Ukuhunyushwa kokubona umuntu ofile ehleka futhi ekhuluma ephusheni ngu-Ibn Sirin

Ebona abangasekho ephusheni behleka bexoxaKungelinye lamaphupho asabalele futhi avamile phakathi kwabantu, futhi lisakaza enhliziyweni yomuntu imizwa ehlukene nexubile, okuhlanganisa ukwesaba nokukhathazeka okukhulu ngabafileyo, futhi umbono uyahluka ukusuka komunye umuntu kuye komunye ngokusho kwezinye izinto, kuhlanganise nesimo. okuyikho empeleni kanye nezinga lemininingwane yephupho.

Ebona abangasekho ephusheni behleka bexoxa    

• Ukubona umphuphi ofile ebuthongweni bakhe ngenkathi ekhuluma futhi ehleka, nezingubo zakhe zazizinhle, ngakho lokhu kuholela ekuphileni kanye nenzuzo enkulu azoyithola phakathi nenkathi ezayo.
• Ukubuka umuntu oshonile ekhuluma naye futhi ehleka kuwuphawu lokuthi inkathi ezayo izoba enye yezikhathi ezinhle kakhulu lapho umphuphi ezophila khona ngokoqobo.
• Inkulumo nokuhleka komuntu ofile ephusheni kubonisa ukuthi udlule ezintweni ezingezinhle ezimenza azizwe ecindezelekile futhi ecindezelekile, futhi leyo njabulo izobuyela ekuphileni kwakhe.
• Noma ubani obona ukuthi kukhona okhuluma naye ephusheni futhi ehleka ngenkathi empeleni efile, lokhu kufanekisela ubuhle nenjabulo lowo mboni azohlala kuyo maduze.

Ukubona abangasekho ephusheni behleka futhi bekhuluma no-Ibn Sirin

• Ukubuka ufakazi womuntu oshonile ekhuluma naye ngesibonakaliso futhi ehleka, nangempela waba nezinkinga zezimali, futhi lokhu kuholela ekutheni anqobe lolu buhlungu.
• Ukubuka umphuphi ofile ephusheni lakhe ehleka futhi ekhuluma kuwuphawu lokuthi uzothuthukiswa emsebenzini wakhe ngenxa yomzamo omkhulu awenzayo kanye nokuphishekela kwakhe njalo ubuhle.
• Uma umuntu ebona umufi ekhuluma futhi ehleka ephusheni, lokhu kuwubufakazi bokuthi uzodlula kukho konke okungalungile okumthintayo futhi kumenze azizwe edabukile futhi ecindezelekile.
•  Umuntu ofile wakhuluma futhi wahleka ephusheni, njengoba lokhu kufanekisela ukuthi maduze uzophuma enkingeni ahlala kuyo, futhi uzoba sesimweni esingcono futhi azuze izimpumelelo eziningi.

Ukubona abangasekho ephusheni behleka futhi bexoxa nabesifazane abangashadile     

• Intombazane iphupha ephusheni layo ukuthi omunye wabafileyo uyakhuluma futhi uyahleka, okubonisa inala yokuziphilisa nobuhle azoyithola phakathi nenkathi ezayo, futhi lokhu kuzomenza azizwe ejabule futhi ejabule.
• Uma umphuphi oyedwa ebona umuntu ofile ephusheni lakhe ehleka futhi ekhuluma, lokhu kufanekisela ukuthi uzosusa zonke izinto ezimbi ezimlawulayo.
• Ukubuka intombazane efile eyayingashadile ngaphambi kokukhuluma nayo futhi ihleka njengezindaba ezimnandi zokuthi ukuza kwempilo yayo kuzoba ngcono kakhulu.
• Intombazane eyintombi nto iphupha ibona umufi ekhuluma nayo ehleka, lokhu kukhomba ukuthi izongena ebudlelwaneni bemizwa nendoda, udaba luphele ngomshado.

