungabi nesithakazelo kumuntu obalulekile empilweni yakhe. Ngokusetshenziswa okwandayo komfazi kanye nesidingo sokusekela ngokwengqondo nokuziphatha kumyeni, ukungamboni ephusheni kungabonisa isimo sobuthakathaka ebuhlotsheni phakathi kwabo. Ukuntula ukuzethemba nokwesaba ukuhlukana nokwehluleka empilweni kwenza umfazi azizwe ekhathazekile futhi esaba ephusheni. Akunakwenzeka ukuphetha ngephupho ngaphandle kokubheka umongo lapho umbono uvele khona nokuthi yikuphi okuqukethwe kwawo ngqo.Iphupho lingabonisa ukulahlekelwa umuntu othandekayo kuye ngokujwayelekile, hhayi umyeni wakhe.

Ukunyamalala komyeni kumkakhe ephusheni

Lapho owesifazane ebona ephusheni ukuthi umyeni wakhe ulahlekile, leli phupho lingahunyushwa ngezindlela eziningana. Kungase kubonise ukuthi indoda ihlushwa izingcindezi nokukhathazeka ekuphileni kwayo kwansuku zonke futhi ayisitholi isikhathi esanele sokunakekela umkayo. Iphupho lingase futhi libonise umuzwa womfazi wokulangazelela umyeni wakhe nesidingo sakhe sokuba abe ngasohlangothini lwakhe.Lingase futhi libonise ukuntula ukwethembana phakathi kwabashadile nokwesaba komfazi ukulahlekelwa umyeni wakhe.

Lapho uhumusha leli phupho, kufanele kucatshangelwe eminye imininingwane umphuphi ayibona ephusheni, njengoba incazelo yephupho ingashintsha kakhulu kuye ngokuthi umphuphi wabonani. Isimo somuntu siqu somfazi nomyeni wakhe kanye nobuhlobo phakathi kwabo kufanele futhi kucatshangelwe, njengoba incazelo yephupho ingase ihluke kumuntu oyedwa.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho ngomyeni wami engifuna

Ukubona iphupho mayelana nomyeni wami engifuna kubonisa uthando phakathi kwabashadile, njengoba umyeni ezwa isidingo esiphuthumayo somkakhe futhi ufuna ukumfuna. Kuyaziwa ukuthi amaphupho aveza imizwa nemicabango yomuntu, ngakho-ke ukubona umyeni efuna umkakhe ephusheni kusho ukuthi uzizwa emlangazelela futhi ufuna ukuba eceleni kwakhe. Iphupho lingase libe ubufakazi bokuthi umuntu ucabanga ngomkakhe usuku lonke futhi akalindele ukuthi ahlukane, njengoba iphupho libhekwa njengesikhumbuzo kuye ngokubaluleka komfazi empilweni yakhe. Ukubona iphupho mayelana nomyeni wami engifuna futhi kuyinkomba yesidingo esifanayo nokuxhumana okuqinile ngokomzwelo phakathi kwabashadile, kanye nokubonakaliswa kwentshiseko nokukhangwa kothando okukhona ebuhlotsheni babo. Kodwa-ke, uma iphupho libonisa ukuthi umyeni ufuna umkakhe ngeze, kungase kusho ukuthi kukhona ukungezwani nezinkinga ebuhlotsheni babo okumelwe kusetshenzwe.

Ngiphuphe ngifuna isithandwa sami kodwa angisitholanga

Umbono wokufuna umuntu ephusheni ungomunye wemibono eyinqaba edida umuntu onaso futhi imenze akhathazeke, ikakhulukazi uma lo muntu eyisithandwa sakhe asithandayo, njengoba lo mbono ungase uthuse kuye. Abahumushi bamaphupho bakholelwa ukuthi leli phupho libonisa ukungezwani ebuhlotsheni phakathi komphuphi nesithandwa sakhe, nokungabaza ngobuqotho bakhe kuye, noma umuzwa wokuthi umthandi ukude naye futhi akenzi indima yakhe ebuhlotsheni ngendlela oyifunayo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, iphupho lokufuna isithandwa futhi lingamtholi lingase lifanekisela ukunganeliseki ngobuhlobo bamanje empeleni, noma umuzwa wokuhluleka ekuhlangabezaneni nezidingo zobudlelwane ezinhlangothini zombili. Ngakho-ke, umphuphi kufanele agxilise izithakazelo zakhe ebuhlotsheni nesithandwa sakhe, futhi acabange kabusha futhi ahlole ubuhlobo ngezikhathi ezithile.Kumelwe futhi asebenze ukuthuthukisa ukuxhumana nokuxhumana nomthandi, futhi ayazise imizamo ayenzayo ukuze alondoloze ubuhlobo babo. [13][14]