Ukubona abangasekho bemamatheka ephusheni kwabesifazane abangashadile     

• Ukubona intombazane eyintombi ephusheni lakhe ukuthi umufi uyahleka kuwubufakazi bokuthi ukuza kokuphila kwakhe kuyoba nezinzuzo eziningi kanye nezinzuzo eziyoba isizathu sokuzizwa kwakhe injabulo ephelele.
• Ukumomotheka komuntu oshonile ephusheni lentombazane kubonisa ukuthi uzophila ukuphila okuzinzile nokuzolile, kude nokucindezeleka kwengqondo nezinkinga.
• Uma intombazane ibona ukuthi umuntu oshonile uyayihleka futhi umomotheka, lokhu kusho ukuthi izodlula ezimeni eziningi ezizoyenza izuze okuhlangenwe nakho okuningi ekuphileni.
• Entombazaneni engakaze ishade, ukuphupha umuntu oshonile emoyizela kuwuphawu lokuthi maduze uzoshada nendoda enobuntu obuhle ezomenza ajabule futhi ajabule.

Ebona abangasekho ephusheni behleka bexoxa nowesifazane oshadile  

• Uma owesifazane oshadile ebona ephusheni ukuthi umuntu ofile ukhuluma futhi ehleka, lokhu kubonisa ukuthi uhlala eduze nomyeni wakhe impilo egcwele injabulo engenakuqhathaniswa nokuzinza.
• Ukubuka owesifazane oshadile noyise ongasekho bekhuluma naye futhi behleka kuwuphawu lokuthi inkathi ezayo yokuphila kwakhe iyogcwala injabulo nokuchuma okuyomjabulisa.
• Umuntu ofile ekhuluma futhi ehleka nomphuphi kungenye yamaphupho aveza ukushabalala kwezinkathazo nezinhlekelele lowo ophuphayo adlula kuzo kanye nokufika kwenjabulo nenduduzo kuye.
• Umuntu wesifazane oshadile uphupha umuntu ongasekho osondelene naye ekhuluma ehleka, lokhu kungase kube umyalezo kuyena ukuthi kumele aqiniseke ngaye futhi angabi novalo, njengoba esesimweni esihle manje.

Ebona abangasekho ephusheni behleka bexoxa nowesifazane okhulelwe     

• Umuntu ofile wakhuluma nomphuphi okhulelwe futhi ukuhleka kwakhe kubonisa ukuthi uzozala ingane enempilo futhi enokuthula, futhi esikhathini esizayo uzoba nesikhundla sokuziqhenya.
• Ukuhleka komuntu oshonile nowesifazane osezoteta nengxoxo yakhe naye kuwubufakazi bokuthi uzodlula esigabeni sokukhulelwa nokubeletha ngokuthula nangokukhululeka futhi ngeke abhekane nalutho oluthinta yena noma umbungu.
• Owesifazane okhulelwe ebona umufi ekhuluma futhi ehleka naye ephusheni ubonisa ukuthi uzama ukunikeza umyeni wakhe indawo ezolile nezinzile ukuze enze ingqondo yakhe iqiniseke.

Ebona abangasekho ephusheni behleka bekhuluma nowesifazane odivosile    

• Uma owesifazane ohlukanisile ebona ephusheni lakhe ukuthi umufi ukhuluma naye futhi ehleka, lokhu kuwubufakazi bokuthi uzonqoba zonke izinkinga ezibangelwa isehlukaniso sakhe futhi uzoba sesimweni esingcono.
• Ngomphuphi ohlukanisiwe, ukubuka umuntu ofile ekhuluma naye, ehleka, kuyisibonakaliso sokuthi uzoqaphela kahle ukuthi yini okufanele ayenze futhi isigaba esisha sempilo yakhe sizoqala.
• Iphupho elihlukanisiwe labafileyo ephusheni lakhe ngenkathi ekhuluma naye futhi ehleka, lokhu kubonisa ukuthi uzofinyelela isikhundla esihle phakathi nenkathi ezayo futhi uzoba sesimweni esizinzile.
• Umufi ekhuluma futhi ehleka nentokazi ehlukanisile ephusheni kuwuphawu lokuphinde ashade nowesilisa ozomnxephezela ngalokho ayekuswele nowayengumyeni wakhe.

Ebona abangasekho ephusheni behleka bexoxa nalomlisa

• Ukubuka umphuphi ephusheni ekhuluma nabafileyo futhi ehleka kuwubufakazi bokuthi uzothola umsebenzi omuhle esikhathini esizayo esihambisana nekhono namandla akhe.
• Ukuhleka komuntu oshonile kanye nengxoxo yakhe nendoda ephusheni kuyinkomba yokufika kwempumuzo kanye nokuziphilisa ngokuchichimayo ngemva kokuhlupheka nokucindezeleka, futhi lokhu kuzomenza aphile ngokunethezeka nokuthokoza.
• Uma umuntu ebona oshonile ephusheni ekhuluma naye futhi ehleka, lokhu kufanekisela ukuthi uzosuka kwelinye izinga aye kwelinye, okuyinto engcono kakhulu.
• Ukuphupha umbonisi ehleka futhi ekhuluma nomuntu ofile kusho ukuthi uzofinyelela umgomo akade ewuphokophele futhi wenza imizamo emikhulu yokuwuthola.

Kusho ukuthini ukukhuluma nabafile ephusheni?   

• Uma umuntu ephupha ekhuluma futhi ehleka ebuthongweni bakhe nomuntu ofile, futhi empeleni wenze izono eziningi, kusho ukuthi uzophenduka kuNkulunkulu ngokushesha.
• Noma ubani obona ephusheni lakhe ukuthi ukhuluma nomuntu ofile kuyinkomba yokuthi uzobuya endleleni yephutha ahamba kuyo, futhi uzohamba endleleni yeqiniso futhi uzoba sesimweni esingcono.
• Ukukhuluma ephusheni nomuntu oshonile kuwuphawu lokuthi umboni ungumuntu onengqondo onekhono lokwazi isixazululo esilungile sezinkinga nezinkinga abhekene nazo.
• Ukubuka umuntu ukuthi ukhuluma nabafileyo, lokhu kufanekisela ikhono lakhe lokunqoba izinto ezingezinhle ezilawula impilo yakhe, futhi uzophila ezingeni elingcono.

Ebona umufi enobuso obuhle ephusheni

•  Ukubuka umufi ephusheni emuhle kuwubufakazi bokuthi unesikhundla esihle empilweni yangemva kokufa futhi kufanele aqiniseke ngaye futhi angakhathazeki nhlobo ngaye empilweni yakhe.
• Uma umboni ebona ukuthi umufi unokubukeka okuhle nobuso, lokhu kubonisa ukuthi empilweni yakhe wayehlale enikeza okuhle nokusiza wonke umuntu, futhi uNkulunkulu uzomvuza ngakho konke lokhu.
• Umuntu uphupha ukuthi umuntu ofile ubonakala enobuso obuhle, obufanekisela inala yokuziphilisa nobuhle obuchichimayo obuyoba khona ekuphileni kwakhe phakathi nenkathi ezayo, futhi uyozizwa ejabule futhi eziqhenya.
• Ukubona umuntu ofile ephusheni kuhle, lokhu kuchaza ukuthi ungumuntu olungile othanda umuntu ofile futhi ohlale ezama ukumnxusa nezipho futhi angamkhohlwa.

Ebona umkhulu ongasekho emamatheka

•  Ukubona umkhulu womphuphi ehleka ephusheni kungenye yamaphupho afanekisela ukuthi manje usesikhundleni esinomona nesikhundla, futhi lokhu kungenxa yobuhle nokuziphatha okuhle anakho.
• Ukumamatheka kukamkhulu oshonile ephusheni kuwuphawu lokuthi phakathi nenkathi ezayo uzothola izinzuzo nezinzuzo eziningi ezizomenza azizwe enethezekile futhi ezinzile.
• Ukubuka umboni, umkhulu wakhe oshonile, emomotheka, ufanekisela ukudlula kwakhe ezinkingeni nezinkinga ezimlawula kabi, nokungena kwakhe esiteji esingcono kuye.
• Uma umuntu ebona ephusheni ukuthi umkhulu wakhe oshonile uyahleka futhi emomotheka, kuyisibonakaliso sezixazululo zokuziphilisa kanye nokuhle azokuthola esikhathini esizayo esiseduze, kanye nomuzwa wakhe wokuzinza nenjabulo.