Ngiphuphe ngifonela umyeni wami

Lo wesifazane waphupha ebiza umyeni wakhe ephusheni, leli iphupho incazelo yalo iyahluka ngokwengqikithi kanye nemininingwane yombono. Iphupho lingase libonise ukuthi owesifazane unomuzwa wokuthi umyeni wakhe akakutholi ukunakwa okwanele, nokuthi umatasa ngezinye izindaba. Noma iphupho lingabonisa isifiso sowesifazane sokukhuluma nomyeni wakhe futhi azame ukumfuna. Iphupho lingase libe inkomba yesifiso sowesifazane sokuba umyeni wakhe abe nesithakazelo ngokwengeziwe kuye futhi abuyisane naye futhi azame ukuxazulula izinkinga zomshado. Ngaphandle kokwenza lula okubonakalayo ekuhlaziyeni lo mbono, kubalulekile ukuthi unganciki ekuchazeni okungahleliwe futhi uhlaziye ngokucophelela umbono ngokuya komongo wawo kanye nezimo zomuntu ngamunye. Kuyadingeka ukuthi owesifazane ofisa ukuqonda indlela yokuphila yomyeni wakhe futhi athole izindlela ezifanele zokuxhumana ngokuphumelelayo nokuxazulula izinkinga zomshado ngothando nokuqonda. [15][16]

Ngiphuphe ngifuna umyeni wami ngamthola

Ukuzibona ufuna umyeni wakho ephusheni futhi umthola kubhekwa njengephupho elijabulisayo eliletha injabulo nenjabulo. Uma owesifazane oshadile ephupha ukuthi ufuna umyeni wakhe futhi uyakwazi ukumthola, lokhu kusho ukuthi uzokwazi ukunqoba ubunzima futhi afinyelele imigomo efanayo. Iphupho libonisa nokuba khona kwemizwa yothando, ukwazisa nokunakekelwa phakathi kwabashadile.

Ukuzibona ufuna futhi uthole umyeni wakho ephusheni kuyinkomba yokuthi umbhangqwana unobudlelwane obuqinile futhi obuqinile, nokuthi bayazisa omunye nomunye futhi balwela ndawonye ukuzuza injabulo nokuzinza empilweni. Kubalulekile ukuba owesifazane oshadile asebenze ukuze alondoloze lobu buhlobo obuhle, enze imizamo edingekayo yokukhulisa uthando nokwazisa phakathi kwabo, futhi afeze konke abakuphuphayo ndawonye. Ngaphezu kwalokho, iphupho lingaba inkomba yokuzethemba nokulondeka owesifazane oshadile akuzwayo ebuhlotsheni bakhe nomyeni wakhe nasempilweni yakhe ngokujwayelekile.

Ekugcineni, owesifazane oshadile kumelwe asebenzele ukulondoloza ubuhlobo obuhle anabo nomyeni wakhe, futhi asebenzele ukufeza imigomo efanayo nenjabulo eqhubekayo ekuphileni kwakhe. Uma eqhubeka enza imizamo yalokhu, uyojabulela injabulo nokuzinza ekuphileni kwakhe ahlanganyela nomyeni wakhe. [17][18]

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokulahlekelwa ngumfazi kumyeni wakhe