Ebona abangasekho bedlala behleka nezingane

• Iphupho lomuntu oshonile edlala ephusheni nezingane ngesikhathi ejabule futhi ehleka lifanekisela ukuthi uzohlala esimweni sokuzinza nokwaneliseka.
• Uma umboni ebona ukuthi isihlobo sakhe esishonile siyadlala kuyilapho ejabule nezingane, lokhu kuwuphawu lokufika kokuhle nokuziphilisa esikhathini esizayo.
• Noma ubani obona umufi ephusheni emamatheka nezingane futhi edlala kuyinkomba yezinga lokuziphilisa nenzuzo azoyithola esikhathini esizayo futhi uyoba sentokozweni nasekuchumeni.
• Ukubuka umphuphi womuntu oshonile ehleka futhi edlala nezingane ngenjabulo, njengoba lokhu kubonisa amandla akhe okunqoba izithiyo nezithiyo ezikhona endleleni yakhe.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho egona abangasekho behleka    

• Ukubuka umphuphi ukuthi ugone abangasekho ephusheni ngenkathi ehleka kuwubufakazi bokuthi uyambonga ngenxa yokumnxusela nezipho, futhi lokhu kumenza abe sesikhundleni esiphakeme.
• Uma umuntu ebona ukuthi ugone umuntu ofile futhi ezizwa ejabule futhi ehleka, khona-ke lokhu kufanekisela ukuthi ungumuntu olungile onomqondo ophelele omenza akwazi ukunqoba zonke izinkinga nezinkinga.
• Ukugona umuntu oshonile futhi ehleka ephusheni, lokhu kubonisa izinga lezinzuzo nezinzuzo azozithola esikhathini esizayo esiseduze, futhi kuyoba isizathu sokumenza abe sesimweni esingcono.
• Noma ubani obuka ukuthi ugone umuntu ofile futhi ubehleka ungomunye wamaphupho abonisa kahle futhi ancomekayo ukubona futhi aveze injabulo enkulu lapho ophuphayo azophila khona.

Ukuhunyushwa kokubona abafileyo bebuyela ekuphileni futhi bahleke

• Ukubuka umphuphi oshonile ephinde waphila kuwubufakazi benala yokondla kanye nokuhle okukhulu ayokuthola phakathi nenkathi ezayo kanye nezinga lomuzwa wakhe wempumelelo nenjabulo evela kuNkulunkulu.
• Uma umuntu ebona ephusheni ukuthi umuntu ofile uyahleka futhi abuye aphile, lokhu kufanekisela injabulo ayoba nayo esikhathini esizayo esiseduze.
• Noma ubani obuka umufi ephusheni lakhe ebuyela ekuphileni futhi aphinde ahleke, lokho kusho ukuthi uzozuza zonke izinto azifisayo esikhathini esizayo futhi uzojabula ngalokho.
• Ukubona umuntu ofile ephusheni ebuyela ekuphileni futhi ehleka, lokhu kusho ukuthi uzonqoba zonke izinto ezimbi ezimenza azizwe edabukile futhi ecindezelekile.

Ukubona umufi ephusheni ejabule

Ukubona ephusheni kuyinto engaqondakali engasithatha ohambweni oluya emazweni ahlukahlukene. Phakathi kwale mibono ethokozisayo nedidayo ukubona umufi ejabule. Lo mbono ungase ubonakale uyimfihlakalo futhi udida ekuqaleni, kodwa empeleni unezincazelo ezithile futhi ungase uphathe imilayezo ebalulekile. Kulesi sihloko, sizohlola ndawonye izincazelo nezincazelo zokubona umuntu ofile ejabule ephusheni.

1. Injabulo nokwaneliseka kwangaphakathi:
   Uma ubona umuntu ofile ejabule ephusheni, lokhu kungase kube uphawu lwenjabulo ejulile yangaphakathi nokwaneliseka. Lokhu kungase kube isiqinisekiso sokuthi umufi uthole ukuthula ngemva kokufa futhi ulungile. Lo mbono ungaba umthombo wesiqinisekiso, futhi ubonisa ukuthi umuntu obona umufi ejabule uzwa ukuba khona kwakhe okungokomoya nothando.

2. Uhambo lwengqondo nengokomoya:
   Ukubona umuntu ofile ejabule kungase kube isimemo sokuzihlola ngokujulile ubuyena nomphefumulo. Lokhu kungase kube uphawu lwesifiso sokuthuthuka ohambweni lwakho olungokomoya nokuthuthuka komuntu siqu. Kubonisa ukuthi kufanele ufune injabulo yangempela kanye nokulinganisela kwangaphakathi ngokuxhuma nezwe lemimoya.

3. Uvuko kanye nokuphila kwangemva kokufa:
   Ukubona umuntu ofile ejabule kungase kube ireferensi yomqondo wovuko kanye nokuphila kwangemva kokufa e-Islam. Lo mbono ungase ube isikhumbuzo kumakholwa ukuthi kukhona ukuphila ngemva kokufa nokuthi injabulo yaphakade nokwaneliseka okubalindele ezulwini. Lokhu kungaba ukuqinisa ukholo nethemba ekuphileni kwangemva kokufa.

4. Ukuthula nokubekezelelana:
   Ukubona umuntu ofile ejabule kungase kube inkomba yokubaluleka kokuthula nokubekezelelana ekuphileni kwethu kwansuku zonke. Kungase kube isikhumbuzo kumuntu obona lo mbono ukuthi kufanele aphile impilo egcwele uthando, uzwelo, futhi amukele abanye njengoba benjalo. Lokhu kungase kube isexwayiso sezingxabano nezingxabano kanye nekhwelo lokuphenduka nokubuyisana.

Ukubona abangasekho ephusheni bekhuluma nawe bemamatheka kwabashadile

Abantu abaningi bakholelwa ukuthi ukubona umuntu ofile ephusheni ekhuluma futhi emomotheka kumuntu oshadile kunezincazelo ezikhethekile futhi kungase kuthakazelise isithakazelo nokucwaninga. Uma ufuna ukwazi incazelo yaleli phupho, nalu uhlu lwezincazelo zokubona umufi ekhuluma nawe emoyizela oshadile:

1. Injabulo yomshado: Lo mbono ungase ubonise injabulo nokuzwana emshadweni. Uma useduze komyeni wakho futhi uzizwa ujabule futhi ukude nezingxabano nezingxabano, khona-ke iphupho lomuntu ofile ekhuluma nawe futhi emomotheka lingaqinisekisa ukuzinza nenjabulo yomshado wakho.

2. Induduzo nenjabulo ebuhlotsheni: Uma umuntu ofile kuleli phupho emelela umuntu othize ekuphileni kwakho komshado wangaphambili, khona-ke lo mbono ungase ubonise isifiso sakho sokuxhumana nokubuyisana naye. Ungase ube nesifiso sokuxazulula izinkinga futhi uphinde uxhumane nokungavumelani okudala.

3. Ukuvalelisa okudabukisayo: Uma umuntu oshonile kuleli phupho engumuntu osondelene nawe, njengelungu lomndeni, lo mbono ungase ufanekisela ukulangazelela nokudabuka ngenxa yokulahlekelwa kwakhe. Leli phupho lingase libe indlela yokuveza imizwa yokudabuka nokulangazelela.

4. Umyalezo ovela kwabafileyo: Ukubona umufi ekhuluma futhi emamatheka kungase kukudlulisele umyalezo ovela kuye. Kungenzeka ukuthi umuntu ofile uzama ukukutshela okuthile okubalulekile noma ukucela ukuba wenze into ethile. Lo mbono ungase ubonise isidingo somuntu ofile sokufeza imisebenzi ethile noma ukufeza izinto ezimbophele wena.