Ukuzibona ufuna umyeni wakho ephusheni futhi ungamtholi kuyimbangela yokukhathazeka ngomfazi, njengoba kuphakamisa ukunganakwa komyeni kanye nokungabi nesithakazelo kuye. Lokhu kungaba umphumela wezimo zempilo eziphazamisayo nezishintshayo ezihlangabezana nazo empilweni yomshado, okuholela ekulahlekelweni ukwethembana noma ukunethezeka ebudlelwaneni. Ngaphezu kwalokho, leli phupho libonisa isidingo esiphuthumayo sokuxhumana nomuntu obhekwa njengengxenye yomphefumulo futhi ozwa ukungabi nalutho okubangelwa ukungabikho kwakhe. Leli phupho lingase libonise imizwa kumlingani empilweni yomshado, njengothando, ukuncika kuye, kanye nothando lokunakekela ubuhlobo bakhe bomshado. Kodwa kufanele kukhunjulwe ukuthi lezi zincazelo zincike esimweni somuntu ngamunye kanye nemininingwane yamaphupho, futhi nakuba ukufuna umuntu othandekayo ephusheni kuphakamisa imizwa engemihle, ingathwala ngaphakathi kwayo izincazelo ezinhle, njengokubonakaliswa kothando, intshiseko, kanye nokuthembela ekunakekelweni okuhlangene kumngane ongcono kakhulu ku-coma. [19][20]

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokulahlekelwa umuntu othandekayo

Umuntu uvuka ephusheni elahlekelwa umuntu amthandayo azizwe edidekile futhi ekhathazekile, akazi incazelo yalo mbono noma kunezincazelo ezimbi. Leli phupho libhekwa njengesixwayiso kumphuphi ukuba anake indawo ezungezile kanye nabantu ababalulekile empilweni yakhe. Leli phupho lingase libonise ukungezwani nezinkinga phakathi komuntu olahlekile nomphuphi, futhi iphupho limbiza ukuthi azame ukulungisa izinto ngaphambi kokuba kuphuze kakhulu. Uma lo muntu engumngane womshado noma umuntu oseduze, iphupho lingabonisa ukuba khona kwezimo ezicindezelayo phakathi kwabantu ababili. Umphuphi kufanele azame ukuxhumana nalo muntu olahlekile futhi alungise izinto phakathi kwabo ukuze athuthukise ubuhlobo nokuzinza ebuhlotsheni. Umuntu ophuphayo kufanele futhi agweme izingxabano nokungavumelani nabanye ukuze agweme ukulahlekelwa ubudlelwano obuhle. Ekuphetheni, ukubona umuntu othandekayo kuwe elahlekile ephusheni kuyinkomba yokuntula isithakazelo ezindabeni ezibalulekile kanye nesixwayiso sokungavumelani phakathi kwabantu ababili okufanele balondoloze ubuhlobo nabo. [21][22]

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokufuna othile

Ukubona umuntu efuna umuntu ephusheni kungenye yamaphupho aphakamisa ukukhathazeka kumuntu ophuphayo, njengoba kubonisa ukuba khona kwesithakazelo esikhulu nokukhathazeka kulowo muntu ekusesheni. Uma umuntu ephupha efuna umyeni noma umkakhe kodwa engamtholi, lokhu kukhomba ukuthi umlingani akabunaki ubudlelwano phakathi kwabo futhi akazibophezeli ukwenza imisebenzi yakhe komunye umlingani.

Uma owesifazane oshadile ephupha efuna umyeni wakhe futhi engamtholi, lokhu kubonisa ukuthi uzizwa engenalutho futhi kusho ukuthi umyeni wakhe umatasa naye futhi akekho eceleni kwakhe ngezikhathi lapho emdinga. Kumelwe asebenzele ukuxhumana nomyeni wakhe futhi acacise isithakazelo sakhe nesidingo sakhe ngezikhathi ezihlukahlukene, futhi angakwazi ukuhlela uhambo olufushane nomyeni wakhe ukuze aqinise ubuhlobo phakathi kwabo.

Uma indoda iphupha ifuna umkakhe futhi ingamtholi, khona-ke lokhu kubonisa ukunganeliseki ngesimo somshado, futhi mhlawumbe kufanele ashintshe isimo sakhe kule ndaba, futhi asebenze ukuthuthukisa ubuhlobo bakhe nomkakhe futhi andise isithakazelo sakhe kuye. .

Ekugcineni, amaphupho anezincazelo eziningi nezihlukahlukene, futhi imininingwane ebonwa ephusheni kufanele ibhekwe ukuze ilihumushe kahle. Kufanele sisebenzele ukuthuthukisa ubudlelwano phakathi kwabalingani ababili futhi sikhulise ukuxhumana nokuqonda phakathi kwabo ukuze sizuze ukuzinza kwengqondo nomndeni. [23][24]

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