5. Uphawu lwentuthuko ezayo: Ukubona umufi ekhuluma futhi emamatheka kungase kufanekisele intuthuko ezayo ekuphileni kwakho. Leli phupho lingase libe yinkomba yokuthi uzothola isixazululo sazo zonke izinkinga nezinselelo obubhekene nazo phambilini. Lo mbono ungase futhi ubonise ukuthi izinsuku zakho ezizayo zizojabula futhi zibe zinhle.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokubingelela abafile ngenkathi behleka

1. Izincazelo ezinhle:

• Ukuphupha ubingelela umuntu ofile ngesikhathi ehleka kungase kubonise ukuzwa izindaba ezinhle ezingase zifinyelele kulowo ophuphayo esikhathini esizayo esiseduze. Lezi zindaba zingase zijabulise futhi zilethe izinguquko ezinhle ekuphileni kwakhe.
• Ukuhleka okubonwa umphuphi kungase kufanekisele ingokomoya lomuntu oshonile kanye nenjabulo ekuphileni kwangemva kokufa. Leli phupho linikeza umbono omuhle wesimo esingokomoya kanye nenduduzo yengqondo yomuntu ofile.

2. Ukuhumusha komuntu siqu:

• Ukuchazwa kwaleli phupho kungase kuhluke ngokusekelwe ebuhlotsheni bomphuphi nomuntu ofile. Uma umuntu ofile aziwa umphuphi, iphupho lingase libonise isikhundla esiphakeme somufi nesimo sakhe phambi kukaNkulunkulu nokuziphatha kwakhe okuhle ngemva kokufa.
• Uma umuntu ofile engaziwa kumphuphi, incazelo yokugcina incike ekuchazeni kwakhe kanye nemizwa yakhe mayelana nephupho.

3. Izinto ezinhle nezinhle:

• Iphupho lokubingelela umufi ngenkathi ehleka lingafanekisela isinxephezelo sikaNkulunkulu ngazo zonke izinto ezimbi umphuphi adlula kuzo ekuphileni kwakhe nokuzuza injabulo nenjabulo ekuphileni kwakhe.
• Ukuhleka kwabafileyo ephusheni kungase kubonise izindaba ezinhle ezizofika maduze kanye nezinguquko ezinhle empilweni yomphuphi.

4. Incazelo ka-Ibn Sirin:

• U-Ibn Sirin ubheka ukubona ukuthula kumufi kuyilapho ehleka njengenkomba yokwesaba nokucasuka.
• U-Ibn Sirin ukholelwa ukuthi ukubona umufi enokuthula nokumgona ephusheni kubonisa ukholo, induduzo engokwengqondo, nokunikeza usizo lwaphezulu kumphuphi.

Ngiphuphe umalume wami ongasekho emamatheka nami

Ukubona abantu abashonile emaphusheni kungelinye lamaphupho abantu abaningi abahlushwa yiwo futhi aphakamisa imibuzo eminingi nezincazelo. Phakathi kwalezi zigameko kukhona ukuphupha umalume ongasekho emoyizela, okuyiphupho elivusa ukumangala nokucabanga ngalowo olibonayo. Kulesi sihloko, sizokunikeza uhlu lwezincazelo ezivelele kakhulu zaleli phupho.

1. Umlayezo wokuthula nokululama:
   Umuntu angase abone ephusheni lakhe umalume wakhe ongasekho emoyizela, egqoke izingubo ezihlanzekile nezinhle.Lokhu kumamatheka kungase kube ukubonakaliswa kokuthula nokululama umalume akuzwayo ngemva kokufa. Umalume oshonile angase afise ukudlulisa umlayezo wokuthula nesiqiniseko kulowo ophuphayo.Uma bekukhona ukungaboni ngaso linye noma ukungezwani empilweni, leliphupho lingaba yinkomba yokuthi lezi zinkinga zizophela futhi ukuthula nokuzwana kuzobuyiselwa.

2. Inkomba yenduduzo nenjabulo:
   Uma umalume oshonile ebonakala emomotheka ephusheni, lokhu kungase kufanekisela ukuthi uphila esimweni senjabulo nenduduzo ekuphileni kwangemva kokufa. Uma umalume egqoke izingubo ezimhlophe noma eziluhlaza, kungase kusho ukuthi uphila ukuphila okungenazinkathazo nenjabulo ezulwini. Lo mbono ungase ube inkomba yokuthi umphefumulo kamalume oshonile ujabulela ukuphepha nokuthula komunye umhlaba.

3. Isikhumbuzo sezikhathi ezinhle:
   Ukubona umalume oshonile emamatheka ephusheni kungase kubonise imizwa yephupho ngomalume kanye nazo zonke izikhathi ezimnandi iphupho elichitha naye. Umalume oshonile kungenzeka ukuthi uzizwa eziqhenya futhi ejabule ngezinkumbulo ezinhle abenazo ephusheni, futhi ufuna ukuletha injabulo nethemba empilweni yakhe.

4. Ithemba Namathuba Amasha:
   Isithombe sikamalume oshonile emomotheka ephusheni singase sibe umlayezo obonisa ukuthi umphuphi kufanele aqhubeke empilweni yakhe ngendlela enhle futhi abheke amathuba amasha futhi afinyelele imigomo yakhe. Lo mbono ungase ukhuthaze lowo ophuphayo ukuba anqobe ukulahlekelwa noma ubunzima obenzeke esikhathini esidlule futhi alungiselele isiqalo esisha.

5. Amazwi enduduzo nenduduzo:
   Uma owesifazane ohlukanisile ephupha umalume wakhe oshonile emoyizela, egqoke izingubo ezimhlophe, lo mbono ungase ubonise ukuthi uzoqeda ukudabuka nokukhathazeka okumthintayo. Leli phupho lingase libe uphawu lokuthi uNkulunkulu uzolungisa isimo sakhe, enze izindaba zakhe zibe lula, futhi amenze aneliseke ngalokho akufisayo.

6. Yenqaba ukufa:
   Kwesinye isikhathi, umuntu angase aphuphe umalume wakhe oshonile emoyizela, kodwa isimo siyashintsha futhi azizwe esola noma ehwaqabala ebusweni bukamalume. Lo mbono ungase ubonise ukuthi lowo ophuphayo uzizwa edabukile ngoba akazange athinteke kakhulu ngokufa kukamalume. Iphupho lingase lifune ukuveza imizwa yokudabuka ezihlotsheni zikamalume futhi lihlanganyele ekuhluphekeni kwabo.

7. Isexwayiso sesikweletu:
   Kwamanye amaphupho umuntu angase abone umalume wakhe ongasekho ekhala ngekhanda elibuhlungu kakhulu ephusheni, futhi lo mbono ungase ubonise ukuthi umalume wayenezikweletu futhi kwadingeka akhokhe izikweletu eziningi, leli phupho lingase libe isikhumbuzo ephusheni ukuthi kumele aqaphele futhi ahlele kahle ngokwezimali ukugwema izikweletu kanye nokuphazamiseka.

Ebona ingane efile ihleka ephusheni  

Ukubona ingane efile ehleka ephusheni kuyinto engavamile engase iphakamise imibuzo eminingi nemibuzo. Ithini isizinda sencazelo yalo mbono? Iphethe miphi imilayezo? Kulesi sihloko, sizocacisa incazelo yokubona ingane efile ehleka ephusheni kanye nalokho okufundiswa yizazi nabahumushi.

Okokuqala, kufanele sisho ukuthi izincazelo esizozethula kulesi sihloko ziyizincazelo ezijwayelekile hhayi izincazelo zomuntu siqu. Kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuthi ukuhumusha komuntu ngamunye kufanele kufunwe umuntu ngamunye ngokusekelwe esimweni sempilo yakhe, isiko kanye nesizinda sezenkolo.

Lapho ubona ingane efile ihleka ephusheni, lokhu kungase kube inkomba yobuhle nenjabulo. Umphuphi angase abone lo mbono njengomyalezo ovela kuNkulunkulu uMninimandla onke obonisa isiqalo esisha nezikhathi ezijabulisayo ezizofika maduze. Leli phupho lingabonisa indlela yokuziphilisa, ubuhle, nokugcwaliseka kwamaphrojekthi namaphupho alindelwe.

Ngakolunye uhlangothi, leli phupho lingase libe yinkomba yokugcwaliseka kwezifiso nezifiso umphuphi ozilindile isikhathi eside. Ingane efile ehleka ephusheni ingase ibe uphawu lokunqoba ubunzima nezinkinga umphuphi abhekana nazo ekuphileni kwakhe. Leli phupho lingase limelele isikhuthazo nokusekelwa okuvela kuNkulunkulu uSomandla ukuze lowo ophuphayo anqobe izinselele futhi aqhubekele phambili.

Ehlangothini lomzwelo, leli phupho lingase libe umlayezo kumphuphi ukuthi injabulo nenjabulo kuzobuyela empilweni yakhe. Ukubona ingane efile ihleka kungase kube inkomba yokubuyisela injabulo nenjabulo eyaphazanyiswa ngenxa yezinkinga nobunzima.

Lithini incazelo yephupho lokubingelela abangasekho ngesandla?

• Umphuphi ebona ukuthi ubingelela umufi esebenzisa isandla kuwubufakazi bokuthi uzothola ubuhle obuchichimayo phakathi nenkathi ezayo futhi lokhu kuzophumela ekuzizweni kwakhe kwenjabulo nenjabulo.
• Uma umuntu ebona ukuthi uxhawula umufi ephusheni lakhe, kuwuphawu lokuthi uzokwazi ukuqeda futhi anqobe zonke izitha zakhe ngaphandle kokuvezwa lutho olubi.
• Noma ubani obona ephusheni lakhe ukuthi uxhawula umufi, lokhu kukhomba ukudlula kwezinkinga nezinkinga kanye nokufika kwempumuzo nenduduzo ngemva kokucindezeleka okukhulu nosizi okwenza umuntu angakwazi ukubhekana nezindaba.
• Ukuxhawula umuntu ofile ephusheni kufanekisela ukuthi kukhona abanye abantu abanesifiso esinamandla sokumlimaza nokulimala, kodwa uzokwazi ukubanqoba.

Lichaza ukuthini iphupho uhlezi nabangasekho ukhuluma naye uhleka?

• Ukubuka umphuphi ehlezi nomuntu ofile, ekhuluma naye, futhi ehleka kuwubufakazi bokuthi uzosusa zonke izinto ezingezinhle ezimlawulayo futhi zimenze angakwazi ukuqhubekela phambili.
• Ukuhlala nomuntu ofile ephusheni ukhuluma naye ehleka, lokhu kusho ukunyamalala kwezinkathazo nosizi kanye nokufika kwempumuzo ngemva kokuhlupheka okukhulu nezingcindezi nosizi.
• Uma umphuphi ebona ukuthi uhlezi nesihlobo esishonile bese ehleka futhi ekhuluma naye, lokhu kukhomba ukuthi uzobhekana nezinkinga ezithile, kodwa uzokwazi ukuzixazulula futhi azinqobe.
• Iphupho lomuntu ukuthi uhlezi nomuntu oshonile bese ehleka futhi ekhuluma naye liyinkomba yokuthi uzozuza izimpumelelo eziningi namaphupho abengawalindele ngaphambilini nokuthi uzobe esesimeni esihle kakhulu.

Lichaza ukuthini iphupho labangasekho bebuka abaphilayo behleka?

• Uma umuntu ebona ephusheni lakhe umuntu oshonile ekhuluma futhi embona ehleka, leli iphupho elibonisa ukuma kwakhe okuhle esikhathini esizayo.
• Ukuhleka ebusweni bomphuphi kumuntu ofile kufanekisela ukukhululeka nenjabulo ngemva kokuhlupheka okukhulu nosizi.
• Ukubuka umufi ekhuluma futhi embuka ehleka kuveza ubuhle bakhe ekuphileni nokuhlala esiza abanye